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    So today I was chatting with the dj. I mentioned I hadn't done a VIP. Some of the girls have done four already. He was like "go ask ***" I just gave him a sarcastic look. He was like "want to bet. i'll ask him if you're shy" I just laughed and said I wouldn't care as long as he payed.

    How awkward would that be! I would NEVER ask. Has anyone ever danced for a manager before? He is really cool/ nice and not the type to take advantage (as far as I know) He tipped me on stage today, and says hello, is always polite. But STILL I'd be so embarrassed. Ugh.

    Out of curiosity has anyone ever actually sold a dance to a bouncer/ manager/ dj etc.

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    No no no no.... Thats unprofessional of them!

    They manage the stripclub, or their whatever task they have (whether manager, DJ, or bouncer). You are there to serve customers are so are they. I dont see how or why a manager (or any employee) would spend money, or "task trail" the girls. Im sure he was joking, or the manager just likes the free shows.

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    Eww.. I could never dance for anyone working @ my club. This reminds me of some of the "I had to do a LD for my audition" posts!

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    In Paris one of the owners would occasionally come in and sit in the corner, but the new girls never knew he was an owner so he'd have a constant stream of girls approaching him to ask for dances.

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    That's just asking for trouble! Not only would it totally change the dynamic of your working relationship, but you can bet it'd start some nasty rumours too. It's one thing for a manager (or any other support staff) to watch a stage show, clap (oftentimes management and door guys will do this at my club to encourage customers to do the same), or even tip, but buying a dance or VIP is just crossing the line, I think, even if they weren't on duty.

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    I know right. He just seemed so serious. The club I'm at is very laid back and the management loves to chat up the girls but come on. I just had to ask if anyone would find that to be a "no big deal" kind of thing. lol

    in one way i could understand how some managers/ bouncer/ djs etc might buy a dance b/c their jaded/ indifferent to the whole thing. they could just want to feel out a new girl.. you know?.. as long as they paid and didn't try anything extra.

    but still you're right it could change the dynamic of a working relationship, start rumors etc

    Like I said, I just has to pry to figure out whether anyone had done it before or know of a dancer who has.

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    I would NOT be comfortable with this and would feel it was crossing the line.

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    I would not like it. I know one club would often ask dancers to give other employees free dances but I never did that. The closest I came to this is one club I asked a guy for a dance and turns out he was the owner! Luckily he told me and tipped me anyway.

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    I always used to try to get the district manager for my old club to get a dance because he commented one SUPER slow day and how badly I was doing for someone who, looking through the books, normally does so well. I was like "There's no one here, what do you expect? Why don't you get a dance? Come on, **** get a dance! What's the matter? You don't want me to suck your DICK!? COME ON ****, GET A DANCE LET ME SUCK YOUR DICK!"

    From that point on every time I saw him I was like "LET ME SUCK YOUR DICK!"


    It was completely unprofessional of me... and it was HILARIOUS.
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    ^ lol
    Yeah that is kind of the dynamic of my club as well. I'm quite shy but the others girls will joke around with the managers no problem.

    Hm since we're anonymous on here has anyone actually crossed the line and had sex/ dated a club employee. There is one bouncer all the girls have a crush on.. I think he is adorable but not my type... I wonder...

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    ^ lol
    Yeah that is kind of the dynamic of my club as well. I'm quite shy but the others girls will joke around with the managers no problem.

    Hm since we're anonymous on here has anyone actually crossed the line and had sex/ dated a club employee. There is one bouncer all the girls have a crush on.. I think he is adorable but not my type... I wonder...
    Yeah, a waiter at one club and a bartender at another. Bad idea, cause then it sucks to watch them move on to the next girl. No regrets though

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    ^ lol
    Yeah that is kind of the dynamic of my club as well. I'm quite shy but the others girls will joke around with the managers no problem.

    Hm since we're anonymous on here has anyone actually crossed the line and had sex/ dated a club employee. There is one bouncer all the girls have a crush on.. I think he is adorable but not my type... I wonder...
    Yes I dated a bouncer and a DJ. I broke up with the bouncer amicably but the DJ was guy from hell. I would never date anyone I worked with, dancing or not because of the drama.

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    ive seem an owner of one of the clubs ive worked for get a dance, but he did it with a new girl, she didnt know he was the owner, he did it because apprently she was breaking the no touch rules, but he said she danced within the rules so it was ok.

    The same owner has actually gievn me 20 quid after i did my stage dance, he was praising some new girls that could work the pole really well, and the house mum was like "actually one of our dancers here already is better" and got me on the pole haha, so he gave me 20 quid to say thanks haha. i was kinda shocked lol.

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    Joking about VIP with a manager is in my opinion fine if you work in that kind of laid back comfortable club. However, actually doing that VIP would be way over the line.

    Also I have worked at a club where the bouncers were just scumbags trying to get free dances and fuck the girls.

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    Absolutly not.

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    I would never dance for any employee/owner ever. At one club the kitchen cook came out of the kitchen to watch my show, I talked to the manager and he never saw another one of my shows again! I don't mind a manager seeing me on stage here and there, but I think it's inappropriate to watch a whole show/stage set.

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    I danced for a general manager before, at his request. It was weird for me.

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    I think it would be one thing if the girls were asking the managers/owners ( with them answering no) but for them to ask the girls is way unprofessional and almost verging on harassment. I would feel uncomfortable to say no, like my job would be jeopardized, but even more uncomfortable to say yes.

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    We all flirt with each other at my club, but it's all in jest and it's a laid back place. The only other employee I'm dancing for is another dancer.

    I HAVE accidentally stuck my boobs in a guy's face who turned out to be the owner of a bar I work at- neither of us knew! It was a mutually awkward moment.

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    I didn't end up staying at this club, but when the manager was going through all the guidelines with us newbs, he said if it was a slow night for us or any of the other girls, he would buy a few dances from us to help us out, and we'd get to keep the whole $20 from him without giving 10 to the club.

    So under those circumstances it didn't seem like it would be too weird or anything. But a manager actually asking would be, for me.

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    That IS weird, though. ^^

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    I have plenty of times they really arent supposed to but i was already skrewing the guy so no harm in a paid for dance lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by CoCo917 View Post
    Eww.. I could never dance for anyone working @ my club. This reminds me of some of the "I had to do a LD for my audition" posts!
    Im right there withyou about doing a LD for my audition. that was the very first club I went to and I was new to dancing period and he took advantage of that. even auditioning for Deja Vu and Platinum and other clubs i never had to prove myself like that.
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