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    Ok kind of long so bare with me lol.

    I own a company that I take photos of hot girls and modified trucks. We use the photos for lots of upcoming products, calendars, posters, etc.
    Im looking to open up a more xrated version of some of the stuff and have been looking for girls.

    Well I figured 'hey hit up a strip club, they would probably be up for side work'. < sorry if this offends anyone, its just how my thinking process works.

    Anyways, went to one the other night. Found a gorgeous girl, seriously one of the best bodies and such a pretty face. My question is how do I proceed on finding out if shes interested in side work?
    I do NOT want to come across as a creeper as I am absolutely not. I am a girl so makes it easier, and can provide samples of the photos to show its not porn.

    Do I talk to the club manager for permission as well?

    I just always feel weird asking girls in general about modeling for me.

    Any ideas?? I really want this girl, she'd honestly make a great addition.

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    Default Re: Proper way to proceed?

    just ask her. give her 20 bux for her time to listen to your speal, and have samples of your work to show youre legit.

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    I did think about providing the 20$ for her time, have no problem with that. What about the club? Do I need to request permission or ..?

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    Default Re: Proper way to proceed?

    I've never worked at a club that was okay with customers soliciting girls for other work.
    That said... plenty of men solicit models anyway. Sometimes the girl is fine, they get work... sometimes they complain and the man in question gets kicked out.

    If you want to play it safe and not get asked to leave later on, go ahead and ask. ;P
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    haha ya thats what i dont want to happen is getting kicked out. i dont believe im in any way taking away from their business, so i'll have to make sure they know that.

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    Default Re: Proper way to proceed?

    Personally, I'd bypass asking the club, but that's just me. Most dancers are independent contractors and used to being solicited for various things, from sex to modeling work to other jobs. She's a big girl, and if she's not interested, the worth that'll happen is that she'll say no - I can't see many girls going to complain to management to have you kicked out. That send, I second handing her some cash for her time and bringing along a portfolio and business cards to look more legit. Don't be pushy or demanding of her time, and, ideally, speak with her during a quiet time so she isn't missing out on money (she'll also likely be more willing to hear you out then). That said, be prepared for her to not believe you or say no, and respect her response - but even if that happens, you aren't really any worse off than when you started.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    I can't see many girls going to complain to management to have you kicked out.
    Yeah... that usually only happens to creepers looking for girls to do porn in his basement.
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    I second the bringing in of business cards, but I think a portfolio might attract too much attention unless you are like, hiding in a corner, and then the management will see that you are soliciting girls and possibly kick you out. Management will probably be watching you pretty hardcore anyways if you go in by yourself as a girl, they might think you're there trying to solicit customers. Maybe bring a guy in with you, just to stick out less. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Proper way to proceed?

    be ready to pay her. it'll show her you're serious and legit. give her your business card, which should look like a legit business card, not some cheapo one that anybody can get to pretend they have a business. be willing to prove you are who you are and that your business is real. be willing to pay a fair price for nude pictures that will exist forever and ever.

    understand that she might not be "out" as a stripper, and might say no to you just because she doesn't want people she cares about to see them. a lot of strippers do actually come from fairly conservative families.

    honestly, you should just look on model mayhem or something. a lot of those girls are willing to do legit nude work for money. and plenty of those girls are strippers.
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