I know I wont. I dont want any kids close near my age, dont want kids now at all.. I have other focuses. You are under a lot of stress Kelly. If you are doubtful in this situation, then I wouldnt recommend on doing it. It doesnt hurt just to leave the way you are.. then there is an option of getting preg and adpoting. You have been through a lot and know the risks unlike a female who gets knocked up without the proper knowledge. I think getting your tubes tied can wait or just left alone to keep all options at open.
My mothers friend really wanted kids. But her doctor said she was not able to reproduce. They tried (mostly) everything, since they wanted both genes in their child. From sperm banks, to freezing eggs etc. They tried, tried, tried and tired -- for about 5 years. Around age 45 she finally got preg with her hubby - without any medical help! She was so happy.. I still remember the look on her face. Now a few years later, her daughter is heathly. I dont see why you need to take such a strong decision, if you do want kids, keeping it open would be at best. But its your body, do what you think is best!

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