The topic sums it up, my GF just started and thou I was a total ass in the beginning, I know shes working alot and just want to know what us BF can do to make it a little easier.

The topic sums it up, my GF just started and thou I was a total ass in the beginning, I know shes working alot and just want to know what us BF can do to make it a little easier.



what you can do after she comes home from a long shift at work:
make her dinner
rub her feet
rub her shoulders
listen to her talk about her day (if she wants to)
DONT pressure her to have sex with you right away - a lot of us are so sexually depleted that it's nice to get a back rub from our significant other and cuddle, but with no expectation of sex afterwards
run her a bubble bath with candles and LOTS of bubbles



^ My SO does all of that and I looooooove him for it! He also cleans the house and takes care of the laundry and whatnot when I work weekends- it's such a relief to not have to worry about all of those little household things that pile up!
cleaning and laundry! get her some new blinds or a shade that blocks out light completely to help her sleep. and be quiet and let her sleep as long as she needs to (dancing takes a lot out of you and sometimes we need a lot of sleep after a busy night!) make her coffee in the morning. or breakfast in bed. all the other suggestions are awesome as well.
Let me sleep in the next morning, as long as I want. Sneak out of bed, do what you gotta do really quietly, just don't wake me up!





fuck me like he did right now!![]()
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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Give me my space to de-stress from work-me to home-me.
Little household stuff like laundry.
Talking if I want to, but not insisting on all the details.
No shred of jealousy/insecurity about what I do.
Before I come home:
-clean my room
-cook my dinner
-pick out my fav nightie and fav bedtime movie
When I come home:
-fix me a drink
-run my bath water
-lotion me down
-give me a footrub
-ask me about my day(and actually listen)
Then make love to me...all night long![]()




run a bath for her. she probably feels disgusting from sweating all night and being felt up by guys. I know I always take a shower after work.



I love it when I get off work and my boyfriend bathes me. Candles and bubble bath are ready when I walk in and he takes my bags, ushers me into bathroom, provides water/drink, turns on radio and disappears. He reappears in 10/15 mins with my fav loofah and body scrub to help wash the back and hard to reach alone areas. Just enough to feel special not long enough for him to get on my damn nerves because of all the assholes I dealt with before I came home.
Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.
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