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    When I first started dancing everyone knew.. BD, Mom, Friends.. They were as supportive as they could be and let it alone. After some time off, and a decision/audtion later.. Im going back... but this time around I have some pprehension towards saying anything about it at all... Not becuase of shame, just more to let the ones who are close to me not worry so much... Im terrible at keeping a secret when it comes to family (guilty heart)....

    So I'm really just wondering if anyone else has choosen to keep this job title away from certain people in their life..

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    Sometimes you have to hide this job from people, it's just a fact. Sometimes it's for your benefit, sometimes other peoples', sometimes both, sometimes just because you don't want to deal with people ebing judgemental.

    In your situation I think you really have to think about whether it will hurt your family more to be lied to or to worry about you. My family found out, and they can't handle it, so its better that they think I "quit", better that I lie to them, than tell them the truth and upset them more. It is an executive decision you have to make.

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    Just tell one person. God forbid something ever happened to you they would know where to start tracing your whereabouts.

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    If they were relatively supportive of it, don't you think that would continue with dancing round 2? If you're bad at keeping secrets and have a terrible guilty conscience, it's inevitable that it'll come out and they'll find out. Like Odette said, the secrecy would probably hurt them more, especially since it seems like they didn't express any judgment or distaste for your stripping the first time around.

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    Only one person know I have gone back to dancing an I kind of regret telling her...
    You want a piece of me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by CoCo917 View Post
    When I first started dancing everyone knew.. BD, Mom, Friends.. They were as supportive as they could be and let it alone. After some time off, and a decision/audtion later.. Im going back... but this time around I have some pprehension towards saying anything about it at all... Not becuase of shame, just more to let the ones who are close to me not worry so much... Im terrible at keeping a secret when it comes to family (guilty heart)....

    So I'm really just wondering if anyone else has choosen to keep this job title away from certain people in their life..
    The only people who know I dance are my friends who either exotic dancers or pole dancers. No one else in my life knows. I have a govt. job during the day so I commute an hour away to dance just so that I won't run into anyone I know. If people start finding out I'll deal with that then but for now Its my little secret just like Xscape says... lol

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