
Originally Posted by
bubblebutt8o8
kellydancer: you brought up a very good point. its not that i want a man to take care of me. i'm more than capable of taking care of myself. for me its more like finding a man who we have the same interest and wants out of life. i have a problem with men who aren't willing to do anything but want everything. that drives me honestly, over the limit. like i meet guys who wanna have a sexy gf for example, which is fine. but having that arm candy is expensive. it means upkeep and the upkeep isn't always cheap. its starts off with little things like nails, clothes, and can go up to things like botox and breast augmentations. i'm sure you get where i'm going with that. but my true problem is like yes i can do it myself but if its something that you like you should be willing to pay for it, at least help out.
this is why i say meeting men who we have to same interest and values. i know a lot of what i'm saying seems material but i enjoy the high life. i meet a nice guy every now and then. we hangout he starts to be around me and what i have, and it makes him feel inferior then i secretly think of the guy as busted as hell. then me trying not to be a jackass and like omg louis, gucci, oh bmw... i try to tone things down. an he still ends up looking like a bum compared to me. i'm frustrated with broke men. thats all that i'm really saying.
dancing is just another point in all of this madness. it has allowed me to be young and live the way i did growing up but without the help of moms.
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