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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    Nope. I mind my own business. I think most managers don't really want to know anyway. They just want the money to roll in without having to mire in the details. They don't give a darn who rubs through the pants or does whatever discreetly. They dont want to police each lapdance. I think talking about the white elephant makes them suspicious that you will just cause problems. Thats no good, I'd rather be the happy, fun dancer that the manager grabs for his best VIP tables.

    The only way I'd speak up is if there is something blatant going on. Like sex or a BJ where others can see. Managers would want to know about something like that, because that puts everyone in danger of a bust.

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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    The only way I'd speak up is if there is something blatant going on. Like sex or a BJ where others can see. Managers would want to know about something like that, because that puts everyone in danger of a bust.
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    Other than that... managers know how dirty their club is... not really any point in bringing it up.


    If you want to be clear that you liked the club/management but that you're not making much money and you think you'd like to take a break from working there... then just say that. There's not really any need to tell them you're going to go work for another club or that you feel like you're not making money because the other girls are so dirty.
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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    I wouldn't say anything at all. If you want to work somewhere cleaner, then just do so. You don't have to around announcing it to the whole world. The staff and managers aren't stupid. They know what is going on and they profit off of it. So it's best if you feel that way to just dissappear. You're a dancer, that's what you do. You don't like the club? Move on. Nobody is going to question you on it nor is going to care. Dancers come, dancers go. It's a high turn over rate. That's the name of the game.

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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    I'm lucky I don't have to. My club is as strict as can be. I've seen girls fired for the smallest slip ups (not brushing a guy's hand away fast enough because she's drunk, even though she's a split second from it).

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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    Managers dont care about your opinions. Thats why they became a manager. So they could do what they want and not give a shit. But I agree with others anything blatantly illegal they would want to know about. Not that extras arent, but in plain view or obvious.

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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    in my experience, every manager knows who does what. if they cared, the prostitutes would be fired.

    one asshole manager at a club I no longer work at made a big show of always saying "oh I caught Ginger again. so disgusting!!!" and made her pay a fine, but did he ever fire ginger? NOPE!!

    I wouldn't be surprised if the fine went straight into his pocket.

    most of the extras girls will tip out the lap dance cashier or the bouncer to keep their mouth shut as well.

    so I'd suggest not bringing it up to the manager. they'll pretend to empathize with you, but at the end of the day, the prostitutes are making more money for the club than you EVER will.

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    It's been made known that I don't but I didn't say it. I am from a filthy town so from day one they watched me like a hawk. Added to that three girls from my city, known whores, also worked there so ppl assumed I was like them. So, I was doing a VIP and I was only girl in entire dance room, sec comes in dance room, not room I'm in but near, says to other sec hey I need your help with a situation. Sec 2 looks at board and says I'm in VIP. Sec 1 goes whaddaya need I'll help. Sec 2 says you're gonna leave Ms.Mphs in here? Sec 1 says she's not gonna do anything. She's one of the few I don't have to worry about at all. She's no problem and I actually trust her.

    2nd incident: A dancer comes up to me in hallway between manager ofc/dressing room complaining about a girl fucking in VIP. I make it clear if it was that apparent to her, then it is equally apparent to management and if she doesn't like her job to quit. I told her she could go complain if she wanted to but obviously someone knew and was getting paid so why was she complaining? The manager on duty can only do something about it if the general manager wants to do something about it. That's the limit of their power. I mean the club isn't a whorehouse, most of these KY club hoes use discretion to a fault, so I can't complain. Girls walks away. My manager yells from office, because he has heard entire exchange, "preach, girl, preach."
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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    I think I made it pretty clear when I grabbed this bitch by her nappy Rick James wig and slammed her face into a table repeatedly. You'd think as often as she sucked dick she could upgrade her wigs.
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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    I'm done bitching to my managers... They just turn shit around on me anyways.
    Me: Did you see that girl?? She's flipped upside down with her pussy in that guy's face (wich is a huge no-no btw)
    Management: Yeah well you were grinding for 20 secs and not 10 secs like you're suppose to... plus she's new she doesn't know better.

    Ugh, whatever. So in other words, she's tipping really good.

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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    I know as everyone else about here that extras happen. I'm in sofl there is just too much of it everywhere. Management plays dumb, but they know who even are part of it getting their extras free or cheap. Still all dancers are independent contractors here so they don't see no evil speak no evil even if they cash in on it.

    I frankly don't care so long as I still make mine & every1 stays on of talking about the fact I'm a lesbian who is not going to do this or that in the vip rooms to my custies while I'm on stage selling me way out for being know to be a clean dancer. That pisses me off cuz then hoes are messing with my money, but generally I don't care what they do so long as they mind their own & stay out of my way.

    Now I do get pissed off & say something when hoes start forgetting they are strippers not cheap street walkers & start offering or doing price cutting dirty tricks on lapdances or other things that might get the club shut down & everyone taken in cuz it lowers everone's money & I'm not doing any jail time 4 their stupid shit. There are rooms 4 a reason & a general standard set on them if you have to do 20$ bjs to get in them then hustle on the street & get into some1 car don't do that at a sc. Either be clean & make your money accordingly or be a greedy hoe doing yr thing for some real money, but don't be a cheap hoe lowering every1 else's standard becuz you can't complete.
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    Default Re: Do you make it known to your manager that you disapprove of extras?

    If you're in SF, I think I know what club you're at. I worked in SF for about 8 months and I could NOT hang, except at the Gold Club- and who knows what that's like now, seeing as Danny died.

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    It's crazy because certain girls break rules all the time. Like upside down pussy showing flips on lap dances for $10 which are supposed to be no contact. But, some girls get marked and some don't. I have two chubby chicks that come see me every weekend and I do NO contact table dances for them because that's what they like and some bouncers mark me and some don't even though I DO NOT touch at all. These ladies are good for 4 of these plus 20-40 onstage. At least ten every set and they don't come in until 1-1:30am and we start shutdown 2:45. That' s how it goes.
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    eh. i like them to know i'm clean, so they know why they aren't getting more than minimum tipout from me. other than that, complaining doesn't matter. they already know. they'll just tell you to mind your own business, to focus on you, that it doesn't matter. on the upside, usually if you hear that you know they're paying off the police, so you're probably safe from a bust.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    Bleh I figured you guys would say that and I guess I agree with you. I guess I'm just frustrated because the management is so professional and so anti drug and anti drinking that I can't figure out why they would risk letting all the extras go on.

    I'll just work extra hard on toning up so I can move to a bigger and better club. Thanks guys.
    just so you know, there's probably a lot more drug use going on than you know about. they're just anti-blatant use. and they're worried about girls passing out in the dressing room when they could be making the club money. they don't want the girls causing them trouble.
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    They don't care. One club I worked at a girl was caught by the DJ giving a BJ in the VIP and nothing happened to her, no fine or getting sacked. At the same club I asked a guy if he wanted dances and he said he was only there for sex . Then another dirty dancer approached him and they talked and left for the VIP together. She then came out and asked the manager (who I just happened to be talking to) to turn the lights down in the VIP! I told him what I thought was going on and he really didnt care. He said he turned the lights down for girls who didnt get a close shave etc.

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    ^those days just make me wish I could quietly taser people, gloat for a few seconds, and then walk away.

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    i think everyone in my club knows that i dont do extras since i had to specifically tell the VIP hosts to NOT advertise the fact that we have no cameras in the CRs.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I agree with what others have said. I would keep my mouth shut or find another club. (FIND ANOTHER CLUB!!! is my real advice) Management in my experience doesn't give a shit about what girls say, and get annoyed with drama, ive seen girls lose their good shift complaining about other girl's private dances. If management wants to do something about it they will do it on their own.

    I've worked at clubs I know girls are doing a few extras: grinding (in portland, OR its not allowed at most clubs), masturbation, hand jobs, etc. I just tried to work the shifts with more security so that stuff is less prevalent (weekend nights instead of weekdays when there is no security and I saw girls straight up getting into customers cars between stage sets)

    If you keep your head up you CAN make money as a clean girl at a semi-dirty club....but if girls are straight up having sex in VIP and it's really prevalent, its more hassle than its worth, and if you do happen to get a customer in VIP they will be pissed you didnt meet their *ahem* expectations.

    good luck!

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