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    Posted in the Diary of a Camgirl thread about the fight with my bf today. It's been ongoing all day; apparently I don't have a "real job" which means I have to do everything around our house. When my bf was leaving for work he asked our dog if he wanted to go to the park, and then said "go ask mommy", so our dog was SUPER HYPER and demanding a walk to the park, and my bf laughed and left for work. So I had to deal with a dog whiiiiiiiining instead of being able to go on cam.

    After cleaning up my bf's mess around our place, doing some laundry, and dealing with the dog, I got some stuff ready for cam, fixed my makeup, and went on mfc, to see my bitter rival and ex-boss was online, with a high camscore and new boobs. I checked my score, and it went DOWN 1300 from yesterday, even though yesterday was a really good day for me. And I'm jealous about the new boobs.

    Then I get messages from one of my guys saying he's confused about my contests, and what does he have to do to make sure he wins (um, it's a highest tip contest, so duh, tip the most... idiot...). Then I get messages from another guy going on about "the things he'd do to me if we were together"... not going to happen buddy...

    I'm just in a really, really bad mood right now, but I should be going on cam. I feel like if I go on though, I'll be a huuuuge bitch. Anyone else have problems going online if you're in a bad mood? Or is that like the best time ever to go on, because you don't put up with shit? I've been reading 33 strategies of war (and taking notes... lol...) and you're supposed to have a clearly defined enemy to motivate yourself, but I just feel like crap that she's doing better!!!

    *wallows in self-pity*


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    AND my mom just phoned me to "cheer me up" and it turned into a conversation about how I need a job, and how I could possibly be able to afford anything after being unemployed for so long.



    I want to go shopping to cheer myself up lol but I need to get on cam to be able to afford anything.

    Maybe... I'll just make a buttload of money and take over the lease here when it expires, and kick my bf out hehehe


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    *hugs*

    First of all, I read your post in the diary thread and didn't comment there, as it's supposed to be a no comment and sidetracking thread. But my thought was "What an asshole!" I'm sorry, that's rude to say about your boyfriend, but I can't help it.

    Job: A regular activity performed in exchange for payment, especially as one's trade, occupation, or profession.

    You are performing on cam in exchange of payment, and do several things behind the scenes to improve your performances and find a larger customer base. It *is* a job. Now, if you were doing it purely because you're an exibitionist, i.e. no payment, then it wouldn't be a job, sure. Can't your boyfriend distinguish the difference?
    You're performing an activity in exchange for money. Job. Job job job. You use that money to pay your half of the rent, groceries and all the other expenses that come up. Unless he wants to pay for everything himself, then he should stop fucking with your job. Or would he think it's okay if you barged in at his workplace with a dog and tell him doggy wanted daddy to take him out for a walk, or perhaps a jar of pickles because you needed him to open it?

    I don't have a problem with traditional roles for people who feel good in them. But see...expecting you to pay everything for yourself like a modern lady and also clean and cook by yourself like a 50's housewife isn't traditional. It's just good for him because that way he gets a lot of benefits. Hot, smart girlfriend who makes good money, pays for rent and groceries and cooks and cleans after him? Scooore!

    I'm sorry, I don't mean to declare your boyfriend an ass, after all, I'm sure he has a lot of positives if you chose to be with him. Just in this particular situation, he's not acting fair at all. And here's what my mom told me... She told me when she was a young inexperienced bride and my dad was acting similar to your bf, she should have thrown a plate in his head the first day, not give him a hundred chances thinking he'll notice and change (of course he didn't). I'm not suggesting domestic violence, just saying it's much better to clear these things now, then let it fester inside you for a long time and get worse.

    About going to cam bitchy...I really don't know. If I'm extremely upset I just can't find motivation and those times I tried, it didn't work well. But I hope more experienced ladies chip in with their advice about that. Who knows, maybe it could actually cheer you up?

    It's just another crazy day, sweetie! It'll pass.

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    Awww, sweetie! *Big hugs* You are freaking adorable, motivated, diplomatic and awesome. I always enjoy reading your posts. You are very wise for your age. Im 30 and most people my age don't have half your intelligence.

    I kinda get stuck with all the household duties too (which I dont mind for the most part because my bf has an INSANE schedule) If you are making enough money...hire a maid to come in once every 2 weeks. I used to do this (and probably will again soon) and it was only $75 every 2 weeks. I found the company on Craigslist. That might take some stress off you?

    Also, could it be that your bf is jealous of what you do so hes trying to shame you into quitting? Heres a quote I like to use when people say that kinda shit to me about "real jobs"
    "There are a LOT of ways in this world to make money and having a J.O.B isn't one of them" Smart people figure this out quickly. Are you making real money? Then its a real fucking job.

    As far as your rival, dont worry about what shes doing. Its only going to distract you from what you need to be doing. Also, no, dont go on cam if you are in a super bad mood. Mabey the only exception to this would be if you you know that a few regulars will be on and will cheer you up. Or you could have a few drinks and get on cam, this sometimes works for me

    Sending you Love and good energy!!!

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    Misty is right, clear it up NOW. When I was younger I put up way too long with things like that and the sad thing is I wasted time I could have spent having fun on my own or spending time with a really GREAT guy who actually cleans up after himself and respects me and what I choose to do for work.

    As far as your nosy mom, man. Tell her you are selling something online (and maybe actually sign up to sell some product, avon, pampered chef or something?) and hey, even go further and give her booklets and ask her to hit up ALL her friends and see if they will buy from you. that'll get her off your back and shut her up quick. You may even make some sales too.

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    I agree about the mom thing. Tell her you are doing affiliate marketing. Its a very real, legitimate way to make money. Check out Warrior Forum. Lots and lots of people make a living doing it.

    Also, Misty FTW!!! I didnt want to go there with your bf being an ass either, but he sounds young and like hes definitely taking advantage. Don't let him do that to you. My bf is not crazy about what Im doing but has never made me feel like its not real work. We dont even talk about the details of it so he has no idea whats involved but he respects me enough to not question my integrity about it being a "real" job. Thats complete non sense.

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    I'm so glad you posted this, because I was fuming for you in the Diary thread!

    I vote for a punch in the nose for your boyfriend.
    A punch in the nose for the new boobed bitch
    A punch in the nose for mom.
    And a punch in the wallet for every idiot pervert getting on your nerves.

    get on cam and have them do for you.

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    Not the point of the thread (I agree that your bf is a jerk and needs to be told so), but I just remembered who your ex-boss is and *le gasp*. OoO

    Hope it all goes better. Sucks that you just moved in with him and he's already pushing you to the breaking point.

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    ^ She says they're real.

    BUT

    she also says she's paid me. So I call bullshit.

    I'm on cam right now. Making "my half" of rent again wet t-shirt show for the win!!

    Thanks ladies for the support

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    the night is still young! he's just jealous. men get all uppity like that because their gender is the only socially acceptable way for them to feel superior, because they're stupid enough to believe their gender is superior. see that circular logic? yeah, that's most men.

    try having an honest conversation with him about it, and if he can't change his thinking, compromise, or at least pull his weight around the house, kick that SOB to the curb - no matter how much you love him, you won't regret it. my last live-in bf was like that and I was so heartbroken when I realized it was my only choice, but then once his stuff starting leaving the apartment, it was this huge weight off my shoulders.

    plus, you're fucking young! there are seriously so many other guys, especially since you're still in school, and now is not the time to waste it on an asshole. do it for me! heck, do it for yourself.

    chin UP!!!

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    The sun'll come out
    Tomorrow
    Bet your bottom dollar
    That tomorrow
    There'll be sun!
    Just thinkin' about
    Tomorrow
    Clears away the cobwebs,
    And the sorrow
    'Til there's none!
    When I'm stuck a day
    That's gray,
    And lonely,
    I just stick out my chin
    And Grin,
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    The sun'll come out
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    So ya gotta hang on
    'Til tomorrow
    Come what may
    Tomorrow!
    Tomorrow!
    I love ya
    Tomorrow!
    You're always
    A day
    A way!

    Fuck em gurl make your money!!!

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    Over 10,000 tokens.
    Stupid ass bf. "You don't have a job" HA. I just made his weekly pay in a few hours. LOL


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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    Over 10,000 tokens.
    Stupid ass bf. "You don't have a job" HA. I just made his weekly pay in a few hours. LOL
    Rolling my eyez at the 10k tkn drop

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    I ended up being online for about 5 hours, and totally cheered up.

    I muted guests, just in case they decided to be stupid, and all my regs tried to get me to smile. Sometimes the shittiest days can get so much better if you cam! They were all tipping and complimenting and being total sweethearts.
    Maybe I need to cam in a bad mood more often!! haha


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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    Over 10,000 tokens.
    Stupid ass bf. "You don't have a job" HA. I just made his weekly pay in a few hours. LOL
    Makes me want to switch to MFC!!

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    MissEgo!!!! 10k!! That freakin rocks!!!

    Now your camscore is gonna sky rocket. This is what Im talking about with you...you have something special girl, dont let your bf or Miss FakeBoobs Smarty Pants make you feel otherwise. Im so glad your regs cheered you up

    Ps: It seems super hypocritical of her to get a boob job when shes all about being smart and not using sex to make money. Wtf?

    Just keep being you.

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    miss ego my husband is the exact same way to me. We have a 4 year old together, and I am defiantly the main caretaker. he comes home from work and does NOTHING to help out with him while i get dinner ready, cleaned up, fed, and ready to get kiddo ready for bed then ready to go on cam. he just lays on the couch. My job isn't a real job to him either because its not "hard and laboring" well fuck you husband its not my fault that you chose to be a mechanic. TRY being a mom and a wife of a bipolar, then cam untill 4am only to wake up at 7 with our son... I make waaaayyy more than him, and on paydays he always gets something big... and I kinda do it out of guilt because he makes me feel like I dont have a real job. but would he rather me go out in the work field and get a real job, make way less, and he would have no choice but to take my roll instead of me doing all of it. sometimes I dont get on cam until extremely late because our son keeps waking up and he doesnt even have the decency to make sure he stays in bed and in control of the situation.
    bad night, no i dont get on cam... sometimes i do... with the motivation in the back of my head that i need to make money to get the hell out of here. I was a stay at home mom that practicably waited on him hand and foot for 3 years, but that wasn't a real job either... and he looks at this as its about time I contribute... uggghhhhhh men.

    sorry for the little thread jack, I just wanted to share and let you know your def not alone.

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    That's exactly it, camming isn't "hard", I just "sit and look cute on the internet". He gets jealous of "my boys" too, and bitches when I get texts or if he sees me smiling at something one of my regs has sent me. Well, step up your game then, if you want to be the one to make me smile!! Ugh. Boyfriends are stupid.
    I'm definitely a princess though - I don't pay for dates. Ever. And I never intend to. In the 3 years we've been together, I've paid for lunch twice. If he can't handle that there's a lineup of guys who can. But now that I'm making way more than he is, he thinks I should be paying for EVERYTHING as well as doing everything around the house!
    My new motivation for working my ass off: Make enough money to take over the lease on my own when our 6month lease expires... and kick him to the curb. It's not like I'll be too lost ithout him - I already do everything.


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    ^I just reread that.
    I think I'm correctly named "Miss Ego". hehe.


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    I would not let my boyfriend get away with that shit for one minute. When he worked a full-time, hard labor job, I was happy to do all or most of the cooking, cleaning and child-rearing. When he quit and I started making most of the money, he immediately stepped up and took over most of the chores and kid stuff. I still do the cooking but that's only because I really like it as a hobby.

    I can't stand guys who think that being a woman means you must do all the cooking/cleaning without question, regardless of the circumstances. My boyfriend's parents are really religious. They're both retired, but it's as if his mother still has a full-time job. She's up first thing in the morning cleaning the house, then spends the majority of the day cooking and cleaning up after her husband, who sits and reads the paper or goes about his business without lifting a finger to help her out AT ALL. I keep wondering... when will HER retirement start? When does SHE get to relax?

    A lot of men seem to think that a girlfriend/wife is really supposed to be a 24/7 servant, maid, nanny and sex-slave who they don't have to pay. This is literally how many men view their 'ideal' woman. Women are supposed to 'serve' their men.

    MissEgo your boyfriend should be treating you like a goddess. You are making most of the money. Whether or not he thinks webcam is a 'legitimate' job doesn't matter, because WHEN YOU CAN MAKE $500 IN A FEW HOURS IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER. I would show him all the money you're making and DEMAND that he show you some respect for it or threaten to leave him.

    He should seriously take some hints from my boyfriend: When I'm on webcam all day, I'll come out to find the house clean, my kid fed and bathed, occasionally I'll have a special gift waiting for me like a glass of wine or some of my favorite fast food, and I'll ALWAYS get a foot rub. I don't ask for any of this and I frequently tell my BF to just relax, if he wants to watch movies all day while I work that's fine, he doesn't have to clean, etc. but he ALWAYS does because he actually respects me and what I have to do to make money & support our family.

    He's attempting to get another job right now and I honestly can't wait until he does just so I can repay him for all of the kindness he's shown me. I can't wait for him to come home from work to a delicious dinner, a cold beer & some good sex. Not because it's my 'womanly duty' but because I want to make him happy just the same way he has made me happy.

    Another thing, MissEgo, my BF and I get the "when are you gonna get a REAL job?" thing all the time from our parents. For my BF it's worse because they seem to think that he quit his job so he could be a lazy bum and do nothing, because I guess apparently unless you're doing hard labor out in the freezing Canadian tundra, you're not being a "REAL man" and not supporting your family. My parents think it's fine that I'm making money doing "affiliate marketing" but I still get asked, "so are you still gonna go to nursing school? Are you gonna try to take that CNA course?" over and OVER AND OVER AGAIN. As if they're just waiting for me to "grow up" and become part of the 'real world' again.

    Okay, sorry for rambling.

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    He just rolled out of bed and started playing on his computer.

    I've been up cleaning, eating breakfast, I'm showered, and I've started drying my hair. Our dog starts whining (he thinks the park is now a daily routine...lol) so my bf yells at him. I'm extremely defensive about MY dog, so I yell at the bf to just take him to the park or for a walk, instead of yelling at the poor little guy. He says "Why doesn't Mommy take him for a walk." I said Because Mommy has to work if she wants to keep making $500 every day. lol He turned around in his chair to look at me and just stared for like two minutes, then says almost whispering "When did you make that?" I said the past couple days, so stop being such an asshole and start helping out around here, or YOU can be a stay-at-home-mom and I'LL support our little family.

    I went back into the bathroom to continue with my hair. Before I even turned the blow dryer on, he was out of the computer chair putting his shoes on and saying "Boots, you wanna go for a walk to the park with Daddy?"

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    Bwahaha. Sounds like the realization of your income is starting to sink in for him. There is no way in hell I'd be complaining and being a lazy little shit when my SO is bringing in that kind of money.

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    He even started a load of laundry!!

    He's back on the computer now though. Hmmm. I think now that we have our own place and I'm able to work *all the time*, he'll start to realize how much work I put into it. Hopefully.
    Although right now he thinks I'm answering fanmail.


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    Holy shit, 10,000 tokens = $500!!! How the hell do you do it, girl??? That is sooo awesome! And yeah, your boyfriend is probably just jealous that you have a job that you actually like and make great money at, and you do it all from your home. He should be bowing at your feet.
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    You know, I keep telling him that... lol

    I knew it was too good to be true. Now he's asking why anyone would pay to see me NOT naked. Ugh. I swear, my bf would be one of the lurkers or one of the assbb guys.


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