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    Default "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    AWKWARD! Some guy asked me that mid-show when he saw my c-section scar! I lied and said it was from some other surgery and kept going.. but ugh!

    It honestly isn't even that big and noticeable I thought but maybe it is. Anyone else have this problem?

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Rude! I've been called MILF a couple times, I dont even have kids! That's offensive enough.

    If you have a c-section scar tho, it is clear that you do have kids. He may not be trying to be rude, he just wants to make conversation and get to know you. Some guys just have no mojo, don't let it get to ya!

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    I know so many of these guys are socially inept. Don't take offense. He's just fucktarded.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Guys ask me that a lot and I lie and say "one baby girl and she's 2 months old"... then they're impressed and tip more... my daughter is 9 months old but that's none of their business :-)

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    I would probably make up a story too, only because I don't like talking about my son with these guys or my family life. (Too many weirdos and I don't feel like they're the type of guys I want to be discussing my children's life with...) (maybe I'm just bitter lately...)

    As far as they know, I'm some single chick living alone in the Midwest...who has crazy parties with all my friends.

    Right now, I'm not doing the full nude camming thing (due to my pregnancy), but even my little hour a day ICM thing, no one knows I'm 7 months pregnant and have a 3 and a half year old. I'm not there to discuss my family life with them.

    that's just me though...

    If it makes you uncomfortable, even if it isn't noticable, maybe try covering it up with make up or something so no one asks any questions.

    I know when I am able to cam again, even my stretch marks aren't that noticable, I still cover them up just for peace of mind I guess.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    I have a scar across my stomach from an accident I was in when I was a kid. I don't think it looks like a scar, I think it just looks like a weird fat pocket but more and more lately I'm getting ppl thinking it's a c-section scar. I usually just say, "It's a scar from an accident I was in as a kid" and ppl go, "Oh, ok, my bad."

    Once a guy didn't believe it and I got all pissed and yelled, "Look. I don't care what preconceived notions you've got about us camgirls but it is RUDE to ask a lady about her body flaws and INSANE to ask the same question over and over expecting different results! Even IF I'd had kids it would be none of your damned business because it doesn't effect our little 7 minutes here on the internet at all. I'm gonna block you like woah right now but you'd better learn some goddamned common courtesy for the next girlie you chat up!"

    He left immediately, I didn't block him and my free chat was dead silent for at least 30 seconds. I could kinda picture the guys nervously slinking back out of whatever they'd taken cover from. They hastened to assure me that yes, he'd been rude and I was a-ok. lol

    Usually I get, "When did you get that scar?" "When I was 5." and they're all, "OMG!" It took me a while before I figured out that ppl ask about it b/c they think it's a c-section. LOL, yeah, 2 double lines bisecting me from hip to hip. That was one big baby!

    Maybe it's a new fetish thing?


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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Oh right, I originally started yammering about that to say that if you want to you can tell them that you got in a horrible accident as a child and almost died.

    ...of course then I'll get even more ppl accusing me of lying, "The LAST camgirl I spoke to said that too!" LOL


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    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Quote Originally Posted by IsobelWren View Post
    I have a scar across my stomach from an accident I was in when I was a kid. I don't think it looks like a scar, I think it just looks like a weird fat pocket but more and more lately I'm getting ppl thinking it's a c-section scar. I usually just say, "It's a scar from an accident I was in as a kid" and ppl go, "Oh, ok, my bad."

    Once a guy didn't believe it and I got all pissed and yelled, "Look. I don't care what preconceived notions you've got about us camgirls but it is RUDE to ask a lady about her body flaws and INSANE to ask the same question over and over expecting different results! Even IF I'd had kids it would be none of your damned business because it doesn't effect our little 7 minutes here on the internet at all. I'm gonna block you like woah right now but you'd better learn some goddamned common courtesy for the next girlie you chat up!"

    He left immediately, I didn't block him and my free chat was dead silent for at least 30 seconds. I could kinda picture the guys nervously slinking back out of whatever they'd taken cover from. They hastened to assure me that yes, he'd been rude and I was a-ok. lol

    Usually I get, "When did you get that scar?" "When I was 5." and they're all, "OMG!" It took me a while before I figured out that ppl ask about it b/c they think it's a c-section. LOL, yeah, 2 double lines bisecting me from hip to hip. That was one big baby!

    Maybe it's a new fetish thing?
    First off I think it's rude as fuck to ask someone about a scar. I hated random people asking me what happened to my leg when I broke the fucker back in high school. It wasn't even the fellow kids that asked but some trashy ass grown people on the street. It's nosy and intrusive. To me I feel that it comes back again to the loser that feels inadequate and his only defense is trying to pick apart a woman that's way out of his damn league. This falls into the "you're fucking ugly, or you have a tiny ass cock" group.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Also to add. It's the same thing as a guy asking if a woman's breasts are real. It's like hmm is your cock really HARD? OK THEN ! I see that comment in the top girls rooms all the time and I feel these guys are PICKING!

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Thanks for the laughs everyone, I guess I'll just add it to my list of annoying shit guys say. It was just weird that we were 10 minutes in and things were getting 'hot' and he asks that? Ummmm okay LOL maybe he wanted to go off on a pregnancy tangent? I do cover it up but it is still noticeable depending on the lighting.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    If you want to make him feel like shit for asking, tell him you had uterine cancer at 19 and had to have a hysterectomy. Then look like you're about to cry.

    If he's not a total shitbag, he'll feel awful and want to make it up to you.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Do you think the guy may be asking because he has kids, too? They don't know that you don't want to talk about your real personal life.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    I have a c-section scar and I just ignore the "hey bb do you have a kid?" the guys on MFC know I have a kid but SM I will not discuss at all unless it's a reg that I started with. These men can eat a bowl of dicks that ask questions and don't pay for shyt.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Fortunately I look young enough that no one so far has even ventured a guess that I might have a kid. Yay.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Quote Originally Posted by Lacy Luck View Post
    Rude! I've been called MILF a couple times, I dont even have kids! That's offensive enough.

    If you have a c-section scar tho, it is clear that you do have kids. He may not be trying to be rude, he just wants to make conversation and get to know you. Some guys just have no mojo, don't let it get to ya!
    Yes.

    Just say "1" casually and move on. Guys are stupid. lol


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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    Abdominal Hysterectomy scars are in the same place as C section scars. Just say that if you don't want to admit you have kids.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    It was only 1 guy dont worry girl! I couldn't tell you how many times in the club that one guy has said something just totally stupid even his peers look at him like, WTF are you talking bout?

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    No, no c-section, or kids but I got stretch marks and a gut, thank god my gut can be reversible and the stretchies are light lol. That was very rude but maybe he was just curious. I'd be proud in responding, that cesarean saved a life.

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    Default Re: "So I have to ask, how many kids?"

    I hate it when they ask anything at all about children in my chat room. half the time the next question is "do you fuck your son" or "have you taught your daughter about sex" or some perverted crap.

    I just say children are not discussed in my adult chat room and say "lets talk about something sexy". Often they persist and I have to ban them.

    I never discuss children at all, mine, others, any, period.


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