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    I do mostly domme work in real life and some online. I have locals that love to take me shopping and spoiling me. Now that is super nice but it doesn't pay the bills and I'd rather have cash to save or pay my phone than a new purse or expensive heels. The problem is the men find that boring and unsatisfying. They don't want to just hand over cash they enjoy the shopping experience. My idea is to buy stuff, keep the receipt and later return it for cash. The problem is most places want to put it back on the credit card that was used and not give cash. Do you know of any stores that don't care about that policy or have any other ideas for my situation?

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    The stores are going to credit it back, or store credit at most. Have you tried selling items on ebay?

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    Ebay might be my best bet I guess.

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    Or try selling it on Craigslist.

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    Or google "what stores give cash back for returns" or the like. There are usually ways around the system.

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    Perhaps a better strategy is to teach the boys that SERVITUDE is about serving YOU and YOUR needs/desires, not about serving themselves. Seeing you happy and making your life more comfortable should be its own reward. If they want to take you shopping in addition, then all the better. But you have to retrain them to get yourself out of the trap of letting these wankers get just what they want, while you don't. They need to be taught to serve YOU first and foremost, and when you're satisfied, then they may get rewarded. It is a PRIVILEGE and a REWARD for them to be allowed to take you shopping, for example.

    Too many dommes aren't really in control, letting the boys basically do whatever they want while pretending to "submit", so a lot of boys have gotten spoiled to thinking the fact that they are spending money means they basically get to dictate. No. This is all backwards.

    I dismiss boys daily who display that kind of behavior. Some come back with a better attitude, most move on. I don't sweat those who move on because they clearly aren't worth my time. I do very well for myself and I know it is largely because I'm not taking any bullshit from a sub. They will play by my rules or not at all. Real subs appreciate that


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    A lot of stores will let you bring something back without a receipt. If the store policy has a 30 day return policy with a cash back refund policy (check the receipt.. on the back it will usually say the whole policy of that store) you can get your money back as long as the tags are still on it. I've done this many, many, many, times. Only because I am very unorganized and I always lose my receipts. And if a store tries to give me a store credit, I'll say "Oh man, but I don't really shop here, and I don't really see anything I like..." .. sometimes it works, sometimes not. But it's always worth a shot.

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    As weird as it is to say this, Walmart will give you store credit on purchases, which you could then use to buy cellphone cards if you have a pre-paid phone, etc.

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