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    I was seeing a guy ~ he is in his forties and was always great to me. However he has had some girl (and she hates me) trying to set him up with one of her friends. One night they were in bed together and he says that the girls "drugged him".

    I have since stepped away from him ~ we were not serious anyway, but all I asked for was honesty and respect. He lied about it and I had to see pictures of him in bed with her friend (they were kissing in the pics).

    I hate to be so cynical...and a lot of us ladies have had our drinks spiked with bad things. But I find it so difficult to believe him. Maybe because he is a man or maybe because he covered it up since November.

    I am over it but I just wanted to see what some of you had to say. He wants to stay friends which is fine but he keeps trying to explain what happened and I shut him out because honestly it is so hard for me to believe that two chicks drugged him to sleep with him and take pictures and send them to me months later.

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    Default Re: He Says He was Drugged?

    Bizarre. If I read your post right, he climbed into bed with two girls willingly? THEN they drugged him? Seems the betrayal happened before the alleged drugging. Anyhow, you're right to find his memory lapse (this happened in November?) troubling.

    Now, if you two had an open relationship, that'd be one thing. But then you wouldn't be questioning, wouldn't be posting in the first place. Right?

    If your question is simply, Is this possible? Yes, it's possible--but unlikely.

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    The fact that he would just completely fail to mention it until forced to would make me seriously question whether or not it's the truth.
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    Why not hear him out? May as well if you're asking us since we can't divine what really happened. If anything you'll either spot inconsistencies or something will make sense. Just do it on your terms by calling him unexpectedly to meet and then point blank having him tell you so he doesn't have much time to arrange his lies (if they are lies.) I would also emphasize that you're okay if he'd slept with them willingly, but you wish he'd given you a heads up that this was the type of relationship he wanted. If he then starts to change his story, and you aren't okay with him sleeping with other chicks, well, I don't see why you shouldn't be able to lie just so you can see if he's telling the truth or not.

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    Fail.

    Don't waste your time. He's not even a good liar. But the point is that he's a liar.

    There are PLENTY of other men out there who will not a.) cheat on you or b.) lie to you or c.) cheat on you and lie about it.
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    He cheated. He lied about it. He told such a stupid lie that either he is an idiot, or he considers you to be one. Why would you still want to be friends with him?

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    AGREED ! FAIL!!

    What guy even tells a woman that someone is trying to "hook him up" with someone else. This is a guy that needs to overcompensate. He apparently is intimidated by you more than you realize.

    There are so many things wrong with this story that I can't even begin.
    1. He needs to tell you that someone wants him? Hmm this is the text book... women want me bs that guys need to tell a woman that gets major attention. He's having issues with that.
    2. In bed with these women? Umm how did he even get over to their house?
    3. Knows these women don't like you? Why would a man I'm seeing be around women that can't stand me , knowing that they are trying to fix him up with another girl.
    4. Girls send you pictures of him kissing other women? Hmm yeah this guy wasn't drugged , he probably made sure the damn camera had the flash on.



    FAIL FAIL FAIL. THIS GUY NEEDS WAY TOO MUCH ATTENTION. THE ONLY THING I WOULD DO FOR HIM IS BUY HIM HIS OWN STRIPPER POLE. TRUST ME HE NEEDS TO MAKE YOU FEEL LESS BECAUSE HIS EGO CAN'T DEAL WITH HOW MANY GUYS COME AT YOU. PASS!!!!!!!! AND NO DON'T BE HIS FRIEND. HE WILL ONLY CALL YOU TO TALK ABOUT ALL OF THE NICE THINGS HE DID FOR SOME OTHER WOMAN. A DESIRE TO RUB STUFF YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IN YOUR FACE.

    PS THIS GUY MAY NOT EVEN BE 100% STRAIGHT.

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    Worst. lie. ever.

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    ^ Yeah, I gotta say that as far as lies go, this is pretty out there. I mean, even if there was a SLIGHT possibility that he was telling the truth about being drugged, why the hell did he wait so long to tell you? Plus the pictures about it...this just screams bullshit.

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    Thanks everyone so far ~~ I tend to agree. I was just thinking maybe I was being sexist in my opinion...but the more I think about it the more ridiculous is seems!

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    ^ Yeah, if I was drugged and ended up in some guy's bed, you better believe the first thing I would do is tell my fiancee, and the second thing I would do is call the cops. None of this waiting four months to mention it...how fucking ridiculous is that?

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    ^^^^ Amen.
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    My ex militard pulled a better one..When I lived with him in Deming, NM I used to drive an hour and 1/2 to work in El Pisso. One night I dropped him off at a hotel party in Las Cruces. (it was on the way)

    When I came to get him at 4 in the morning, he was butt naked in bed with 2 other GUYS!!!!
    He told me that he had gotten drunk and pissed himself so that's why all 3 of them were naked and there was cocaine and condoms scattered around.

    This was the one that drunkenly commanded me to apologize to "Microdick" (my nickname given to his genitals during a heated argument)
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    Thank Travis for my aversion to small penises. I tried to make it work because I loved him, but between his bullshit and drug use, I couldn't do it. To this day, military guys who do too much coke and have small dicks are a no no for me. He was cute though!
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    Bullshit! What a loser he is.. Trying to get pussy and keep you along by his side. Dont see him again. DONT BE FRIENDS. Ignore and stop all contact, or else he will still bother you.. and you just might get in bed with him and the same thing will happen over. He seems to be lying.

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    I think even worse than the lying is the fact that he believes you are so fucking stupid that you would buy that excuse.

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    I think most women would know not to drug a man for sex because he might not be able to hard & then the night is lost. If anything the guy is stupid for that response.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    I think most women would know not to drug a man for sex because he might not be able to hard & then the night is lost. If anything the guy is stupid for that response.

    I dont know........I was once drugged...by this hot blonde girl and her two Pterodactyl friends...they made a video..and from the looks of it, i performed just fine....

    ...of course i am a pterodactyl also, so maybe that was it.

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    He sounds like a cockended jizz pigeon. Men will lie about anything if they think they can get away with it. Im wondering what he could have been drugged with that would make him awake and conscious to take kissing pictures, but to not be aware of what he was doing.
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    He's a liar. If it was me, I would play a cruel joke of some sort on him to teach him a lesson. He'll just keep lying. He's creative though, I give him that.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mindy Bares All View Post
    Fail.

    Don't waste your time. He's not even a good liar. But the point is that he's a liar.

    There are PLENTY of other men out there who will not a.) cheat on you or b.) lie to you or c.) cheat on you and lie about it.
    Yes they are called gay men. Or perhaps they are Ken dolls that neither lie nor cheat but they don't talk either.

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    Did the 2 girls send you the photos? If so then I think that shows how desperate they are and it could be possible. I have met some seriously crazy women and some of the schemes they come up with are unbelieveable. I had a friend many years ago who was drugged and he was so embrassed about it. He did call the police the next day but they didn't do anything about it.

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    Why would you even consider being friends still w/ someone that obviously thinks your an idiot. No offense

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    Quote Originally Posted by katerina29 View Post
    Did the 2 girls send you the photos? If so then I think that shows how desperate they are and it could be possible. I have met some seriously crazy women and some of the schemes they come up with are unbelieveable. I had a friend many years ago who was drugged and he was so embrassed about it. He did call the police the next day but they didn't do anything about it.
    I agree with you on this. I've had a few of my guys friends get drugged and raped (yes, a woman can rape a man, people!). They were totally humiliated, never went to the police, or told hardly anyone. Rape is rape and drugged is drugged.

    Think about it if the situation were flipped. If I were drugged and/or raped, I personally would tell the police, but I wouldn't tell ANYONE else... especially someone new I was dating that I really liked. I didn't tell my husband about my horrific sexual abuse until we had been married for several months. It's embarrassing, and demoralizing.

    I'm all for equality, and personally, I'd give him a chance to explain himself.

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    That is perhaps the most lame excuse I've ever heard in my life for such a situation.

    Two girls drugged him and raped him? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! That's AWESOME!

    Here is a list of excuses that are better than that....

    "They asked me to test out their mattress to see how springy it was, and I said ok. I guess I just took the test a little too far"

    "They asked me to perform an act from "Hair" in their bedroom. I just wanted to test out my acting skills...well, one thing led to another, and ...."

    "I was with them at the bingo parlor, and they said they left their bingo markers in a bin under their bed. I went to look for it with them...and while I was looking....whoa!"

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