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    Hey all! Been a while since I've posted/been on here so I thought I would ask away! As always I want to reach out to other massage girls/escorts in my area and just have others that I can trust and "talk shop" etc etc. I want to put myself out there in the community because yes I do advertise my services on a couple of sites but I want to be known and trusted by other girls in my field and not just "another bimbo I've seen on BP." I was considering emailing a few (reputable) escorts whom I know just from seeing their ads/sites and telling them my whole deal.." yes my name is (insert stage name here), here is a link to my reviews etc" BUT I dont want to come across as tacky or desperate. So my big question is how do I go about talking to other girls in the biz in my area the RIGHT way?

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    Bumping this question! I'm moving to a new part of the country for me in a couple of months, & I'm interested in finding community, too, but don't wanna be skeezy about it.

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    Glad to see someone else thinks this is a good question I think its one of the few things I have not seen covered here..or at least not very much

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    74 views to this thread and no one else has anything to add?? Come on this is a question im sure a lot have!

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    You want to talk to them just to be listed, or you want to talk to them to have chicks to gat coffee/chat about the industry with someone who understands it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    Hey all! Been a while since I've posted/been on here so I thought I would ask away! As always I want to reach out to other massage girls/escorts in my area and just have others that I can trust and "talk shop" etc etc. I want to put myself out there in the community because yes I do advertise my services on a couple of sites but I want to be known and trusted by other girls in my field and not just "another bimbo I've seen on BP." I was considering emailing a few (reputable) escorts whom I know just from seeing their ads/sites and telling them my whole deal.." yes my name is (insert stage name here), here is a link to my reviews etc" BUT I dont want to come across as tacky or desperate. So my big question is how do I go about talking to other girls in the biz in my area the RIGHT way?
    Honestly it wouldn't hurt to just reach out to some girls you see advertising. Maybe some will be friendly, maybe some wont. That is how I made friends when I use to escort. I just reached out and sent a message. Or vise versa, and made friends.
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    Yup that's exactly how I met other Dommes. Just by reaching out and saying hi. Ok that's a lie they reached out to me BUT I was all for it and now one of them is one of my best friends and is moving into my building so I say "make like a sex worker and reach out and touch somebody"! What do u have to lose?

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    I've been in the industry for a few years (4.5? I'm industry-older than I thought I was) and its tough! If you're too friendly you're weird, if you're not friendly at all you're cold/a bitch/whatever. Also, you're directly in competition with these girls (you're not but its damn easy to see it that way). Some are bound to take it the wrong way.

    If I was starting from zero I would find other girls around your price point/market and send a hello introducing yourself and give your schtick (not your full story). Mine is that I'm 23, really sex-positive, love my job, like supporting other industry girls, and just wanted to say hello and that if they ever need anything/have any questions/wanna shoot the shit I'm there. At least they know who you are, you're guaranteed to get rejected by a few but mostly girls are nice. It can be a really isolating industry so having a little female support is nice

    Are there any local boards in your area and if so, do girls post? I met a LOT of girls through review boards. Also, local activism groups, interest groups, etc!!!! I'm so politically active and I care so much about this industry its hard for me to stay away from them (okay I couldn't). There are pockets of girls everywhere that want to make a change, however minor, that are there speaking up for themselves and fighting for what they believe in.

    Also, if you're in Toronto/Ontario/Canada/wherever, I'm here

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    I should branch out, actually. I need me some smart, sex-savvy girlfriends.

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    Dunno. My opinion is to approach it via business first and then if a friendship builds, cool.

    I would introduce yourself, say you're new to the area and are looking for girls to throw some work to when you can't do it, and hopefully get some work thrown your way as well. It works better if you live like 30-45 minutes away because if you get calls for that area, she can handle it, but it's close enough to do a two girl job if needed and potentially meet up for coffee from time to time.

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    I was working in Toronto but started hating it. Now I travel around Ontario. If anyone wants to talk about places that they have worked in Toronto or talk about places I have I have no problem doing either. I'm always interested in learning about other clubs that might be good and the club ratings and reviews are pretty out of date on the site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    Honestly it wouldn\'t hurt to just reach out to some girls you see advertising. Maybe some will be friendly, maybe some wont. That is how I made friends when I use to escort. I just reached out and sent a message. Or vise versa, and made friends.
    exactly.

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    Thanks so much everyone! Really great advice
    Its also not so much to get more work from them or do anything dishonest to them its merely to not be so isolated like beckatron said. Sadly though I am not in Canada I am in Phoenix, AZ..so if anyone is in AZ pm me! lol

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    Amanda Brooks is actually the one who gave me this idea for this post! Waiting for book 2 to be delievered

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