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    I was wondering if the wonderful ladies of this forum had any tips or suggestions on the most efficent way to handle a good customer, who suddenly turns into a pest. Let me explain:

    I have a customer, who buys hour or longer sessions on a routine basis both on the big sites, and on an indy site. I honestly think there is something wrong mentally with guy, like he's midly retarded or something just by some of the things he says etc. and how he doesn't understand things. For instance, he thinks he's my boyfriend (LOL) (Of course I never led him on or did anything to give him this idea, my only guess is that Streamate's wonderful marketing somehow made him think that he's paying on a dating site? ???) He sends me a thousand emails every day. He comes into my free chat the minute i log on, and will sit there like "did you miss me" "hey its your favorite boyfriend" (at first i thought this was a joke, but now im starting to think that hes serious, which i think he must be mentally challenged or something) I have told him several times, that I am unable to give my attention to anyone in free chat, so if you want my undivided attention you have to go to private etc. His excuse is that he is waiting for his new cam to come in the mail because it broke. Sounds like BS but plausable considering that his cam was probbaly the worst i've ever seen. LOL When I am in private chat on SM, he will sit in free chat and type "did you miss me," and just keep typing obviously to get attention.

    I obviously don't want to loose a customer, in case the probability is that he IS waiting for a new cam. I have made more off this guy than any customer i've ever had on cam. However, does anyone have any advice on the best way to deal with this situation? When he starts pestering me in free chat and i see that he's not buying shows, then i just log off and work another site. Is this the only way to handle this or do you ladies know of a tactful way to handle pesky customers.

    NOTE: this thread is not to make fun of, or knock mentally challenged people in any way.

    Thanks for all of your help ladies.

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    Default Re: When repeat customers become pests...

    ...why does that seem mentally challenged? A little delusional, yes. That's a different story, though.

    We are in the business of fantasy! I seriously think if you're not "leading guys on" then you're missing out on a lot of money. But hey, I'll gladly pick up that slack

    I'd say the best way to deal with him, given all that, is to tell him you'd love to talk, but that the site you're on is really strict about doing so in private, not in free. Something like that. That is if you WANT to play as clueless as he's playing (nothing wrong with that).

    Otherwise, just don't sweat it too much. There are lots of potential regulars out there. Their psychology/motivation is different from other guys, though, and you have to recognize that--and MILK IT.

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    Default Re: When repeat customers become pests...

    mentally delusional, challenged, etc. the bottom line is he's not playing with a full stack of cards. Just the things he says, he's pretty out there.

    So would you play into the "your my online girlfriend" thing? Or just try to keep it buisness? I just feel if you play into it too much then they will expect too much and want free shows because they think your really thier gf . LOL I'm used to only dealing with regulars in the club, and it's easy to make excuses like "oh i'd love to but i have to go home because i have class tommorow, i have to babysit etc." when regulars ask you to go otc, etc etc. Sorry if I seem completely clueless, but I'm still pretty new to camming and the cam hustle. lol I just wondered if this has happened to a lot of ladies and what the best way to handle it so that you keep the buisness, but also the guy gets the point that you are on cam to make money, from other guys and that this is a job. LOL

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    I've had guys like this. I know it is really annoying but I would just keep it going unless he becomes rude or scary. I use these guys in free chat for conversation too. That way I am always moving, always talking and making guys horny lmao. They know they aren't going to get anything from me in free chat anyway.

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    I'm always very honest and upfront about the whole meeting IRL thing, and I still get regs ike this. Some guys believe what they want to, doesn't matter what you say. I always tell them that I have many "online" boyfriends when they try to ask if i'm single lol.
    I would just be nice to this guy. Nice but let him know that you're still working and you need to pay bills or whatever. Chances are he will either leave u alone after awhile or get more shows when he does have his new cam.
    I was a dancer too and I find cam regs easier to deal with, because theyre often in other states/countries and its easier to get around the whole "I wanna be ur man/meet you IRL" kinda thing.

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    Its up to you how you want to work. Some girls are quite skilled at providing a girlfriend experience others are strictly wank and go. Its up to you to find your own hustle- theyre all sucessful in different ways.

    bottom line- to keep a customer that is looking for a gf experience you have to give him one.

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    ^ Well-said. But it's important to add, I think, that HE also has to hold up his end of the bargain, i.e. he has to pay to play. Provide a GFE if you're comfortable doing so, but NOT in free chat.

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    ^yeah... i'd go the route of the girlfriend who always *needs* things from her boyfriend. oh hi baby how are you, how was your day? i'm okay today, i missed you... oh hey babe, i reaaaaaally need some money for this blah blah blah ok? you'll give it to me right? you take such good care of me, i really appreciate you so much... hehe giggle giggle... haha naw j/k (kinda)

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    duh. of course you miss him, and you can't wait til he gets that new cam so you can spend quality time in private with him again, just the two of you. you miss him so much, please hurry. lol.
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    Damnnnnnnnnnnn yall got GAME...

    that just made me blush...

    *high five ladies! *

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    Yes, high five to all of you! You guys are awesome!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    Damnnnnnnnnnnn yall got GAME...

    that just made me blush...

    *high five ladies! *
    I know right?! I was all set to be like, "yeah tell him all sympathetic and soft, 'hey sweetie I like to see you but I'm working and I have to pay attention to the other guys.' blah blah blah" the stripclub free-reg, "well I gotta get back to work" hustle but daaaamnnn. Those other comments nailed it!


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    goooooooOOOOOOOOOO.....

    ....TEAM!


    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexandgrammar View Post
    We are in the business of fantasy! I seriously think if you're not "leading guys on" then you're missing out on a lot of money. But hey, I'll gladly pick up that slack
    This.

    These guys are not just horny they are lonely or missing something. If they were just horny they would be watching porn. But no these guys are paying 4 dollars a minute for human interaction, it's your job to take advantage of that. They want your love? great..that means you just won, so...MILK IT!! I am all for leading them on all the way..."i really feel something deep for you even though it's not love yet...I see you as a great man, powerful, amazing in all ways and I definetly always look forward to have you around, i love how your take me in shows just to chat it really speaks a lot for your character, i love a guy who spoils because that shows me how much he cares"...etc!

    If they are being a "pest" you tell them!! Remember? they want to gain your love..which means they will do whatever you ask, they want to impress you! Tell them if they want to hang around not to be quiet because you don't want to seem busy to other costumers, tell them when a guy asks do you give a good show for them to brag about you, tell them to do whatever you want! you have the upper hand because they are stuck trying to impress YOU!
    "Achieving success is a challenge but so is struggling so you may as well choose success."

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