Do you do anything different for woman or for couples? Also wat should I do if I'm not attracted to them


Do you do anything different for woman or for couples? Also wat should I do if I'm not attracted to them


If I'm not attracted to woman?
I not attracted to most my customers male or female & I do my job like a pro even though I am a picky lesbian so what does the sex of a customer have to do with giving a sexy dance.
Yes I wouldn't grind the same on a female as I would a male, but seriously stripping 101 is that you take money from a custie for being your sexy self & putting on a show/giving a sexy dance. That's all the job is about not at all about making money of those you personally find the most attractive (I truly believe doing that would be highly counter productive ). However here is my best advice to you just pretend they are guys who have been paralyzed if you really don't know what top do if a hard on is not involved.
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Yea I wasn't thinking that way. But I'm sorry it wide just feel awkward for me. Maybe I'm looking for a way to feel less awkward. Men I can handle woman are another beast lol
Girls who like girls & buy dances are either more respectful & really ez to deal with or they try to hard to be grabby becuz they feel the rules don't apply. To be honest I kinda feel awkward dancing for girls I don't find attractive becuz I'm used to playing with guys heads, but I don't like teasing a woman as much. Still I set the rules & will jump off a lap if any customers tries me & I give great lap dances becuz I know what turns me on so as long as they behave male or female they get me on their lap doing my thing putting on the sexy as long as they pay me for it. You might not have experience with woman & feel strange about it but when you see them as another customer that doesn't do it for you & get over the fact they are female well they should be ez to handle. In fact I think not being attraced to a custie gives you more power over them becuz you honestly don't care personally about how they feel about you the same as if you were really into them.
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Girls who like girls & buy dances are either more respectful & really ez to deal with or they try to hard to be grabby becuz they feel the rules don't apply. To be honest I kinda feel awkward dancing for girls I don't find attractive becuz I'm used to playing with guys heads, but I don't like teasing a woman as much. Still I set the rules & will jump off a lap if any customers tries me & I give great lap dances becuz I know what turns me on so as long as they behave male or female they get me on their lap doing my thing putting on the sexy as long as they pay me for it. You might not have experience with woman & feel strange about it but when you see them as another customer that doesn't do it for you & get over the fact they are female well they should be ez to handle. In fact I think not being attraced to a custie gives you more power over them becuz you honestly don't care personally about how they feel about you the same as if you were really into them.
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I'm very akward and uncomfortable giving women dances, even if they are cool. Just can't seem to shake it. There is something about touching a woman and making sexual innuendo (even though it's body launguage and not verbal) that makes me squirmy!
I wish I could learn a way to get over it cause I would make more money at my club. We get alot of couples.
I feel the same about fat old men or dancing for really big girls (I get sooo grossed out by any1 who has layers of layers of lard), but they make me money. I don't think I'll ever get over it & sometimes I try avoiding the 1 I know want to take me to the vip & bounce me on their kness (which I really hate) However I keep in mind that it's money & I like money, so I'll put up with it so long as they behave & I'll give them the same dance routine every1 else pays me for that I can pretty much do in my sleep & even while thinking wow this custie is really gross to me I hope I won't vomit on them. lol Which has never happened, but it's not like I haven't felt that way about a custie before.
If it's a couple & you really dislike the idea of being sexual with a woman make it about putting on a show for the man if that helps. Or just practice with another dancer friend who you know won't make it a sexual event then it'll just be a lapdance which is not the same as actually doing anything real sexual in my book. At most it's a tease & with a woman even if you are turning her on it's not like you even have to touch anything with any part of your body unlike dancing for men when you are grinding on their dick.
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You're not there to be attracted to any customer. You're there to make money. Attraction has NOTHING to do with ANYTHING.
When I dance for women I make it a lot more intense. Lots of eye contact. I play with their hair. I run my nails lightly down their neck/back/shoulders. It's alot more of a mental mind fuck really. Couples I simply distribute my attention equally. I'll be on ones lap looking at the other. I'll slide across ones lap to dance for the other. Stuff like that.
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most of it's been covered, but i'm gonna add this...
some girls don't really want a dance. or they do, but they're really scared. sometimes, they're just trying to impress the guy they're with. sometimes, the guy pushes you to do things that the girl obviously doesn't want you to do, even though it would be totally normal for a male custie, because a lot of guys are oblivious to the fact that women don't like the same things guys do. so always start slow with a girl and try to get a feel of what she's comfortable with.
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How do you approach couples/women for dances? I've tried to get a few couples interested but to no avail. Quite often there is a group of girls on a night out that come in for a laugh, I'd like to try them, too. My best idea is try to get the group into vip so they can play on the pole!
Im more sensual because I find it makes women less uncomfortable, but not in an intruding way. If it helps, just picture yourself giving attention to someone you DO find attractive.
As a side note, when I go to other clubs with my fiance as a client most girls avoid us like the plague. Its a seriously good way to make money to jump right away to the couples. Also, an almost guarantee way to get repeat dances etc. if you show them a good time since most of the other girls will not even look at them. It doesnt work everytime, but its worth a shot to treat everyone equally, leaves a lasting impression of a club to NOT be ignored the whole night...
It's very easy, just fake it until you make it. 1)Smile 2)Lots of eye contact 3)Compliment the woman
The girls that are bi/lesbian/curious are easier to dance for than the ones who gets a dance bought for her and shes not feeling it. If theyre not feeling it I just give them a regular dance because I figure she probably wont be getting another one. For the bi/lesbian girls I dance a little differently, tickle their lower stomach, rub my boobs on their boobs, if they seem up for it poke their nipples.
I actually have regulars that are a couple who take me to vip. I try to give more attention to the girl. Also dance on her and move his hands to her boobs.
If your club has a couples nite be sure to bring that up : )


I love dancing for women, but I'm not sure if I really do a good job or not...I mostly flirt, get really smiley and giggly, like we're super-best-sexy-friends. XD I stroke the hair and neck a lot and compliment the hell out of them. I'm never sure how dirty I should get about it, though, or if they would want me to touch their breasts or anything...It's weird for me since I think I'm sort of bisexual-ish -- I'm attracted to a lot of women that come in, and super happy when they buy dances from me, but since I actually like them it makes me shy.
*sigh* life is complicated.




I haven't had a girl buy a lapdance from me yet, but I think I'd dance the same way I would for a man.
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