I hear you on this, but one thing I will say is that I truly feel it is an art all of its own to be able to play your fantasy role so well that guys believe it really IS part of your personality, and they still keep coming back over and over again when you are online.
I hate to admit it but at this point I am pretty much being forced into free chat. Furthermore, I'm about one option away from being forced onto MFC spefically, and I've totally adopted the "adapt or die" approach to life in general, but camming more precisely.
As a dancer it made me more money to be the fantasy girl. On Niteflirt... fantasy. Indie... fantasy. But I'm seeing more and more now that I'm going to be expected to sit and talk and play games and entertain for hours on end rather than being paid immediately for giving out any attention, and with the MFC style tipping system I don't really see how that level of interaction could be sustainable long enough to generate any meaningful income unless I'm actually enjoying my time on cam.
Truthfully up until... oh... three days ago I just couldn't relate to the whole idea of *enjoying* camming. Like, the entire sex industry has been one big business for me in that the only thing that has ever mattered was the point of sale. Did I ever really have *fun* lap dancing? No. But I loved collecting money each 3 minutes for doing it. I never really *enjoy* NF calls, but I feel it's worth 70% of whatever I feel like charging that day to pick up the phone and rattle off a few random words to a man I don't know.
Simply put, free chat has been the very bane of my existence as a sex worker. For a decade it's been totally unheard of for me to give my attention and sexual energy for free to anybody, in any increment of time. BUT... I do see how MFC is "free" enough to allow a girl to actually find what she does like, what she *is* comfortable with, and do only that... so with that said...
I've disagreed with your approach in the past because it's been ingrained into my very being for 10 years that this is "work, not play", but at this point I totally understand where you are coming from.
I still jump for joy when guys want roleplay, fetish, some elaborate fantasy, or just to wank it and send me on my merry way (because it's WAY less energy and WAY less time). But times change. I'm willing to change as well, but only as much as I absolutely have to.
Sorry for the novel!!!
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