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    Default "Oh I just got here I want to relax for a bit"

    How should I take this customer comment?

    I've managed to convince them otherwise most of the time.
    I'll say "there is no "best" time to get a lap dance but now. lets go, I know you want to.. "

    To be honest I find it rather irritating.
    Yesterday I had a guy say "maybe later I'm still browsing"
    wtf? I'm a used car or something?

    I said "Sorry hun now or never. Someone else will sweep me up soon."

    He approached me and tried to barter down the price of a dance. He was like "Oh maybe I'll go ask her instead" I was like "Go ahead I make money either way...."

    If they say "Maybe later" Should I even bother approaching? Occasionally I'll go on stage and stop by again and say "ready for a dance or what" if they say no I'll leave them alone...

    I just guys would say "No thank you I'm good" that way I wouldn't waste my time....

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    It depends. If you are going to them right when you walk in then yes they may want a dance. If they've been there it's an excuse. I always waited 5-10 from when they walked in. That way if they use the excuse they really aren't interested or want a freebie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    To be honest I find it rather irritating.
    Yesterday I had a guy say "maybe later I'm still browsing"
    wtf? I'm a used car or something?
    Not a used car but also not the only girl in the club. If I haven't come in to see a regular most of the time I want to spend a bit of time checking out all of the ladies before making a decision. Of course, there are nice ways and not-so-nice ways to say this.

    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    I said "Sorry hun now or never. Someone else will sweep me up soon."
    Sorry, but if I'm not ready all you will get from is "OK, see ya!"

    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    He approached me and tried to barter down the price of a dance. He was like "Oh maybe I'll go ask her instead" I was like "Go ahead I make money either way...."
    Well, that makes him an a-hole not really worth bothering with. You were right to just send him away.

    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    If they say "Maybe later" Should I even bother approaching? Occasionally I'll go on stage and stop by again and say "ready for a dance or what" if they say no I'll leave them alone...
    Most of the girls I know will come back one more time when they get the "maybe later" response.

    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    I just guys would say "No thank you I'm good" that way I wouldn't waste my time....
    I wish they would too. My favs waste too much time sitting with cheap-ass guys trying to get money out of them. It's only gotten worse as since the economy tanked...
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    This is why I try and pay attention to who has come in at what time. I usually give guys about 20-30 min and a few beers before I ask. In my experiences, approaching men right as they arrive never worked. I always get this same line or "maybe later"

    Once they have been there for a while, I'll approach. If I get a "maybe later" I ALWAYS come back, and most of the time they will get a dance. Alot of guys really do mean "maybe later", some use it as a line when they really don't want a dance from you at all but the only way to find out is to call them out on it.....if they say maybe later, then come back. If they say no a second time, move on.

    I know it can be irritating but try not to let it get to you. It's way easier said then done, I know.

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    This works sometimes...in a prring sexy voice say "I can relax you" usually they are thrown off a bit because their rejection didn't phase you and instead you became a sex kitten, if done right they will want to know details of the different dances they can get.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    How should I take this customer comment?

    I've managed to convince them otherwise most of the time.
    I'll say "there is no "best" time to get a lap dance but now. lets go, I know you want to.. "

    To be honest I find it rather irritating.
    Yesterday I had a guy say "maybe later I'm still browsing"
    wtf? I'm a used car or something?

    I said "Sorry hun now or never. Someone else will sweep me up soon."

    He approached me and tried to barter down the price of a dance. He was like "Oh maybe I'll go ask her instead" I was like "Go ahead I make money either way...."

    If they say "Maybe later" Should I even bother approaching? Occasionally I'll go on stage and stop by again and say "ready for a dance or what" if they say no I'll leave them alone...

    I just guys would say "No thank you I'm good" that way I wouldn't waste my time....
    Yes we do browse you - that is the point of us being there. We have to decide who we want to spend our money on. I'll spend my money when I'm ready, not when you are ready, and I will take as long as I need to decide. I don't play games - I decide what I want and I pay for it. I don't care how soon dancers approach me after I enter the club because I don't have to decide straight away. (If I know straight away I do want a LD with a girl, I'm glad she approached me early.)

    You should stop wondering and just ask, as graciously as you can. You don't know if they mean it or not. Ask them as often as you like and be as persuasive as you need to be and if you do it without pressuring them it shouldn't be a problem. You catch more flies with honey. If you don't ask, you don't know and you don't get anything (unless they approach you, but that is less likely). You also don't know if they will change their minds later on, so calling them out on making excuses is closing off a possible sale. Some guys will submit to pressure but it will make others avoid you. Even if a guy is rude to you, you don't have to go down to his level - he might wake up to himself later on and buy a dance from you.

    The fact is that guys often just don't know how to behave in SCs and don't think about it. You are the one doing the business so ultimately it is up to you to do the thinking and deal with the difficulties customers present. Customers come in to relax and be entertained, not to think or work. Ideally they should be considerate and thoughtful, but still it is not easy for a customer to know how to respond immediately to every approach from the second he walks into the club. Strip clubs are a very unusual type of environment.
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    Default Re: "Oh I just got here I want to relax for a bit"

    Everything that yoda and cherry said.

    When I go back for lapdances, a VIP, etc., it is almost always near the end of my visit. IME a lot of guys have a similar approach. I'm usually going to be at a club for at least a couple of hours, and the first part of that visit involves a few cocktails, scoping out what is available and otherwise just de-pressurizing from what is usually a stressful day.

    Also, in the high hustle clubs, I find that the first girls to approach are what I refer to as the "aggressive first wave." Often these girls are the ones that know that if the guy has a chance to fully view his options, he is not likely to choose them, so they try to force the sale before this can happen. I'm sure that this is not the case with you, but IME the girls that push to make the sale before my first drink hits the bar are rarely the best options, either in the looks or personality departments.

    Just my

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    i cant stand it when guys say they are still looking around and want to check out the other girls. how insulting! it should be shockingly obvious that im the best looking girl they have ever seen in their lives and the thought of better looking girls even existing is just preposterous!

    seriously though, id like to think im not ugly, why the eff do guys need to check out other girls when they have a perfectly decent girl right in front of them. picky assholes. personally, on the rare occasion i go to a strip club i will say yes to any decent looking girl who goes up to me and tip the ones i say no to. i dont get why you men with your ridiculous standards cant do the same

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    I agree with everything posted thus far. I can speak only for myself but if a dancer were to keep pushing once I asked for time to get my bearings, she wouldn't be the one getting the dances once I decided it was time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    seriously though, id like to think im not ugly, why the eff do guys need to check out other girls when they have a perfectly decent girl right in front of them. picky assholes. personally, on the rare occasion i go to a strip club i will say yes to any decent looking girl who goes up to me and tip the ones i say no to. i dont get why you men with your ridiculous standards cant do the same
    It's not necessarily about standards. Not every decent looking girl is my type. I am also not going to spend money on every decent girl in the club, because that could be all of them. I'm not paying for 40 LDs in one night. Not even 20. Also a date/relationship and a LD are different things - I am attracted to a girl IRL for different reasons to those for which I would spend money on a dancer in a SC. But sometimes it is standards - I am not going to spend my money on just any "decent" girl, considering the price of LDs in contact clubs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    i cant stand it when guys say they are still looking around and want to check out the other girls. how insulting! it should be shockingly obvious that im the best looking girl they have ever seen in their lives and the thought of better looking girls even existing is just preposterous!

    seriously though, id like to think im not ugly, why the eff do guys need to check out other girls when they have a perfectly decent girl right in front of them. picky assholes. personally, on the rare occasion i go to a strip club i will say yes to any decent looking girl who goes up to me and tip the ones i say no to. i dont get why you men with your ridiculous standards cant do the same
    Sorry, but when deciding to spend a couple hundred dollars I want to be sure I'm getting the dancer I like most. Sometimes my fave is doing private dances and off the floor for the first 20 minutes I'm in the club. There is no offense intended.... almost all the dancers in any stripclub are really good looking. My personal tastes are not an indictment of your beauty.

    That said, guys DO need to say NO THANK YOU if they're definitely not going to choose the girl who has approached you. Only say "maybe later" if there's a chance you WILL get a dance later.

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    Saying I just got here is equivalent to saying maybe later. It's a way of saying no without saying no. If a dancer approaches me that I'm interested in. It doesn't matter when I got there.

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    I DO want to get settled in when I visit a club. Get a drink, scan the room to see who's there. Give me at least 15 minutes to chill.

    The only one who's gonna be successful hitting me up right away is a fave.

    If a girl pushes it she will be placed well down my list.

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    I need 2 beers before I'm ready to play but I always sit at a stage while having those beers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 59 View Post
    I DO want to get settled in when I visit a club. Get a drink, scan the room to see who's there. Give me at least 15 minutes to chill.

    The only one who's gonna be successful hitting me up right away is a fave.

    If a girl pushes it she will be placed well down my list.

    ^ This.

    It can be tiresome to be pounced upon by a half dozen dancers within 5 minutes of sitting down, (and you haven't even ordered your refreshingly watered-down $6.50 Diet Coke yet!) It seems to be the standard M.O. in this bad economy, what with an over-abundance of very competitive dancers and fewer customers in general in many clubs - and if it's happening alot to me as a female customer, you KNOW it's bad !

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    If I say that often it's because I just got there, and want to relax for a bit and browse the girls before deciding what I want to do.

    Anyone I don't know who approaches me within the first 5 minutes will always get a "maybe later, I just got here." If she's especially attractive I might add "and I really do want you to come back later" or go tip her when she's up on stage later to get her attention. Even if she's really hot and tries to be really persuasive with words & actions I will to say that I need some time to settle in first. (unless it's an ATF that I went there specifically to see).

    After I've been there 15-30 minutes I'd start saying "no sorry" to girls I don't want, "maybe later, I just got here" to girls that I'm still thinking I might want, and "yes" to girls that I know for sure that I want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnotherBruisedPeach View Post
    How should I take this customer comment? >> Take it in stride. Letting irritation show does not make you more appealing, or him more willing to speed up his schedule.

    I've managed to convince them otherwise most of the time.
    I'll say "there is no "best" time to get a lap dance but now. lets go, I know you want to.. "

    To be honest I find it rather irritating.
    Yesterday I had a guy say "maybe later I'm still browsing"
    wtf? I'm a used car or something? >> As one prior poster said, its a numbers game. He (she) is also there to relax a while, and won't buy dances with every dancer who approaches them. Or even most of them (I'm assuming your shift crew is 15-20 dancers)

    I said "Sorry hun now or never. Someone else will sweep me up soon." >> That sounds like something a used car salesman might say.

    He approached me and tried to barter down the price of a dance. He was like "Oh maybe I'll go ask her instead" I was like "Go ahead I make money either way...." >> Not cool move by customer, IMO

    If they say "Maybe later" Should I even bother approaching? Occasionally I'll go on stage and stop by again and say "ready for a dance or what" if they say no I'll leave them alone... >> That is a tricky part for both parties. It can be so easy for customer to fixate on the most "desired" dancer. When such dancer is taken, the condondrum is "Customer waiting may or may not be worthwhile- she might not be free in reasonable time, while he's turned away/alienated potentially good dancers. OTOH, if he goes back with other dancer, he may miss top choice altogether". Sometimes, maybe later really means maybe later. Being a good sport about the situation just might tilt the decision in your favor.

    I just guys would say "No thank you I'm good" that way I wouldn't waste my time....
    >>> Best wishes in learning to deal with multiple initial rejections.......
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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    i cant stand it when guys say they are still looking around and want to check out the other girls. how insulting! it should be shockingly obvious that im the best looking girl they have ever seen in their lives and the thought of better looking girls even existing is just preposterous!

    seriously though, id like to think im not ugly, why the eff do guys need to check out other girls when they have a perfectly decent girl right in front of them. picky assholes. personally, on the rare occasion i go to a strip club i will say yes to any decent looking girl who goes up to me and tip the ones i say no to. i dont get why you men with your ridiculous standards cant do the same
    Baby, you need to try not to take this SO personal. Just because that particular person does not dig you does not mean a thing. It took me a LONG time to grasp this concept, now that I have it, I am less inclined to think things like this are "insulting" and have learned how to understand things from both sides (the customer and dancer perspective) If someone doesn't dig you who cares, move on till you find that guy who does.

    Also, you need to understand that customers are not obligated to spend their money on you, just because you are there working. Yeah some guys can be jerks but when someone tells you something like "they're still looking" or even a "no thank you" be grateful that there are still customers out there that are honest and not rude as fuck. Look around, you'll see tons of threads about turn-downs that are not so nice or honest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3-legged man View Post
    there is no offense intended.... Almost all the dancers in any stripclub are really good looking. My personal tastes are not an indictment of your beauty..
    this!!! This....!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    personally, on the rare occasion i go to a strip club i will say yes to any decent looking girl who goes up to me and tip the ones i say no to. i dont get why you men with your ridiculous standards cant do the same
    Primarily because non of us, or at least very few of us, have unlimited spending capabilities when we go to a strip club. We all have our preferences and our likes. We spend based on those preferences. This is not something that is likely to change. I say no to plenty of drop-dead gorgeous girls with huge bolt-ons and an over-the-top pushy sales pitch while waiting for the cut little natural girls with the more subtle, and patient, approach. That's my preference and that is who I spend on...
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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    seriously though, id like to think im not ugly, why the eff do guys need to check out other girls when they have a perfectly decent girl right in front of them. picky assholes. personally, on the rare occasion i go to a strip club i will say yes to any decent looking girl who goes up to me and tip the ones i say no to. i dont get why you men with your ridiculous standards cant do the same
    The operative word above is "rare". You admit to visiting rarely. When I was a regular customer (yes, I used the word), I made 2 or 3 visits a week to see a girl or two of my choosing. If I was obligated to spend on those I was not there to see (even the 10's), it would cut down on the time and money I spent on the ones I was there for in the first place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Foghorn Leghorn View Post
    Saying I just got here is equivalent to saying maybe later. It's a way of saying no without saying no. If a dancer approaches me that I'm interested in. It doesn't matter when I got there.
    It's not that simple for me. The dancer who approaches me may be interesting, but to prioritize my spending I have to know how interesting the other girls are too. If I am immediately very interested, I don't need to check what else is on offer, but it's not always that clear cut.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 59 View Post
    I DO want to get settled in when I visit a club. Get a drink, scan the room to see who's there. Give me at least 15 minutes to chill.

    The only one who's gonna be successful hitting me up right away is a fave.

    If a girl pushes it she will be placed well down my list.
    It's not being approached right after I enter that bothers me, it's just any expectation of me necessarily buying straight away. I want to meet all the girls I can as soon as I can so I can more quickly and easily choose one to buy an LD from. I don't like sitting around in SCs for hours, aside from being able to catch some good stage shows (but they go too slowly anyway). I want to get what I came for and leave. There are other places to chill, and I find SCs the hardest places to chill. The dancers simply are doing business there and therefore they are not going to leave me alone and not try to make sales. I expect them to do that. Ideally SCs should be a place where customers can hang out but the dancers have to make a living. However, I still find I am reasonably able to relax while in a SC even while being repeatedly hustled, since I don't feel any obligation to spend if I don't wish to. Sometimes it does take me one or two hours to make sure I'm done there, so I have to find some way to relax while I'm at it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post

    seriously though, id like to think im not ugly, why the eff do guys need to check out other girls when they have a perfectly decent girl right in front of them. picky assholes.

    So when you go to a nice restaurant......do you just order the 1st thing on the menu? Or do you look over the whole thing to see if there is something you might like even better?

    Does the waiter hand you the menu and then stand over you while you read the 1st item and ask you why you arent ordering it? saying "its perfectly good, we make terrific braised short ribs, why would you need to see anything else? why are you so picky?"

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    I like to be approached after 1 - 2 drinks, but the ladies cannot be required to track my pace of imbibing. A simple "no thank you" always works for the early approacher, and if I change my mind once I am ready to go...then I approach the dancer and make it happen.

    Easy enough.

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