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    So I'm older than most dancers of the dancers in my club but they all think i'm their age (20/21) etc. One girl is the sweetest but she is definitely a little slow and she recently had a tragedy where her father was found dead in a car (Baltimore.) I'm in the back getting ready and she walks in and starts setting her stuff down... then she proceeds to say "You don't mind if I have a little fun do you?" I don't know what that means... I thought she was about to masturbate or something... no... she lays out a line of coke and sniffs it up like it was nothing... now Im in shock and trying not to stare... I mean I've seen this type of thing in the movies... but the girl is 21 and looks 30+ already in the face. :-( I felt so sad for her.... she then proceeds to say I'm sure you smoke your weed and such... and Im like no...i've never smoked anything ... it was just kind of a strange moment....

    Later on that night i went back to freshen up and she's in there straightening out her money... Next thing you know she's sitting on the stool and her EYES are rolling back up in her head and she's swaying... I ask her if she's okay and she's like she's not feeling that well....I'm openly staring at her cause I don't know if she's about to die or what... I ask her if she needs me to get some help and she's like no i'm okay... with her eyes steadily rolling back in her head...

    Has anyone had any crazy drug experiences with other dancers? How do you deal? Do you try to help them or just let them be? She's so young to be going down that path :-(

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    Default Re: My first drug run in...how do you deal or try to help?

    I smoke weed and do a little bit of coke here and there. it sounds like that girl either sniffed a line of heroin or did some benzos while you weren't in the room.

    personally I wouldn't get too wrapped up in it anyone else's drug habit. just ignore it. don't try to help unless they ask you.

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    You have to just learn to ignore it... or move to a club that has less tolerance for open drug use.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    You have to just learn to ignore it... or move to a club that has less tolerance for open drug use.
    Sad but true. If you get too involved in her (or any other girl like that) drama, it'll only bring you troubles. When it comes down to it, you can't 'help' her unless she wants to get help. By all means, be nice to her and if she's in a bad situation, help her out of it, but don't feel like you need to go out of your way to try and get her off drugs or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    You have to just learn to ignore it... or move to a club that has less tolerance for open drug use.
    So true, it's all over the place in this business. She's going to come across a lot more of it...

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    O.O Jesus. I think it's best to leave her be, unless she seriously needs medical attention. That is scary, though. Was this in a Baltimore club? Do you mind me asking which? I dance at the Ritz.

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    if it's baltimore, guessing it's heroin. place is FULL of H

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    Agree with the other girls... it is probably unlikely to be coke. Coke would make her more alert and shed probably be running around the club, non-stop chatting. Shes obviously having a hard time and turing to drugs but its not your place to intervene. You did the right thing by asking if she is ok but you dont know anything about her or her situation so cant really judge or help. I would perhaps mention to management about the open drug use. Thats really bad.

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    My heart aches for hard luck stories/cases, but there is nothing you can do really. You can talk to her if that makes you feel better, give her the number to a grief counseling place, but I doubt anything you say will get her to stop doing drugs. She has to come to that decision herself or hit rock bottom.
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    Welcome to stripping=) As it has been mentioned previously, you'll see alot of that.

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    You have to learn to look the other way. Don't ever get involved.
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    I think it takes a certain kind of person to walk away from someone when they're hurting. I don't think I could be that cold. Sometimes people just need to feel like their not alone.

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