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    I would like to thank all your input on my previous thread
    I am wondering, you all work alot of hours, its the nature of the beast.

    My girlfriend has been working her second week, she gets upset that when I ask her when we can spend some time .

    Good chance its me thats more messed up, but honestly I dont see her and we only talk on her breaks. Not long.

    I know we have to work out a scheldule but one person cant make it.

    Or should I let it ride keep my mouth shut and eventully she will get a routine down? Help me here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bizmor View Post
    I would like to thank all your input on my previous thread
    I am wondering, you all work alot of hours, its the nature of the beast.

    My girlfriend has been working her second week, she gets upset that when I ask her when we can spend some time .

    Good chance its me thats more messed up, but honestly I dont see her and we only talk on her breaks. Not long.

    I know we have to work out a scheldule but one person cant make it.

    Or should I let it ride keep my mouth shut and eventully she will get a routine down? Help me here.
    This is something YOU should know, none of us are going to know what is going on in YOUR relationship.

    I dont know how much she works, I dont know how much you expect to see her, I dont know how often she wants to see you. Do you live together or separate? Did she take the dancing job because she was desperate to get out from under your control? If she can take care of herself, does she still need or want you? Have you offered to see her when it is convenient for her? ie taking her out to breakfast after work? Or do you only want to see her when it is convenient for you?

    She has a new job...so give it a little time. If she is working 80 hours, then MAYBE she just doesnt have time right now. If she isnt working every day, and still doesnt want to see you on her off days.....that should probably give you a signal.

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    Every club is different but she may not have much control over her schedule, especially if she is new. Is she working double shifts? How many days a week? It's not an easy job and it's probably a big adjustment for her.

    Now is the time to be patient.
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    When I first started dancing, I worked 6 days a week plus had school and another job. My BF and I spent almost no time together for the first 2 months. People get busy. Couples have to spend time apart due to traveling, military service, jobs, family emergencies, etc.

    Just relax man.

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    Thank for the info, I wouldnt know that how it was. Funny she just called me right out if work.

    I think I can adjust once I understand the lifestyle/workstyle, its transition for me now.

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