
Yes! The best thing a mentor or anyone else can ever do for you is get you on cam. Anything else that anybody tells you honestly doesn't even matter. You will really have to give it some time, find your boundaries and interests, and adapt, adapt, adapt as you go along. The same thing that makes one girl $100/hr can clear another chick's room in 60 seconds. But no matter what you PLAN to do, THINK about, DREAM of or IMAGINE... none of it will come to fruition unless you "get your ass on cam"! Love ppg for that quote.





Adreama: I am not experienced, so I couldn't help, but I would if I could. I wish you good luck with whatever you decide.
Random: Good to know that the cut throat atmosphere exists everywhere!![]()
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt



I learned everything I needed to learn about camming in my two years I have been live. I have went through these up and downs and hardships and becoming how I am now (banking etc...) by doing my own research and trial and error. Why should any of us give the tips of the trade to someone who obviously can not even do their own research. That is just lazy as hell.



You say "lazy," I say "honest." I don't know. I don't think there's anything wrong with the OP asking for help. Actually, I think it takes a lot of guts to ask for help.
For every 5 interesting posts on here, there's always someone who asks a dumbass question that's been answered a gajillion times before. Like, a really simple question, that could be answered really simply, with a really simple search. At least the OP has been doing her reading.
Not everyone learns the same way. I'm pretty hands-on, and I don't like having people looking over my shoulders. But mentorship really works for some people, and that's why it's really, inspiringly common in every professional field. If we want sex work to be taken seriously as, well, work, we'd do well to abide by some of the conventions of the professional world.
She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
- Virginie Despentes,
All I wanna do is get my pussy sucked / count a million bucks in the back of an armored truck.
- Lil' Kim, "Suck My Dick"





I'm still signed up on GameCrush too, though I don't really log in anymore because it's been a waste of time for me.....and I believe they actually lowered the pay rates a bit too?
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This shit is creepy!
And BuffyFlame is right. A guy who is that crazy about you can get info on you without you ever mentioning your real name/town/phone number. All they really have to do is spend enough time in your chatroom and pay close attention to details. And Google can be more powerful than you think.....
I don't think I have any stalkers, but it creeped me out one day when a MFC guy (I didn't even know this guy or what his MFC name was) e-mailed me and kindly told me to please be careful, because he Googled my screen name and found a bunch of stuff I had posted on different websites. He said that by doing that, he learned that I love Justin Timberlake, etc.
I think you especially have to be careful with MFC, because you have several guys in your room watching and listening. And if someone you know (friend or family member) happens to enter your room as a guest, if you're letting guests talk, they may slip up and accidentally say something like "Holy shit! Olivia Benson...is that you?!"I think a model on here (or maybe the AC forum?) said one of her friends came to her room and accidentally did that.
*Olivia Benson is a character on Law and Order SVU. It's not a REAL person.*![]()
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I've been kicking myself for forgetting to watch it every Wednesday night, but it looks like NBC has been playing reruns anyway...wtf? What's up with that?![]()
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I'm all moved in to my new place and FINALLY have internet again (it's crazy how much I missed it...) so I should definitely edit my how-to soon and we can collaborate!!
YesI do run one! PM me if interested, I'm all for mutually beneficial hand-holding.
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im not sure if this has been said yet but this is my 2 cents:
everyone hustles differently, so even if you want a mentor, what they do may not work for you. you have to find your own ground. I had someone help me when I first started but their style was not the same as mine, so i started out trying to work it like she did and i didnt do well. once i became myself and used my own hustle i started doing quite well.
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