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    Ok,I know there is a similiar thread going on dissing fake boobs. Nevertheless, I must say it is making me f ing sick how much other girls and customers are treating the matter. I got my boobs done for myself years ago and they r rather large. However, now the trend seems to be on hating the girl with the large fake boobs. I love boobs that rnt exactly proportionate with my body. I like the boobs to be a little larger than my hips. Right now there is like a 1 inch difference. I have mentioned how I would like to go a little bigger and EVERYONE says not to do so. I hate being on the runway with 19 year olds who feel its ok to go around and bitch to customers and seek sympathy bc they r flat chested while they r working with me and I am obviously not. Who freaking cares? Be happy with what u have.

    Its the whole cutting me down and talking shit about my boobs to make herself look better mentality that is pissing me off along with the customers anti-big-boob mentality that is pissing me off too. What do I need to do go work at hooters? Or is is like Melonie previously mentioned in another thread that in the small-town blue collar areas men r often intimidated by the larger than life large boob look? And therefore its actually I cant believe i am saying this-- but hurting my money to be so large? I like big boobs--they r my love- my passion.

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    I guess no one can relate...

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    Hiya!
    Well, I don't have 'em, but, if I had the $, I would def. get an augmentation, not necesarily big big, but larger. If I ever sit down & find the time, I will check out the my free implants, etc.
    Now, what I am blessed with, being slender, never going outside of 125-ish for many years, due to a hyper thyroid, that runs in my family. It's kinda cool, but it's a pain to continously have to eat, really. I also have hypoglycemia, so if I don't eat, I get the shakes.
    Anyways, I have people constantly hating on me for that, & I can honestly say I am truly fed up! No pun intended. I mean, I actually have people saying my life is perfect b/c I don't gain weight? WTF!
    I just had an incident in the grocery I shop at, this lady who works there, I used to chat w/her, & she actually made the above mentioned comment. Not only that, but her lazy azz flat out refused to help me when I asked her if they had more of *** product in the back (they did & she told me they didn't). I had to go ask another clerk.
    Today I just stopped in there briefly & she didn't say hi, so what, but it seems she has envy, well, wahaaa.
    So anyway, that's my experience, it seems to basically boil down to envy.
    I mean, if I want something, I try to get it myself, & not hate on someone else for it.


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    I can kind of relate. People are hating on mine already and I don't even have them yet. I'm getting a BA soon and the size I want to go, I guess is considered large for my body (that's what I'm being told) but I don't really see how that is?!?!

    I'm 5'6", 145 lbs, very athletic build.....and I want a D/DD if I can swing it. I've had people tell me I'm gonna look like a "freak", that it's gonna look like two basketballs on my chest, that guys aren't gonna like it.....which I highly doubt. I dunno, I have seen girls way smaller than me go to a D. I'm just not buying it. Again, I think the issue here is that people are jealous or afraid I'm gonna take all the money.

    Yes, there ARE guy out there that don't like big boobs but they are few and far between, in my experiences. Most guys I know who say they don't like big fake boobs are just insecure about themselves and believe that they could never get a girl with a BA.....so they go out of their way to try to prove that they don't want (what they really want)


    As far as letting these girls get to you and affect your money, DON'T!!!! If anything, be flattered. If you aren't making money, it's probably because you are letting these idiots bring you down, and it's showing on your face when your on stage. Even if you are smiling, but your still bothered inside, customers can tell. They have like this crazy 6th sense....I hate it, but it's true.

    Don't let them get to you! Get out there and make that money.

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    Maybe it's just the larger then life big fake boobs mentality you have about them . I mean seriously nice tits are nice tits & no1 should hate, but get real no boob job is larger then life & if you got them over done to where you made yourself top heavy (you know where they are bigger then your hips) not every1 is into it as you are.

    Yes There is money in it & many who feel as you do I'm sure. Hell there are many mags devoted to super big boobs, but yes like any other cup size there are going to be some1 who isn't a fan.

    As long as you love them & are happy & manage to make your money then why care whop says what about them.
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    I work with a girl who has really big fake boobs. Every so often when I'm talking to a guy who has been coming to the club for a while and this girl goes on stage or walks by, they'll comment about how she used to look before she got her boobs down, how everyone tried to convince her not to, and how much better she looked before. But guess what? She's banking every time she's in the club, going in and out of the champagne room and hardly ever sitting at the bar doing nothing with the other girls. So as irritating as it must be to deal with some people hating on your tits, I'm sure you're the one laughing all the way to the bank.

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    Every time haters are hating, they are only making you famous. Let em.

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    Thank u all...U all gave me excellent advice. The thing about me is that I like all boobs. I do not think--"Hey bc I have huge boobs Im the shit". I actually think that we need all body types to satisfy everyone who likes something different. I have had them done for a while now and obviously Ive gotten used to all the comments. What I have noticed now is how the comments have gotten worse over time with more people hating on me. Its as if smaller is more in demand now which is fine but do u have to hate on larger boobs to prove a point? Its as if people nowadays with so much stripper portrayal going mainstream that people collectively think bigger is trashy. I know not everyone is into big boobs hell not everyone is into Pamela Anderson or Jenna Jameson. But at one point it seemed like more people were and less people hated. Part of the reason I want to go bigger is to make them fuller..They have dropped in the 12 plus years I have had them and I kind of want them higher and fuller. Larger would achieve that and make me happy. I am working to slim down first before I make a final decision bc I want to improve my overall look and not think---Bigger boobs is going to fix my flaws bc that is pure bs--- the cellulite doesnt disappear w a BA unfortunately.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rookie2010 View Post

    Lol, funny..

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    I can kind of relate. People are hating on mine already and I don't even have them yet. I'm getting a BA soon and the size I want to go, I guess is considered large for my body (that's what I'm being told) but I don't really see how that is?!?!

    I'm 5'6", 145 lbs, very athletic build.....and I want a D/DD if I can swing it. I've had people tell me I'm gonna look like a "freak", that it's gonna look like two basketballs on my chest, that guys aren't gonna like it.....which I highly doubt. I dunno, I have seen girls way smaller than me go to a D. I'm just not buying it. Again, I think the issue here is that people are jealous or afraid I'm gonna take all the money.
    Ditto. I don't even have mine yet and I'm already getting sick of the ridiculous bullshit that people spew at me when they find out.

    It's bad enough when it comes from some plain jane housewife type but when I have to hear it from some bleach blonde, fake tan, porcelain veneered stripper wearing a pound of makeup and 6-inch heels, I literally want to vomit. Yeah honey, you're so "natural".

    It's annoying but I don't think there's anything you can do about it. People just seem to enjoy being judgmental assholes.

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    Really, count every girl who points you out with a "OMG Becky, her boobs are like so big..."
    as free advertising. You get to laugh all the way to the bank. TRUST me, the extra attention only helps $!

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    I love big boobs... If you were in H-Town, Texas, I'd visit you at the club and give you and your big boobs a big Texas hug...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    Every time haters are hating, they are only making you famous. Let em.
    I'm siggying that
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    I want bigger boobies now I want DD's
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    Thank u guys for listening and for ur feedback. I cant exactly speak freely with people about this stuff. Im grateful to SW and u all for listening bc frankly these days it seems like no one cares.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nuclear Martini View Post
    At my club there used to be a girl with HUGE boobs, bigger than any other boob job in the club by far. Before her boob job she was a 36c, after I think she was an f or g cup. She seemed to do well for herself, and customers seemed to like her.

    Maybe small town guys are intimidated by your larger set, I find small town folk to be annoying and not as open minded as city guys and well-travelled guys. Perhaps you should try an upscale club in a city?



    Great suggestion. I have been told that many guys think they have no chance w me as they put it and dont tip me bc of it. They think Im out of their league which is stupid. And when I try to be overly friendly they dont tip bc they think I am their friend. The going out of town thing right now isnt doable unfortunately although a great suggestion.

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    Since when, and in particular where.....are small boobs more in demand? That seems ridiculous, IMO. It's definitely not the case here in Tucson....I have to work way harder to make $200 a night then girls with BA's who consistently walk out with $400 or more.....effortlessly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    Since when, and in particular where.....are small boobs more in demand? That seems ridiculous, IMO. It's definitely not the case here in Tucson....I have to work way harder to make $200 a night then girls with BA's who consistently walk out with $400 or more.....effortlessly.

    It does depend on the club though...remember that thread a few months back about certain clubs only hiring "waif looking girls?"
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    I have been told that many guys think they have no chance w me as they put it and dont tip me bc of it.
    I experienced this as well as I was progressively gaining cup sizes early on in my dancing career. Such attitudes generally came from 'regular guy' customers in neighborhood clubs ... the kind of guys who hold self-delusions that they would actually be able to build genuine relationships with dancers as a result of persistent club spending on those dancers.

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    I just want you to know I don't feel this way but... there is this view of "Doesn't that girl know she's a freak show with those boobs" out there-like a lot of people definitely think there's a point at which the girl's gone to far with her boob size. If you love them and are happy with them; then you should make peace with the possibility that huge boobs are more of a "fetish" type deal and gravitate to customers who have that fetish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    I experienced this as well as I was progressively gaining cup sizes early on in my dancing career. Such attitudes generally came from 'regular guy' customers in neighborhood clubs ... the kind of guys who hold self-delusions that they would actually be able to build genuine relationships with dancers as a result of persistent club spending on those dancers.

    The regular guys make up 99% of my business. They assume that the only guys who will get my attention r the ones who drop alot of money bc they assume thats what Im used to. One actually said that he though dancers went for the rich guys or the super hot guys which isnt the case. I rather stick to stage dancing only so going out of town isnt an option at this point in time. Some girls have suggested that I go out of town to the bigger clubs. I would either have to go to DC or someplace In NC like Raleigh. And for the cost of hotels, food, and gas there is no guarantee after all those expenses that it will be worth it. I used to work out of town once a week about 80 miles away and the money I was making def wasnt worth the drive. Anywhere else thats a bigger club area is 200+ miles away from where I live and thats DC for example and it isnt worth the wear and tear on vehicle and time spent traveling. Part of the issue is that I dont want to do lapdances at this particular point in time. I may have mentioned this before but our shifts r only roughly 2 hours.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Camateur View Post
    I just want you to know I don't feel this way but... there is this view of "Doesn't that girl know she's a freak show with those boobs" out there-like a lot of people definitely think there's a point at which the girl's gone to far with her boob size. If you love them and are happy with them; then you should make peace with the possibility that huge boobs are more of a "fetish" type deal and gravitate to customers who have that fetish.

    Well it seems like not too many guys have the "fetish" u r speaking of around here. U r right about me needing to make peace w the fact that they r somewhat unaccepted around here in this conservative Bible Belt freak area. Some people may think w 34 F/G/Hs that I have already gone too far. I dont see that at all but that is prolly bc I have had them for quite a few years and I am more than used to them. Right now I am working out more frequently to tighten up the rest of my body. I think when U gain a little weight boobs look even smaller. If I can redefine my stomach and waistline it will improve the look of my boobs. When I lost some weight previously I had girls who came up t me asking if I got another BA. I replied that I hadnt, I just lost a little weight and toned up and that helped.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    It does depend on the club though...remember that thread a few months back about certain clubs only hiring "waif looking girls?"

    Tempest,

    You are absolutely correct. There is a top club around here that will not hire me bc they frankly told a very well-to-do customer who was irritated w the fact that they didnt want me working there bc my body type doesnt fit what the club wanted.(I am 5'4" more of a muscular build w a little stubborn fat yet I am toning up nicely and 132 pounds--a size 4/6) They wanted all their girls the size of a bean pole. The well to do customer who adored me stated that not every guy likes super skinny. In this area skinny, with little boobs seems to be more desirable. Prolly bc it is a more innocent look. The porn star look which is more of what I have isnt as innocent looking. With this being more of a small town area even w all the military and such I think more guys get off on the "Barely Legal" look rather than the hot porn star, Jenna Jameson look which is more of what I provide.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shift_6x View Post

    You are absolutely correct. There is a top club around here that will not hire me bc they frankly told a very well-to-do customer who was irritated w the fact that they didnt want me working there bc my body type doesnt fit what the club wanted.(I am 5'4" more of a muscular build w a little stubborn fat yet I am toning up nicely and 132 pounds--a size 4/6) They wanted all their girls the size of a bean pole. The well to do customer who adored me stated that not every guy likes super skinny. In this area skinny, with little boobs seems to be more desirable. Prolly bc it is a more innocent look. The porn star look which is more of what I have isnt as innocent looking. With this being more of a small town area even w all the military and such I think more guys get off on the "Barely Legal" look rather than the hot porn star, Jenna Jameson look which is more of what I provide.

    Here we go again, club managers hiring girls based on what they like, not what their customers want. I'll never understand it......

    I've got small boobs A/B cup, but everything else about me is the "porn star look"......I'm def NOT innocent looking. I'm a freelance makeup artist by day so I like to do my makeup very professionally and heavy for work. My fave look is the black smoky eye with the pale lip (we even call it the "porn star" look in the makeup world!), false lashes, fake nails, big hair, very tall shoes, and I like to wear gowns and one-piece mini-skirt type outfits.

    One of the clubs that I commute to out of town in by a base and 75% of the clientele there is military......they eat this look up, they love it. A friend of mine who I work with is also my same look, only she's got the porn-star Bettie Page thing going on, we do stages together and the guys love it.

    On the other hand, in town I have a way harder time. They seem to like this "barely legal" look here.....and ya know what? I don't have that look, I don't want it, and even minus the makeup, nails, and whatnot.....it would be impossible for me to pull it off. I'm sorry, but I'm a WOMAN and I look like a WOMAN, not a girl, thank you very much. Not dissing on it, and good for the girs who have that look and make $$, it's just not for me.

    Whatever look you are comfortable in is what you should rock. It's worse IMO to try to fake another look just because you are convinced that it's what the customers want. Believe me I've tried......I'd rather be comfortable in my own skin, feeling confident than try to be something that I'm not.

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