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    So, we had a pretty solid night last night at the club. Lots of energy, multiple girls on stage, tons of people to talk to -- but there was one pervasive problem that kept me both from making more than $20/hr average, and feeling comfortable: the number of times I caught myself in the dressing room with a cigarette bitching, "UGH, THIS IS NOT FUCKING eHARMONY!"

    Throughout the course of the evening, I had a number of guys giving me their phone numbers, and asking me what I was doing after closing -- and not in a "maybe a little extra" sense. These guys were legitimately trying to pick up strippers! I didn't want to be rude and say, "Well, after I'm done working, I'm going to drink a beer in my shower and snuggle with my amazing boyfriend," but that's what I felt the entire night. Additionally, there was a female custy there who'd brought her boyfriend along, but kept yelling at me every time I tried to hang out with him -- and, mind you, he was tipping me and properly playing along with the hustle the entire time.

    How do you guys deal with customers who don't seem to understand the dynamic that goes on in a burlesque club? Our regulars fully grasp the concept of how a strip club works, understand that the dancers are at work and lead lives outside of the club, and know how wholly inappropriate it is to try to take a girl home after close. But there were so many custies there treating it like a regular bar!

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    Default Re: Dealing with out-of-place custies.

    Well what do you expect a bunch of lonely horny guys to be doing? Smart dancers use that and pretend to be available and take them for every dime they have. Once they realise they aren't getting any they leave and you move on to the next lonely sap.

    It's kind of the nature of this business.

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    Default Re: Dealing with out-of-place custies.

    omgomgomg_rlc has a point, but I admit I get really annoyed by this as well.
    I've started telling guys I have a boyfriend, and I think this has helped a little.

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    Default Re: Dealing with out-of-place custies.

    if it's a young guy who honestly thinks he has a shot with you, he's not gonna spend a DIME trying to pick you up.

    either tell them you have a boyfriend or say you live waaaaaaaaaaay far away. say you live in city 2 hours away. most guys can't be fucked to pursue a long distance relationship with a girl they just met.

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    Default Re: Dealing with out-of-place custies.

    also...20 bucks an hour??? girl you need to rack up those stage tips. I know hustling dances isn't easy but if there's 20 guys at the stage, you can make 20 dollars in 20 minutes.

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    Default Re: Dealing with out-of-place custies.

    Most of 'em were cocky young men; my hustle with these sorts gravitated from "Let's have a good conversation and enjoy each other's company and maybe have some dances!" to "Hey... follow me in the back and have some dances!" Worked out reasonably well. I have a lot of people's phone numbers now, though. At first, I thought it'd be a solid move to invest in another phone -- we have real cheap plans where I'm from that allow unlimited texting, web, and service for only about a buck a day -- and use it to keep a rapport with custies, but one girl at the club has been having a problem with a custy who honest-to-God believes he is her boyfriend. She makes quite a bit of money, but I'm still sorting through my boundaries on this one.

    It's funny, though, because I actually do live very far away. Didn't seem to stop a lot of the out-of-town young guys. I do my best with customers in their late-thirties & early-forties who feel the dynamic of a club, like chatting, and whose last thing in mind is any post-club contact.

    $15-20/hr is my bad night average (either my hustle's off or the club's not at its bumpin'-est). $40-50/hr is my good night average. I work a small, neighborhood club and have really low living expenses. Money's just not a big priority for me. Getting paid $25/hr to have fun, when typical college dropouts -- hell, even most college graduates! -- in my area make $10-15/hr to hate life, is fine by me.

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    I take all their fucking money and then tell em I'm gonna have sex with corpses and consume human organs with fava beans and a CHIANTI
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Do not give them a number unless they spend a good amount of money. I call it my respectful line. When they ask for my number and haven't spent a dime I tell I only give it out to those who respect me and what I do. I get the but I respect you and you say well if you do lets go dancing or some cute comeback to fit you. Just don't go under three digits. Believe me it will clear up your phone and scare time wasters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I take all their fucking money and then tell em I'm gonna have sex with corpses and consume human organs with fava beans and a CHIANTI
    well clarice, have the lambs stopped screaming?

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    well clarice, have the lambs stopped screaming?


    no cause some perv followed me home and is ass raping them
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    HAHAHA I love you!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    HAHAHA I love you!!!!!

    Even though I'm allegedly a troll (see my post in life support)
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: Dealing with out-of-place custies.

    Tell them you'd love to go out with them... but let's go somewhere private like the CR to get to know each other better.
    If they don't want to buy a CR... they obviously don't want to take you out enough.

    When they want your number at the end of the CR... tell them you still don't feel like you know him very well and maybe he should come back to see you tomorrow.

    Repeat as necessary.
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    "if you can't afford a lap dance, you cannot afford to take me out. I'm not a salad girl."

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    ^ohhh that's GOOD!

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