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    Default Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    They are hating because they are working more hours and barely getting by. If they were doing alright, they would have their own business to tend to!

    While the appropriate response is "Whats it to ya?" Work goes by easier when we all pretend to get along. So you say "I have a day job" or "Have to wait for the babysitter" or "Have to wait for a ride" or "I take evening classes" Don't act you are the princess who can't be bothered to work like they do.

    If you make better money, never let on. They don't need to know, it only attracts hater-ade. If girls are rude enough to ask how much you make, give VAGUE responses like "Tonight was ok." or "Tonight was slow" even if your slow night is their best night. Keep it on the DL.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    I wouldn't tell them anything. Its none of their damn business why you get there later. Everyone cannot get to the club at 6:00, which I think is too early anyway, especially if you have other things going on in your life.

    As far a asking you how much you make, that is out of line, too. Why are they so worried about what you're doing? They need to be focusing on their money and their hustle, not yours.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    They might wonder how well you do financially seeing as you work less hours than them, esp if they are asking how much you make and what do you say to customers. Maybe they are suspicious that you are doing extras/outcalls.
    I've never had anyone ask me these questions, and I wouldn't answer them at all. You don't need to explain yourself. You could say that a perk of being an independant contractor is that you turn up when you want and you don't have to answer questions etc. Or if they are trying to help you (which I doubt) then you could just say you were studying etc.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    It always annoyed me when the shift started at 8:00 and I was the ONLY girl who was ready and on the floor at that time. The rest of the girls would come wandering in anywhere from half an hour to three hours late. But hey--more money for me. When you're one of the only girls on the floor for a stretch of time, you get all the business. I used to make a good chunk of my money in the first and last hour of my shift, simply because all the other girls said, "There isn't any money in the club at that time." Sure, there was money--it was in my purse. And I believe that however different this job is from a normal job, it's STILL your job, and you should be professional and punctual just like you would be at any other job.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    Ugh. Don't sweat it. Just hit the IGNORE button and keep on keeping on.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    I work at a club where there's no schedule (except for day shift girls), and was told when I was hired that I could come in whenever I wanted to. I can also leave whenever I want to which is why I'm confused this is happening to me.
    I don't know, I've never worked at a club that didn't have a very specific schedule. They really don't have a time they want you to come in? Maybe you were told one thing, but other girls were told to be at work by a certain time.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    That's flipping weird. I prefer to come in later if I could but I have a few guys come in early before the rest of the people get there. Obviously they jelouse, just keep on makeing your money and when they ask how much you made say "idk I haven't counted yet".

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    So ignore them, they really don't care when you come in, they are concerned about their own money making. I assume they are just busting your balls thats all.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    theyre jealous that you can come in, pay a super high house fee, work only 2 hours, and still leave feeling going into work was worthwhile. i personally am one of the early birds and get nervous if i have less than 6 hours to make money, so when i see girls arriving at 11pm at a club that closes at 2am i get a little jealous that they can work so little hours and still make money.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    Must be a slow week and they have nothing else to carry on about.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    Quote Originally Posted by Courtesan View Post
    I wouldn't tell them anything. Its none of their damn business why you get there later. Everyone cannot get to the club at 6:00, which I think is too early anyway, especially if you have other things going on in your life.

    As far a asking you how much you make, that is out of line, too. Why are they so worried about what you're doing? They need to be focusing on their money and their hustle, not yours.
    My thoughts exactly.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    just tell them it takes time to fuck all your boyfreinds.........

    the hell with them if the club is OK with it keep doing it...

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    I don't see its any of their business.
    At my club we have strict times (door opens for staff at 9, we have to be there by 9:30 at the latest and ready for 10 to open for customers). I always arrive early as the dressing room is small and I like to get in, get my usual spot, get ready and get out the way before everyone else crowds in.
    There are still girls who come in late, or who arrive at 9 but aren't ready until 10:30 (wtf are they doing in there?!?) but I'm not the manager and its not my place to say anything to them.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    i agree with firemaiden it's annoying when you're the only girl who shows up on time and then you're getting bitched at to be on stage for HOURS. but hey! that's their fault for showing up early!

    also (I'm not accusing you of anything at all here, but) at EVERY club I've ever worked at, the extras girls are the ones who usually tend to roll up at the club around 10pm make a grand in 4 hours and then leave. maybe they think you're doing extras?

    or they may not realize that you can't be at the club until 9 and think that you show up late because you feel like it and when they see you they're like "oh this snob thinks she can show up whenever she feels like it when we all come to work on time!"

    but, it's probably just like most of the girls said. they're jealous that you can make enough money to get by in less time. you're consistently a better hustler than they are and they're mad!

    WHATEVER the case is, it's petty and they're worried about you for what? is hating on you gonna make them more money? no!

    I would just be glad that your presence bothers them so much because since they're focused on you, they won't be making as much money.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    I haven't read all of the replies but my club is open 6-2. I personally think it is very unfair that the majority of the girls show up late. It sucks ass for me since I'm responsible and there on time. Do I need to be? Heck no, I make good money and there are plenty of other things I can be doing. I am a full time student and I'd love to spend more time with my boyfriend or doing homework (well not the homework part, haha).

    Anyways, when everyone shows up late and we open with only 2-3 girls and I'm one of them I have to dance 3 songs for 1 or 2 dollar bills. Normally we only do 2 songs but when there are no girls we have to do 3. So I'm working harder for no money while other girls are late for no reason. Girls who have a reason for being late (school, babysitting issues, etc.) I understand but when you don't come in to skip the slow time I don't think that is cool.

    This is a HUGE problem at my club (girls showing up late) so I'm not making this post to attack you, I just have a huge problem with all of the girls at my club who do this. The managers always say something about it but they don't do anything about it and it drives me nuts. Especially since everyone pays the same thing at my club, whether you are there on time or 3 hours late.

    I would love to pay to come in late but I try to follow the rules. I'd love for it to be as simple as not caring but it's hard not to care when I have to dance more and pay the same thing as girls who come in whenever.

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    Default Re: Girls making a big deal about my arrival time at work

    Personally, I love coming in a little bit earlier than us girls are scheduled to be in. Saturdays, for example, club opens at 1:30, girls are scheduled for 2, so many roll in past then. I like to get there for 1:45, and always make a nice chunk of money off the one or two guys who are there, just waiting for dancers to get there. Other girls, like you, roll in late, stay for a couple of hours, and catch the end of night rush, which is where a lot of the money is. At my club, it dies around 7-8ish, and then picks up around 12-1am. If you come past 9, you have to pay a higher house fee, but you also aren't stuck sitting around at the bar with 20+ other girls, just waiting for customers to come in. That can really put a damper on your mood, and, in turn, your hustle, so paying that extra fee can be worthwhile. Different things work for different girls, and unless there's some rule you weren't told about when you were hired about being there at a certain time (and still haven't been told about, for whatever reason), then keep on doing what works for you and ignore the other girls. While they're gossiping about you, you're on the floor hustling.

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    Eh, screw them. I don't understand why some girls in this industry can't just mind their own damned business. Like, shit....you're not fucking with their money so they need to shut the fuck up and start seeing how they can personally increase their own earnings INDIVIDUALLY. Women in the industry need to worry about themselves period point blank. The cattiness is honestly very stupid and only hurts their earnings ultimately. With all of the new girl hating, pretty girl hating, fat girl hating, big tits hating, small tits hating.......like damn bitches! WHY DO THEY GIVE A GODDAMN? I'm sorry, I'm just ranting from all of the illogical petty competitiveness. Bottom line, if the guys like you, you make money. They don't, it's on you or them, NOT another girl. Bitches need to calm their cunts down....

    Anyhow, fuck those twats. Keep doing your thing. Stupid cunts have nothing else to do but bitch about you because you've got something they want when they should be focusing on themselves. Will complaining about you pay their bills? Doubtful. Hugs, no worries love.

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    I say that I can come in when I want because I have big tits.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AriesDanceFlame7 View Post
    Eh, screw them. I don't understand why some girls in this industry can't just mind their own damned business. Like, shit....you're not fucking with their money so they need to shut the fuck up and start seeing how they can personally increase their own earnings INDIVIDUALLY. Women in the industry need to worry about themselves period point blank. The cattiness is honestly very stupid and only hurts their earnings ultimately. With all of the new girl hating, pretty girl hating, fat girl hating, big tits hating, small tits hating.......like damn bitches! WHY DO THEY GIVE A GODDAMN? I'm sorry, I'm just ranting from all of the illogical petty competitiveness. Bottom line, if the guys like you, you make money. They don't, it's on you or them, NOT another girl. Bitches need to calm their cunts down....

    Anyhow, fuck those twats. Keep doing your thing. Stupid cunts have nothing else to do but bitch about you because you've got something they want when they should be focusing on themselves. Will complaining about you pay their bills? Doubtful. Hugs, no worries love.
    It's ironic that as money gets harder to make, girls are more likely to turn on each other rather than focus on improving their game more. Weird.
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