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    After reading all of this, I think it's simply amazing that you girls take so much stock on being honest and being on the up and up with men, What exactly do you think they are doing behind your back??? But somehow, as women you feel the need to be so honest and forthcoming with everything when men never give you the same courtesy. Unless you are married?? you owe NOTHING to men.

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    Men are not all created equal. Just because the men you have met have been douche bags, doesn't mean the men in our lives are. In my experience, men are just as human and caring and forthcoming as women are.

    My boyfriend is also my best friend. We've been through some serious shit together, and he's one the best human beings I've had the pleasure of meeting.
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    My ex knew what I do. As far as dating I have told guys or I say I do nontraditional work online. I work off of what comes in. Some days its slow some days I am super busy. I only tell if I am feeling them. The ones who know are now friends not bfs but they are cool. When they want to hang out they just ask me if I am working. If I am working and they message me they understand if I am slow to respond. I have bills and I pay them.

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    My Daddy Dom approves of me camming.
    W/we met while I was stripping (not in the club). I quit when I moved in with Him.
    I have cammed for fun on Adult Friend Finder because He loves watching me & the responses from guys
    He knows I've been wanting to cam for awhile & told me I could use the second bedroom as my work space.
    I'm excited to start cleaning the room and get started this week. He thinks it will be a good thing for me to stay committed to and keep focused on. He owns His own business and knows how to market, so He is going to help me in that aspect also. I am glad He is more than supportive.

    The first time I cammed I was 19 and engaged. My ex fiance said I could do it and we agreed upon it, but I could tell He hated it. He was happy I was upfront and knew it was something I wanted to do, but I wish He was honest and would've told me how he truly felt instead of pushing me away.

    Either way, I believe it is best to be upfront. The lying will eat you up and eventually he/she/whoever your partner is will find out.
    Best of luck with your relationship. I hope it turns out for the best.
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    When I told my boyfriend I was quitting my shitty hourly job to do this, he said, "Look it's none of my business how you make your money. It's your body, your decision, but I'm glad you told me". He jerks off to girls doing shows for free on MFC, so he knows what goes on.

    He's not prince charming, but he's not controlling in the least. I have an instant allergic reaction to phrases like "get permission from my guy", and the like.

    I'm not your property. I'm a human being - your chosen partner -, who is fully capable of making my own decisions. While his input will carry a lot of weight, I get to make the final decision. I feel really safe knowing he's around. I feel sorry for anyone stupid enough to stalk me.
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    My fiancee is actually the one who encouraged me to start camming. Then once we moved he encouraged me to just do cam as my only job and quit my shitty fast food one. He wasn't too keen on the idea of dancing or escort because he doesn't want me hurt but we also have an open relationship so pretty much I am not "owned" in anyway.

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    My boyfriend encouraged me when I brought up the idea. He's never tried to set any limits on me, camming or otherwise. He's really a catch, I love him.
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    My boyfriend helped me research camming and has been very supportive. He even falls asleep on the couch every night until I get finished working and I wake him and bring him to bed (I have to cam in our bedroom). He's been awesome through all of it...even my mood swings with slow days on cam lol.

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    I'm also in an open relationship, which I feel makes a big difference. With the right open relationship that is, like anything, they are not all created equal.

    It helps me/us discuss my camming because we've had mucho practice being open and honest with each other. Camming has not made any of the men in my life jealous in any way either. I think if they know I'm sleeping with other people, masturbating or rubbing food in my hair for men on the Internet is really, really minimized.

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    Default Re: How does your significant other feel about you camming?

    I had to quit camming before because it caused such a rift in my relationship. My (then) fiancee told me I was a whore, and that he couldn't possibly call me his wife after "what I had done to him". We broke off our wedding and our relationship, got back together, and then... he cheated on me with his ex and impregnated her.

    So after getting laid off from my "real" job, I decided to say "fuck it" and throw caution to the wind, and started camming again just to spite his lying ass. And you know what? It feels awesome, and I really should have stuck to my guns all along.

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    Default Re: How does your significant other feel about you camming?

    My husband had a few issues early on when I started PSO'ing. After a blow up and talking, it boiled down to his pride. He felt that he wasn't adequately providing for us and that I "had" to take this kind of job. We talked it out and things have been great and he has absolutely no problem with camming. He's the one I go to when I've had a particularly shitty day, or on the occasional emotional day, when I get my feelings hurt because some jackoff called me fat or ugly ect. He's always there to assure me that I'm perfect and hand me a beer and a kind word when I'm frustrated. He kicks my ass into gear when I'm lazy and is overall just amazingly supportive.

    Perhaps your boyfriend is having the same issue with his pride? He might say things like he doesn't want guys looking at you, or people seeing what's "his", but at the end of the day it's just his own insecurities coming through. I'd have a more in depth conversation about it with him, and see if it's just he's against the camming because of attention from other men, or if it's something deeper. Good luck to you

    annnnd I just realized this post is like 3 yrs old..well good luck anyways haha
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    Quote Originally Posted by chickchick8182 View Post
    My husband had a few issues early on when I started PSO'ing. After a blow up and talking, it boiled down to his pride. He felt that he wasn't adequately providing for us and that I "had" to take this kind of job. We talked it out and things have been great and he has absolutely no problem with camming. He's the one I go to when I've had a particularly shitty day, or on the occasional emotional day, when I get my feelings hurt because some jackoff called me fat or ugly ect. He's always there to assure me that I'm perfect and hand me a beer and a kind word when I'm frustrated. He kicks my ass into gear when I'm lazy and is overall just amazingly supportive.

    Perhaps your boyfriend is having the same issue with his pride? He might say things like he doesn't want guys looking at you, or people seeing what's "his", but at the end of the day it's just his own insecurities coming through. I'd have a more in depth conversation about it with him, and see if it's just he's against the camming because of attention from other men, or if it's something deeper. Good luck to you

    annnnd I just realized this post is like 3 yrs old..well good luck anyways haha
    Still a good thread! The beauty of this site is when u find a good thread like this that died off.

    My hubby introduced me to camming and I have been loving it ever since. Its a huge turn on for him as well. I probably have the opposite problem as he is often telling me I should work more or push harder. I ignore him or try to explain to him why I dont like it but its something that makes me cringe as soon as I know the conversation is turning towards how much I didnt work.

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    Default Re: How does your significant other feel about you camming?

    I was looking for this thread! Okay so my last boyfriend claimed he was fine with it, that it turned him on, and when I asked him to keep it between us..he told me he would. Well, he literally told his best friend that same day or shortly there after. Because his alcoholic self got trashed and admitted to me that he told his friend, and that his friend told him he "shouldn't be with someone like that" and that it would diminish intimacy between us. Meanwhile these are two boys who were born with silver spoons in their mouths and never have had to struggle soo... after that, I'm not going to tell anyone about it unless we are very serious.

    But that brings me to another issue...what about dating? When you're getting to know someone and they ask you about what you do (always the first question) I basically lie and tell them about a vanilla job I recently had. But I feel bad lying. Unfortunately a lot of corporate/upright people seem to go for me so I'm convinced they'd never love a cam girl...

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    you have to do what is right for you, but lying to him isnt the way, you are doing nothing wrong so why lie about it? be honest and firm and tell him this is who you are and what you want





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    Default Re: How does your significant other feel about you camming?

    I used to dance so to us this isn't a big deal. Now when I don't give him enough sex or get "dirty" enough for him then he gets pissy...buts generally only around his time of the month lol. However, it's been different since I started doing strictly indy camming. I am not sitting in front of a computer for 2u3049u320 hours a day and I only go on when I get a phone call or an email from someone wanting a show. It's nice and I don't feel so restricted. Plus this money is extra money for his bike so he can't be bitching!

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    My husband is 100% supportive. He helped buy/set up me with a lot of the setup things for camming and my cam room. He encourages me on good days and bad. Really couldn't have asked for anything better, honestly.

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    I'm dating a wonderful guy who actually encouraged me to get back into it after I went AWOL for a few weeks. I was scared to tell him at first (He seemed so clean cut, you know?) But I told him and as it turns out, he *really* likes it! Says its a turn on. Now I feel like a damn fool for keeping it from him!

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    There is a problem though with this..he doesn't respect your privacy and I recently had an encounter similar needing a "sit down talk" which helped greatly. With camming, people are GOING to see you regardless of his request to keep yourself private (which is going to impact your business/camming) He has to be comfortable with the whole idea of camming for it to even work. (Not saying it can't, but its really hard working with jealousy and insecurity.) There are going to be various genders watching you across the web.

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    I am skeptical of any guy who cannot accept what I do as work. I understand that they may not be ok with it at first, because of the nature of it. But saying he will never change his view is a red flag. Does he watch porn? Of course he does. If he could get paid to watch porn would he? If he could get paid to jerk off for women, would he? Of course he fuckin would! It's hypocritical. He has to be willing to put himself in your shoes. Just because he wasn't blessed with boobs and a vagina to make that kind of money doesnt mean he has to be so unwavering and unaccepting of what you do.

    I know my guy never ever says anything about my work. He holds all his emotions in (which I hate) and I get the feeling what I do bothers him on some level but he will never say that. He knows its my only livelihood and wont interfere. And I totally understand the jealousy aspect from a practical point of view, but he has to be willing to work on it

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    Default Re: How is your relationship with your Significant Other as a cam girl?

    Guys are weird that way...one guy who is a great regular said that even he would be uncomfortable at the thought of his girlfriend camming, even though he KNOWS its all just a fantasy etc. I think they dislike the shared intimacy, not so much the concept of you showing your parts around.

    As for me, I figure if dudes who have been around the sex industry feel uncomfortable with their partners doing it, there is literally no hope. So my relationship is nonexistent.

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    So I've thought of trying out the cam biz from time to time, but never really thought seriously on it. 2 reasons, I was never aware of sites having a "geo blocker" (score) and my dad, one of the cliche closet pervs who spent hours browsing "smut" and I sure AF didn't want him coming across me in anything. He passed away in June unfortunately) so just one more thing that kind of helped in my final decision. (I really hope that doesn't sound horrible. )

    Well, I'm having trouble deciding on when and how to tell my husband. He's oblivious almost all the time, and he isn't the type to go rifling through Web history or anything.

    Mostly what I want to do is wait and see how much money I make, to show him it's definitely worth it. He is a logical man, so I'm almost 100% positive he will ultimately be fine with it. And just fine, not comfortable. It's just I don't want to bring it up to him and end up not doing well and having to explain that when he asks how it went, or if I don't make a lot I'm afraid he will see it as not being "worth it" per say...I'm not sure how to word it. Basically I'm not sure how he will react, so my plan is to hopefully come to him with the little bit of good news that comes with it (money) instead of telling him, and him possibly getting upset, and I haven't even done anything yet (waiting for SM review and approval).

    Also he is not too intricate of a thinker, when this does get brought up, the amount of time I kept it from him is going to be irrelevant to him, he's just going to think about how he feels about his wife doing sexual things online for money.... but even though we are scraping along we can use the extra cash, no one is actually touching me, and it's virtually almost 100 unlikely anyone we know will come across me.

    How did you break it to your SO? how long did you wait? How did they react?

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    I told my SO the moment I started entertaining the idea of camming, because we're kind of co-dependent and I just can't imagine hiding something this big of a deal from him even for a little while. He's mainly okay with it, even fairly involved when it comes to taking pictures and choosing toys and outfits, but he does worry that I'll be less sexually available/interested in him given that I could be spending all day masturbating on cam. I could definitely see sore bits being a big obstacle.

    I haven't had my First Day of Camming yet (c920 got lost in the mail...grr) but I've just been approved by Chaturbate and am waiting on SM. Also going to apply for LCMS and MGF later tonight. Woo!
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    When did you submit your application to SM?

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