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    Wow, this is really wonderful, TG. Thanks so much for sharing!

    I've also been reading Amanda Brooks' "Internet Escorts Handbook" (parts 1 & 2), which I highly, highly recommend to anyone considering escorting (or anyone at all in the sex industry, actually).

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    All I wanna do is get my pussy sucked / count a million bucks in the back of an armored truck.
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    sex-work.org is the canadian one they have not updated it in years and they feel they do not need to update it.

    for current laws and info best would be to visit the new http://maggiestoronto.ca/home website they finally updated it after months and months of asking
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    Thanks minnie!

    Quote Originally Posted by sexandgrammar View Post
    Wow, this is really wonderful, TG. Thanks so much for sharing!

    I've also been reading Amanda Brooks' "Internet Escorts Handbook" (parts 1 & 2), which I highly, highly recommend to anyone considering escorting (or anyone at all in the sex industry, actually).
    Thank you so much hun. If you need help getting into the biz feel free to pm me. I will help with what I can (free of charge). Amanda Brooks is a friend of mine and she's helped me through some pretty tough times with her expert advice. Her book is a wealth of info however I will say that "screening" is not covered. She is currently working on book 3 so It'll be out soon.

    Feel free to ask your questions here too. There needs to be a section for escorts or at least a sticky thread.

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    Thanks, lady! I really, really, really appreciate your generosity. And I'll definitely give you a holler in the near future. Let me know if you'd like any Photoshop tips/help, too!

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    sweet. Thanks!

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    hey this is really great thanks a bunch!

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    i cant wait to get amanda brooks' books, he website is so helpful as it is

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    Yes. Get book 1 and two. I bought both but I can't find my book 1 (don't need it/beginner stuff). However, I've learned sooo much from her!

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    I have never came across Amanda Brooks book's can they be purchased off amazon? Sounds like a good read.

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    ^ You can get them from Amazon, but Amanda Brooks also sells them for a bundle discount on her website. And that way more money goes to her. Support independent authors!

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    All I wanna do is get my pussy sucked / count a million bucks in the back of an armored truck.
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    What sexandgrammar said.

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    Thank you ladies!

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    Here's the link, if you haven't already found it: http://www.theinternetescortshandboo...der-online.php

    Good luck! And let us know your thoughts on her advice! I especially LOVED and found VERY USEFUL what she wrote about setting rates.

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    I'm going to see about getting these. I'd like to break into escorting but I'm scared it's going to change me, or change how I relate to my boyfriend (in a bad way), or have me get caught like right off the bat before I have money to challenge it and expunge (if necessary) the charge.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    I\'m going to see about getting these. I\'d like to break into escorting but I\'m scared it\'s going to change me, or change how I relate to my boyfriend (in a bad way), or have me get caught like right off the bat before I have money to challenge it and expunge (if necessary) the charge.
    Didn\'t change me. Not one bit and I still fuck my boyfriend religiously almost every morning. What it DID do to me was make me become much more anti-social. All my friends are escorts. My childhood friends are in another state so my support system is all escorts. I love it though .

    Oh and I\'ve never been arrested. My best friend has been escorting for 8 years and she\'s never been caught. Gotta know how to screen and have tools to protect yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by an email from some random new malemember with very few posts
    escort
    Hello,
    Here are my thoughts,

    If you care about your BF/SO . Its not a venture to go into.

    I have lived through this with an ex girlfriend and it was not pretty.

    Ask yourself this question can you put a dollar sign on what it is worth to have sex with you.

    Or can you put a dolar sign on making love to u.

    Also if you BF/SO is ok with it you might ask yourself WTF.

    My Gf just started dancing and I know the next step would be escorting if she was ever to fall on hard times.Dancing is actually a stepping stone to escorting . I wouldnt tolerate it if she wanted to transition into escorting. She knows this.

    So if money is worth more then love and friendship you have nothing to worry.
    This letter actually bugs me. I get the fears of most men, their insecurities and what not. My boyfriend spent nine months in a constant state of almost being blown up or shot while in Iraq, has visited several escorts, and his opinion is that if he had tits and a vag he'd escort so quick it'd be ridiculous. He also tells me--if you want to do it, do it. If you don't, then don't. But don't use me as an excuse one way or the other.

    I don't think stripping is a stepping stone to escorting. I think the current system of women still not being equal in a first world nation is what makes us, dancers or civilian woman, seek security either through our partners (like marrying rich or a man who can provide) or security on our OWN terms.

    What's more--my boyfriend and I have already made clear that we're okay with an open relationship so long as there's communication and he's also told me that if I think telling him I'm escorting would change things, even though he doesn't think they will, that I don't have to tell him.

    So I want to put out there that my boyfriend is a better boyfriend than you are for your girlfriend. He's not going to let any little insecurities he might have get in the way of my financial security during the present and future--and for THAT my respect for him as a PARTNER who will be there for me no matter what is miles beyond what I think of your opinion, though of course you are welcome to it. You can only deal with your own shortcomings.

    What I was worried about specifically because I realize not being specific is going to get these sorts of responses:

    1. I wanted to make sure that having sex with one's boyfriend still stays good.

    2. I wanted to know that once my income goes up expotentially, that I wouldn't think less of my boyfriend so long as he can supports himself with a little bit extra to live comfortably.

    3. And most of my club clients and private one on one clients are ones I enjoy. I just wanted to make sure that I could limit the clients that grate on my patience and sanity with their pushing of boundaries and trying to demand more time if they're repeat clientele.

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    ^ Ew, what a fucking dick. I want to smack that guy for you! (The emailer, not your BF--the latter sounds awesome, supportive, and quite the catch.)

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    ^yeah, sorry I couldn't clarify earlier. I was on my phone whereas now I'm on the laptop.

    I would edit, but may as well just add the info as a new post.

    I've had so many men be threatened by the fact that I'm a dancer. And I'm a pretty open person so the fact that I've discussed that at some point in the future I might consider escorting, men act like the most Victorian era prudish grandmothers, it's ridiculous. It's like their dicks morph into wrinkly, dusty vaginas set on keeping the status quo.

    Get this men:

    Our vaginas are both our biggest advantage and our biggest handicap, and our brains, having to ferret out how to work the system to our advantage and NOT to our detriment, are our biggest advantage after our pussies.

    The Supreme Court is about to try a mass action lawsuit between Walmart and over a MILLION women, based on gender discrimination in the workplace. THAT is status quo for our opportunities in the vast percentage of cases. Sure, we could break our backs in a system that still considers us second-class, and we and our children (though I don't have any nor ever will), and our families and our partners are the ones who are going to suffer because while I can't speak for everyone, I can say that when I am needing money for a car fix, or rent or whatnot, my relationships suffer. I cannot imagine trying to live on a minimum wage job, nor even a job that might pay double that and have to deal with bureaucracies and bosses and all the bullshit that comes along with a non-sex-industry job.

    Now, my boyfriend is special-- his biggest benefit and biggest disadvantage after being in the war is that everything in comparison to being in a constant state of adrenaline while killing people and trying not to get killed, is that everything in regular life is dampened-- it's hard to get worked up over something unless it's REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT-- and even then, it's probably going to pale in comparison to watching his friend get killed, and then shoot the guy who killed him, and wait fifteen minutes watching him die just to get some semblance of satisfaction out of the guy painfully dying for as long as possible while smoking a cigarette.

    So get this-- a man's insecurities are pathetic. If you cannot provide for your wife or girlfriend and provide her the security that she doesn't have to support herself or her progeny, but instead has to deal with bosses, and sexual harassment, and the stress of bringing in enough money to cover your cost of living (while having a hard time trying to put anything away)

    Well, it's little wonder then that your typing is so atrocious, because that signals that your education level is low and that you, nor the woman who might choose to be with you, is going to live a little life, stuck within the status quo of working for "the man", and essentially staying a rat in a cage.


    Strippers, Trophy Wives, Escorts, Cam Girls-- there's costs to it all. But there's also costs to living a conventional life-- for one thing, I wouldn't be able to afford to live in a safe place. So on the issue of rape, for which women are definitely second-class citizens, judging by how rape cases are handled most of the time in this country, I would RATHER suck and fuck who I choose to and make 500-1000 a day and be able to save my sanity and save for retirement and work part time hours, than have to go back to the drudgery and unfairness of working in lower-class/middle-class job options and have the additional threats of not being able to live in a safe place, or support MYSELF and instead have to look to prostitute myself by finding one man to help me out and have to deal with HIS bullshit 24/7.

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    You have to be mentally stable and drama free to get into escorting. noone can tell you to get into escorting you have to know it\'s what YOU want to do. I get girls approach me everyday about wanting to get into the business and I tell them: Read Amanda\'s book 1 and 2, read geisha diaries, read the reviews on TER (If you feel comfortable with men writing that way about you then kool) and after all that if you want to get into escorting contact me and I\'ll show you the ropes for free. Most never even buy the book lol!

    I have a boyfriend and he knows what I do. Is he ok with it? No but he is very supportive and doesn\'t make me feel like shit. I did not need to consult him before getting into this work. I simply told him \"Hey this is what I\'m going to do\". If your boyfriend isn\'t ok with this work, you have to simply figure out what is important, money? or your relationship. The money is much more important to me right now. He simply can\'t take care of me and I\'m not going to settle for less because a man wants to control what I do for a living.

    Just FYI I have never looked at escorting as sucking and fucking. I am in denial I am paid for my time and my time alone. I do not sell sexual services. That\'s my story and I\'m sticking to it.

    A lot of women need that push to get into the business and I\'m not going to push them. I rather someone willingly get into this than be pushed into it even if it\'s just a little nudge. This job is not just about sex. There is a lot of admin work (screening, website building, ad writing, googling.. etc) and prep time that takes place before the appointment. It can be mentally draining. You slip once and there could be a bad review posted on you for all to see (I\'ve never had a bad reviews btw )

    If you have a drug habit escorting will make it worse. If you have a shopping habit, escorting will make it worse. If you have to drinking habit, escorting will make it worse. Me? I don\'t drink, smoke or do drug of any kind. I don\'t have an addiction (unless you count traveling and reese cups). If you\'re not stable or have drama going on at home.. I will not recommend this job.

    That emailer? He couldn\'t get me worked up. I KNOW what I want. I KNOW where I want to go. Escorting is not career but a crutch. Get in, make your money and get out. I\'m grown. I don\'t need anyone to tell me what to do with my body.

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    ^sorry doll. I was being crass with the sucking and fucking part out of exasperation with that emailer and guys who think like that (who I can think of having dated several.)

    I agree. It's like lapdances. I think I get paid well to do that (I'm just bent out on clubs at the moment) because the man is paying for x amount of time of my undivided attention where my sole focus is on him and offering some sensual interplay that I find the modern world largely devoid of.

    But being crass, as a dancer, I hump and slap people with my boobies for a living. Now I don't think that--I think the first explanation--but some people can't get over the grind and the nudity and so that's the lowest common denominator explanation that their lowest common minds can handle.

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    ^Just know it\'s a whole new ball game. It\'s a very intimate position. If you enjoy spending time with random men, you\'ll love escorting. You should read amanda\'s book if you haven\'t already. Book 1 and 2 will help you lots!!

    Good luck love!

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    I don't know what I think in terms of career goals. I just like going to school and learning and traveling when and where I want (and I keep it largely cheap by driving where I want to go.)

    I got into dancing and knew I loved it so much that I knew I'd be a career dancer. I don't know what'll happen if I go into escorting. Eitheb it won't be for me and I'll stop, or I'll only like it enough to use it as a spring board, or I'll love it and be a career escort--and one woman I look up to has been an escort for close to twenty years. I look up to her a lot. The only thing I know is that, looking at the economy and what's going on and how that's goig to affect the next thirty-plus years, I want and need to figure out my plan for retirement as a HUMNAN BeING now--not as a sex worker where I then go on to work something else. I want to get my retirement fixed now sothat if I want to work I can, but if I don't (and live modestly and comfortably) that I'm not forced into some job like walmart greeter (not that there's a lot of those jobs available either but you get my drift) then I can focus on volunteering, artistic, or house projects.

    It's all about the emphasis on independence which is why I'm also trying to teach myself how to cook, or look into raising small farm animals for eggs and meat.

    It's a bit of a tanent but it's all related--we live in a system where it's so hard to fight being a cog that can be ground down.

    Bleh! Sorry for the tangent. I'm about to make brownies and thinking about gluten free while listening to NPR and considering escorting in the healthiest way possible is obviously making for less than concise writing.

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    how come noone is writing me reviews on TER
    I asked a few times and they wrote on my site!

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    Quote Originally Posted by leyla2 View Post
    how come noone is writing me reviews on TER
    I asked a few times and they wrote on my site!
    You have to send them a link TO TER and tell them to write reviews there. Some guys write reviews some guys don\'t. If they don\'t want to, don\'t force them to. A lot of men view it as distasteful and don\'t want to \"share\" you.

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