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    Hello wonderful smart ladies of other work. Hope everyone is well.

    So, I've only been camming since christmas (on adultwork) so i'm still an amateur really. When I first started I would do toy shows in group chat, and it was a pretty much 'anything goes' scenario in private chat. Well, to an extent, nothing too hardcore/crazy.

    The past month I changed my mind about how much I was doing in group so now I wont use toys in there at all. It's basically me getting naked slowly and rolling around my bed I'm still getting guys in there and staying in for a good 6-10 minutes and then a good amount of looky loos/ under 2 minute guys too. So that's awesome. I'm not making bank but I've built up some regulars and I can see that improving over time.

    I am considering stopping using toys in private too. I don't have a huge problem with doing this for a guy but i DO have a problem with the footage falling into the wrong hands. It's not such a big deal being naked on the internet (in my mind) but doing myself with a massive rubber cock IS a big deal for me, and I just don't know if I'm comfortable with the idea that it could be floating around cyberspace for the rest of eternity.

    I am thinking of starting streamate soon. I'm going to be wearing a wig but i stupidly signed up with a similar name to my AW one. Does anyone know if SM names can be changed?
    Can I get away with not using toys on SM? I've got a good bod/face/personality (sooo modest too!) and have been getting away with doing very little on AW.

    I know some of you ladies seem to be doing fairly well on SM at the moment, is there for potential for me to do well by perhaps lowering my prices but not offering hardcore action?


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    I'm pretty hot and want to know if i can get away with not using toys on cam and still make decent money.

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    Default Re: no toys/doing less on cam

    I think some of the girls on here have said that they've done well without toy play.


    Don't do something that you're uncomfortable doing. It's not fair to you, and it will show on cam that you're not into it.

    Do you ever use just fingers? If you don't want to, that's okay too. I was just curious. Some guys are just happy with seeing something (like a finger) going into the pussy...or even just pussy closeups (so they can imagine sticking their dick in it).
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    Give it a try for a week and see how it goes mabey? Im kinda leaning towards doing this kind of thing in my shows too. I dont like dildos irl anyways lol. They do absolutely nothing for me. I have a tiny vibrator and thats all I need

    I really think if you are great at teasing, going slow and taking your time its much more of a turn on for men than just hammering yourself with a dildo anyways. Yes, that might be appealing if a guy wants a quickie wank but it seems like they'll stick around longer if you slow it down a little.

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    I think these back-to-back "Got a toy bb?" requests can be a bit annoying. I am mad tight, and yesterday when I was outside walking around, I'm sure I was looking like a girl who just lost her virginity or something, because I had this slight soreness that felt that way. Damn you, big dildo!

    It'd be nice to have a day of nothing but "Can you model oufits for me bb?"-type cam sessions instead of all these requests for toys. LOL.
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    Why don't you try MFC? MFC is definitely a site where you can get away with not doing anything like that. I swear MFC has some of the most business savy women it is unbelievable. These girls will get 5000-10000 tokens (250-$500)+ for not even getting naked but just playing games. I wish I was half as good as these girls in that aspect.

    But noooo, I make my $$ by hours and hours of toy play And then they wonder why I only work 1 week a month, lol.

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    you dont have to do toy play but i would have something on hand, maybe a paddle to smack your butt with, feathers to tease yourself with or a smallpocket rocket you can use on your nipples. guys like props. if you are creative you can come up with a whole lot of prop ideas. dont forget body paint or blacklight markers!

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    Feathers! I forgot about feathers! Genuis Crispy

    By the way Im still laughing at the Billy Mayes pic you posted in the other thread. My boyfriend was like...what the hell is so funny?

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    i just had my slave get me a feather duster toyu thing made by lelo i cant wait to get it

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    I for a VERY short time, tried my hand at camming, until my living situation changed. It has changed once again, so I'm in a position now where I can try it again, as soon as I clear an area up in my friends basement to cam from

    In my very short camming career, I've had just a few privates. My very first one I used a toy, and I don't know...I didn't like it. I felt so degraded afterwards. I myself don't understand why I felt that way because he was very nice, my private was 71 min long, and we probably talked for 65 of those mins. I felt very comfortable with him, but I don't know...I just felt icky when it was over. I beat myself up over it too, and felt like a failure at this. It still bothers me to this day, as I just dont understand it. I'm an escort now, and I don't have these feelings...? But camming made me feel degraded? Go figure, lol

    So since then, I found SW and I learned that it's okay to just do "you"

    In the few privates I've had after that intial one, I have never used a toy. I don't mind being naked, I can walk around all day naked, and I don't care who sees. I'm not a shy person, nor am I a prude, I just think that masturbating is a very personal experience for me, and I don't feel comfortable sharing. It doesn't bother me to see it, or that other girls do it, it's just not what I like to do. Maybe one day I will cross that threshold, but not today or anytime soon, that's for sure.

    As soon as I realized that there were other things I could be doing to make money online without losing my self-worth, I did just fine! It may take me a little longer to make that money, but once I get back on and work hard, I'm sure I'll be able to find custies who just like me for me

    So I say, do what makes you feel comfortable doing, and stay within your boundaries. I'm sure you'll make out just fine

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    I don't rely on toy shows to make a living. I make most of my income from guys who tip for games, raffles, or guys who just tip to make me smile. I very rarely do pvt shows and I don't penetrate in freechat. (At most, I just use a hitatchi). And the last few weeks, I've been "out of commission" because I had a vagina related surgery and can't even get fully naked...and while my income has taken a BIT of a nosedive...my boys for the most part have still been there for me and my current Spexyville raffle has been a success. So yes, you CAN make a living not using toys. You just gotta showcase a bit more personality and offer something just as fun!

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.adventure View Post
    I for a VERY short time, tried my hand at camming, until my living situation changed. It has changed once again, so I'm in a position now where I can try it again, as soon as I clear an area up in my friends basement to cam from

    In my very short camming career, I've had just a few privates. My very first one I used a toy, and I don't know...I didn't like it. I felt so degraded afterwards. I myself don't understand why I felt that way because he was very nice, my private was 71 min long, and we probably talked for 65 of those mins. I felt very comfortable with him, but I don't know...I just felt icky when it was over. I beat myself up over it too, and felt like a failure at this. It still bothers me to this day, as I just dont understand it. I'm an escort now, and I don't have these feelings...? But camming made me feel degraded? Go figure, lol

    So since then, I found SW and I learned that it's okay to just do "you"

    In the few privates I've had after that intial one, I have never used a toy. I don't mind being naked, I can walk around all day naked, and I don't care who sees. I'm not a shy person, nor am I a prude, I just think that masturbating is a very personal experience for me, and I don't feel comfortable sharing. It doesn't bother me to see it, or that other girls do it, it's just not what I like to do. Maybe one day I will cross that threshold, but not today or anytime soon, that's for sure.

    As soon as I realized that there were other things I could be doing to make money online without losing my self-worth, I did just fine! It may take me a little longer to make that money, but once I get back on and work hard, I'm sure I'll be able to find custies who just like me for me

    So I say, do what makes you feel comfortable doing, and stay within your boundaries. I'm sure you'll make out just fine
    Yes this is me exactly, I can escort all day and not feel a tinge of regret or shame or nastiness at all but with camming I sometimes very extremely awkward and dirty after some shows. Maybe because guys that sit on their computers all day jerking off are creepier to me personally that someone hiring an escort

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    Quote Originally Posted by minemind View Post
    Hello wonderful smart ladies of other work. Hope everyone is well.

    So, I've only been camming since christmas (on adultwork) so i'm still an amateur really. When I first started I would do toy shows in group chat, and it was a pretty much 'anything goes' scenario in private chat. Well, to an extent, nothing too hardcore/crazy.

    The past month I changed my mind about how much I was doing in group so now I wont use toys in there at all. It's basically me getting naked slowly and rolling around my bed I'm still getting guys in there and staying in for a good 6-10 minutes and then a good amount of looky loos/ under 2 minute guys too. So that's awesome. I'm not making bank but I've built up some regulars and I can see that improving over time.

    I am considering stopping using toys in private too. I don't have a huge problem with doing this for a guy but i DO have a problem with the footage falling into the wrong hands. It's not such a big deal being naked on the internet (in my mind) but doing myself with a massive rubber cock IS a big deal for me, and I just don't know if I'm comfortable with the idea that it could be floating around cyberspace for the rest of eternity.

    I am thinking of starting streamate soon. I'm going to be wearing a wig but i stupidly signed up with a similar name to my AW one. Does anyone know if SM names can be changed?
    Can I get away with not using toys on SM? I've got a good bod/face/personality (sooo modest too!) and have been getting away with doing very little on AW.

    I know some of you ladies seem to be doing fairly well on SM at the moment, is there for potential for me to do well by perhaps lowering my prices but not offering hardcore action?


    tl;dr:

    I'm pretty hot and want to know if i can get away with not using toys on cam and still make decent money.
    Yes hun, you can change your SM name - I did! Just email customer support and tell them what name you want it changed to. Hope this helps

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    I don't use toys anymore and haven't for awhile. Those type of shows just didn't suit my personality. I only do fetish and domination shows now and always non-nude.

    I still keep the shows sexy and sensual though. You can make tease and denial work for the non-fetish boys and they will still have a good time. Just talk about how you want them to jerk off and shoot a big load for you while you tease them.

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    Yes, you CAN 'get away with' no toy shows on SM. You can even still command a high price.
    Quote Originally Posted by sugarmouse0707 View Post
    What I DO have issues with, is that this was a couple of years ago And Judas is still in the freezer.

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    thankyou ladies, some golden advice here! feeling very positive about things today

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    I work on SM,but have never used toys. Of course I only average between 25-30hr,but that amount is fine with me. Most of my guys just like striptease,they don't even care that I don't use toys because 100's of other girls do. I also don't cum on cam either. There's always going to be that annoying custie that wants you to,but I just tell them upfront that I don't. I also never show my face in private,they don't even care. I've always been hesitant about using toys also because I didnt want those kind of videos floating around,but since I don't show my face,I might try it. Would love to average 40 and up,that way I could work alot less!! So mainly I think it depends on how much you expect to earn. If a low amount like me,you can easily pull that off. If a higher amount(40-50hr),yes you'll have to put in work. Whatever you do,just make sure your personality shines through

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    Mine, what a great thread, ty!
    &, Jessica, I love that "attempt to give a damn" in your siggy, SO COOL


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