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    Ive seen at lease a couple of threads within the past month or so from girls trying to figure out what to say to customers in order to keep them satisfied and in paid private chat longer. It's not always easy to come up with things to say under pressure, so what I recommend would be saving a word document on your computer where you have different dirty key words and key phrases to have for quick reference. But go beyond that, study them! Try to memorize some of them in your free time, and practice, practice practice! Practice talking dirty, experiment with the tone and inflection of your voice, and even your facial expressions in front of the mirror (because the WAY you say it makes a HUGE difference). Ask your man what types of things you say to him make him hot and bothered. With some practice and a little research, you CAN be on your way to being an awesome dirty talker, and you will also feel A LOT more confident knowing that you have done your research


    Recommended Books:
    -Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You On
    -The Fine Art of Erotic Talk: How to Entice, Excite, and Enchant Your Lover with Words'
    -Talking Dirty: A 3 Step System of Mastering the Art of Bedroom Talk
    -Phone Sex: Aural Thrills and Oral Skills


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    -http://www.dirtytalk101.com/101-dirty-talk-phrases/
    -http://howtotalkdirtytoaguy.org/ (has tips on how to talk dirty to a guy over the phone/over the interent as well)
    -http://www.literotica.com/s/pillow-talk-4
    -Also, I would recommend watching porn to get some ideas on things you can say to drive guys wild.
    -Another thing I like to do is listen to dirty, slutty songs and that gives me some good ideas on what to say as well
    -Read erotic literature! You don't have to pay for good erotic stories, there are plenty on the internet. I only use literotica as it has more than enough material but I'm sure there are other great sites out there as well.


    SW Threads Pertaining to this Subject:
    -http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=151836
    -http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=150777
    -http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=147150&highlight=dirty+talk

    MissEgo's Thread for Starting Camgirls:
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    (although not about this specifically, i figure that some of the girls who this thread would help are most likely new at this so MissEgo's thread is a great one to check out as well)

    p.s. yes, sometimes dirty talking sounds cheesy, it's not your imagination lol. however, just go with it anyway! things that may seem lame or humorous to us women drive men CRAZY, which means more $$$ for you.

    If you all have any great resources, links, etc Please feel free to add them! I'll add some more later.
    Last edited by AngelCummings; 03-29-2011 at 11:18 AM. Reason: adding more links

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    I was going to add the list of phrases I personally use while camming/PSO but I'm embarrassed hahaha maybe I'll add the things I say to this thread if someone else does too

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    I think I actually saved that 101 phrases somewhere a while back so I can pull that out when I need it.

    Sounds silly, but when I dirty talk I always think of the word "cock" to get me started and go from there.

    Is your cock hard?
    Do you have a big cock?
    You want me to stroke it?
    You wanna put your cock in me?
    etc, etc, etc...

    I usually find if I just start with that, alot the guys who say they love dirty talk will start to fill in the blanks themselves/take over and I can just start repeating/regenerating the same stuff they say to me back to them.

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    Carol Queen's "Exhibitionism for the Shy."

    And porn. Porn porn porn. If you're an adult camgirl, you're making porn. So as I see it, you really have to be a watcher of it as well. Or at least aware of it.

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    All I wanna do is get my pussy sucked / count a million bucks in the back of an armored truck.
    - Lil' Kim, "Suck My Dick"

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    I agree with the recommendation to watch porn. Most of these men who are our customers do not have a realistic or healthy attitude about sex and sexual relationships. Porn is a great influence on their opinions about sex and their sexual knowledge. I watch a great deal of porn so I know how to "sound" when I fake an orgasm or to learn trigger words and phrases that these men are being exposed to on a constant basis.

    Being a webcam model or a phone sex operator is a performance job. You need to learn from other performers and get ideas from the most successful performers. I highly recommend watching and studying porn especially the top porn actresses.

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    ^ Then again, there's also some really pretty great porn out there. I love most of the stuff on kink.com & its sister sites, as well as stuff by female directors like Tristan Taormino, Nina Hartley, & Madison Young. Also, I'm a sucker for anything Belladonna or Sasha Grey are in. And the mouths on those ladies! Seriously, they could write whole tomes on the dirtiest of dirty-talking.

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
    - Virginie Despentes,


    All I wanna do is get my pussy sucked / count a million bucks in the back of an armored truck.
    - Lil' Kim, "Suck My Dick"

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    Yeah, I'm getting a lot from porn.

    I like this guy, too http://www.dirtydialogue.com/guide/

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    BEST THREAD EVER.

    Thank you. I like resources.

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    I can't take the credit for this-its infamous in phone sex circles as being part of the "training" some give you

    Not to say it isn't useful,cos it is,I have my own blow job script in my head that I can rattle off without thinking

    # Ask: Where are you? [in bed, couch, car etc.]

    # What are you wearing?

    # I'm going to take your cock out [of your pants, towel, briefs, etc.] and I'm going to look at you right in your eyes and I'm going to give you a really sexy smile...

    # Then I'm going to make my lips really soft and really wet (mmmmmm) Do you like that? [always try to get your customer to engage with you if you can]

    # then I'm going to start to lick and lap your balls...(moaning and slurping :10)
    # Now, I'm going to take one of your balls and I'm going to pop it in my mouth and I'm going to roll it around with my tongue just like this (moaning and slurping 10 seconds)

    # Then you know what I'm going to do? I'm going to take your other ball and I'm going to stretch it just slightly in your ball sack I'm going to lick it and roll it around with my tongue just like the other one

    # Now, I'm going to stretch your ball sack and I am going to lap your balls through it. [Stretch your balls for me mmmmm do you like that?]

    # Then I'm going to lift up your balls and I'm going to take my tongue and you know that spot right under your balls that's like the base of your cock? ...I'm going to take my tongue and flick it just like this (flicking noise 5 seconds) mmmm did you like that? [flicking noise 5 more seconds.] Just like this...(moan slurp 10 seconds)

    # I bet that made your cock really hard didn't it...

    # Now I'm going to look at you right in your eyes...mmmmm....and I'm going to lick you all the way from the base of your cock to the head of your cock just as if you were a giant popsicle...mmmm..I'm going to lick you just like this (slurp 10-15 sec)

    # then I'm going to take my tongue and I'm going to round and round the head of your cock and I'm going to stick my tongue right in your pee hole...and I'm going to lick your precum right out of the head of it...

    # then I'm going to slather my lips with your precum....and I'm going to smoosh my lips together...and I'm going to look you right in the eye and I'm going to give you a nastyest little smile...and there will be a strand of precum just hanging right between my lips...just like in magazines....and I'm going to lick it right off my lips and I'm going to swallow it mmmm yummy...

    # and I'm going to climb up and give you a nice French kiss....I'm going to make my lips so soft and I am going to put my tongue right in your mouth and you can put your tongue in mine [moan] and my mouth is going to get sooooo wet. And you know what else gets wet when a girls mouth gets wet? [get him to say it] that's right her pussy gets wet. and my pussy is sooo wet baby, feel it.

    # Proceed to Oral Sex on YOU and then lick your Pussy Juice off of his cock, deep throat him and swallow his hot load or let him simply cum all over your tits, tummy, face [called a "facial"], or elsewhere

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    Hehe it just makes me giggle actually thinking about this. I try and pretend it's my husband and run over in my head how I would be raping him... My favorite is when the guys just want me to actually cum and they tell me what they would be doing to me while I just lay back and play with myself. I dunno why but that makes it seem less "dirty" to me ...
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