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    So i started working again and the only place worth while is in kansas and happens to be a contact club. Ive tried asking around but we all know how girls can be with the new girl.

    Now ive never worked at a contact club till now and im having SERIOUS issues with my breasts getting rubbed raw. Aside from constantly telling them to be gentle and such anyone recomend a lotion or such. Its getting bad enough to look like red speckles on the skin you know when its borderline blood blisters and such

    anyway any advice is welcome
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    holy fuck - quit letting them touch your tits.

    peoples hands are seriously filthy.

    i have always been ok with medium contact, but that is too much...
    i love being a dancer - i LOVE it! but that makes me want to puke.

    to clarify: if the customer is NOT disgusting and won't try to squeeze, rub or pinch, i will allow them to PLACE their hands on my waist or outside of thighs during a dance, nowhere else. i repeat, they do NOT get to rub rubrubrubrubrubrub or squeeze, at all. it doesn't offend me (it's actually more innocent than getting felt up by strangers at a nightclub who aren't paying) and is a natural thing for hands to fall that way. but any meandering or squeezing or pinching starts, and they have to sit on their hands. any kind of outright grabbing results in me being mean and shoving my knee into their throat, and putting my heel on their crotch.

    seriously, no amount of "be gentle" is going to save your poor boobies from these idiots. you need to set some serious boundaries and stick with them.
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    Its a contact club its the selling point. TBH from what i read and saw its here or its walmart for work. In anycase its not the WHY im working at a contact club but rather how to deal with it specially the raw part *laughs*
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    Even if you work in a high contact club were boob touching is allowed and expected, you can still set your own boundaries. Don't be afraid to ask the customer to stop, just frame it in a way like your breasts are really sensitive and they hurt if they get rubbed/grabbed too hard. A lot of the time, customers don't realize they're hurting you, especially if you're not saying or doing anything about it. I find most of them react positively to you kindly asking them to be more gentle since it hurts - they feel bad and tend to get apologetic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anelia View Post
    holy fuck - quit letting them touch your tits.
    Lol Seconded!
    Contant =/= letting the customer do whatever he wants.
    If you don't want your tits rubbed raw, don't let customers grab your tits.
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    Its happened to me before, and it doesnt take 8 hours of titty twisters to rub ya raw lol. Nipples can be so sensitive at times! In my case, most of the rawness was from body sliding, where my boobs get rubbed down the front of their chest, clothes and pants. Some guys have wool or starched pants, which gets hella irritating. The good news, is the rawness usually only happens the first week or so after returning from a break. After a while your skin toughens up.

    Also, always shower as soon as you get off work to make sure their germs arent irritating you all night. Some wet wipes are a good idea to keep the area clean during a shift, and use SPF chap stick on the nipples if you tan nude.

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    One of my girlfriends said her plastic surgeon told her this...but germs from a guy's hands/mouth can be absorbed through your nipples because they are a porous surface. I'm a harcore germophobe and hearing that sickened me. I wear a really thick bra at all times (bikini dance club) to make sure they don't get touched.

    Can you tell the guys you have sensitive boobs and encourage them to grab your ass instead? At least it will give your chest a break and isn't such a sensitive area. Keep hand sanitizer with you and make them use it before the dance starts too... you don't know where their grimy hands have been.

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    Thanks. Ill try a combo of all that and yeah I already sanatize like crazy probably why the rub raw is worse as alchohol tends to dry out the skin and putting lotion on at work can cause the pole to get slippery for others.
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    Extra moisture and lubrication may help. Lanolin, glycerin, olive oil. Maybe a hint of lube to cut friction - nothing scented. And anti-bacterial ointment after.

    I hate nipple twisters. And nipple biters. Like what the hell?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by anelia View Post
    holy fuck - quit letting them touch your tits.

    peoples hands are seriously filthy.
    i repeat, they do NOT get to rub rubrubrubrubrubrub or squeeze, at all. it doesn't offend me (it's actually more innocent than getting felt up by strangers at a nightclub who aren't paying) and is a natural thing for hands to fall that way. but any meandering or squeezing or pinching starts, and they have to sit on their hands. any kind of outright grabbing results in me being mean and shoving my knee into their throat, and putting my heel on their crotch.

    seriously, no amount of "be gentle" is going to save your poor boobies from these idiots. you need to set some serious boundaries and stick with them.

    Different dancers have different boundaries. I don't think you should impose your boundaries on other girls.... We are all capable of making our own decisions.

    What poisondesire is asking about is a physical issue resulting from stripping. In that particular club that level of contact is considered normal and/or expected. It is a legitimate question. Why lecture her?

    Poisondesire, I know exactly what you are talking about. The little red dots are soooo annoying. Not only because they are ouchy but because they are a pain to cover-up with make up. I think it is more an issue of irritation from friction than some bacterial deal. However, it can also be a combo of both.

    Sure, I got them from gropey guys, but more often I would get them from dudes rubbing their faces (and facial stubble!) against my chest. Another cause stemmed from me rubbing my boobs in their crotch... Any material can irritate your skin over time but denim is by far the worst.

    Here are some tips:

    -Shower when you get home. I use Dial Antibacterial Body Wash or Dial Antibacterial hand soap.

    -I found that using hibiclens http://www.amazon.com/Hibiclens-anti.../dp/B000GCLU4W is very helpful. Follow the instructions on the bottle. I wash my skin with Dial Soap or Body wash, rinse off, then, near the end of my showering I apply a squeeze of the hibiclens on wet skin. I rub it around (as if I was lathering up... it doesn't really lather but you get the idea) and let it sit on my skin for 2-3 minutes. I usually 'lather' it around a couple more times just to make sure I didn't miss any spots. You're supposed to rub it around continuously but I have horrible ADD so that's not my routine . After that just rinse the hibiclens off. Use a nice fresh towel to pat the area dry.

    -I'm a big fan of Neosporin. I like the ointment as opposed to the cream personally, it just seems to work better. I apply a decent layer over the irritated area (and oh my god does that feel good!) Neosporin has an Antibiotic Maximum Strength Pain Relief version which soothes some of the ouch away. NOTE: You may want to wear a tank top or something to bed so you don't mess up the sheets.

    -I have heard of girls using diaper rash ointment (specifically with healing or soothing in the description of the product) to treat boobie rash. It sounds like a good idea but I don't have children and am waaaaay too embarrassed to purchase baby-butt-cream without a small child & stroller present. I'm afraid of the drug store people looking all weird at me! But if you are brave you can give that a try instead of the post-shower-neosporin.

    -Do not re-use the bra you wear home from work. Take it off before you shower and toss it in the hamper. Don't wear it until it is washed. Buy a pack of sports bras from Walmart (I think they are $9 or something insanely cheap) and make sure that your tortured tatas don't come in contact with germy-little-beasties from previous work days.

    -Moisturize your chest. Soap and Hibiclens can be drying… Use what ever kind of moisturizer you like. Would suggest getting good & greasy after your pre-work shower. Skin seems to heal better when it is well lubed.

    -Cortisone creams can also help treat the inflammation/irritation. So definitely look into those.


    Sweat can also exacerbate the problem. So be mindful of that. You can't do much about a customers sweaty paws but you can try to dance in a way where you aren't exerting yourself to the point of sweatiness.


    I used to work in a super-high-contact club. I kept a bottle of 91% rubbing alcohol in my locker and I would routinely sanitize my boobs and my butt during my shift and before I got dressed to go home. Over time my nips got dry & itchy. I had to scale back my use of alcohol and reserve it for special cases (like if a gross guy with bad breath mauled me or if my boobs were severely man-handled for a loooong time… and for the few instances when a customer actually bit my nip!!!)
    I would avoid using rubbing alcohol (and alcohol based sanitizer) too often since it is so drying ---and dry, cracked skin is prone to infection.



    So now let's focus on prevention. Avoid coming into contact with a guys facial stubble, 5 o'clock shadows are like sandpaper! Don't rub your boobs on the guys clothing too much or too roughly. Watch out for zippers and buttons. Wash YOUR hands often… strippers have a tendency to feel themselves up during a dance routine so make sure that you aren't contributing to the problem. Wear clean outfits. Don't place your outfits on the floor during a dance.

    Unlike anelia, I believe that phrases like "be gentle" or "not so rough, baby" go a long way. You can guide their hands away or chastise them in a flirty fashion. Not letting guys mess with your mammaries is the obvious solution, of course, but I know for a fact that it's not really an option at that kind of club. However, you can delay the inevitable and say you're too shy and you want to get to know them better over a few songs or that you don't let just *anybody* touch your boobies, or even something as simple as a flirtatious "not yet *wink* I wanna get you excited first" can reduce the hand-to-hand contact significantly. Guys wanna know how to "please" a girl… ("please" is being used here because they THINK they are pleasing you… I didn't mean it seriously!) so consider giving simple directions like "I want you to touch me slowly", "oh that feels so good baby, yeah, I like it softer, softerrrr *purring*", etc. So don't be shy about it, make it sexy.


    Good luck!

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    Oh yeah, DUH! I forgot to mention ARNICA ointment.... that should help those spots fade faster.

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    Bleurgh, i dont think id cope with men touching my boobs all night long, i used to think having grind rash on my arse from sitting and dancing on them was bad enough. If its a club rule that they can touch, set your own boundries, dont let them grab, id struggle to give a proper lappy if i had a bloke holding onto my nips the whole time.
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    urgh i hate guys grabbing wen they want, clubs ive worked at dont allow this, but some have done it, and they fucking hurt!!! some are sneaky with it and think you dont notice like "yeah dude i got no feelings in my arse/tits so i cant feel youve sneaked your hand there" i usually just playfully push there hands back and say somthing like "dont be gettin me into trouble" if they persist i walk away.

    i would deffo set your own boundries, clubs might say that its allowed, but it dont mean the girl is forced to let it happen, just means girls that do allow it aint breakin any rules. if guys do, do it to you, just grab there hands and hold them back while you dance, or dance further away, they get the hint that if they keep grabbin wen uve said no, that ur gonna move further away lol.

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    It might be from scruffy faces. My boobs are not really my selling point, so i don't spend a lot of time putting then in their face during dances or at the stage. Girls that do and work a lot can get a lot of irritation.

    My skin gets very irritated from friction with fabric (from running). Body Glide comes in a stick like deodorant and it protects the skin very well. It stays on through a marathon!

    http://www.amazon.com/Bodyglide-Skin...1070618&sr=8-2

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    That's very cool! ^^^

    What does it smell like?

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