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    Default Why would you refuse a show?

    I hit the "accept" button on SM the other night and thought about it. Basically all sites have the option to accept or refuse a show. It kinda made me laugh a little b/c I couldn't think of very many reasons I'd refuse a show so I was wondering what y'alls are.

    I mean, if I had to pee I'd figure I could hold it for 5 minutes or whatever. If he'd asked me to do something I don't do and I said, "no can do" in public and he still went pvt I'd take it and take his money while I explained I really no can do. If I didn't like a guy I'd block him before he went pvt.

    But I mean, if my parents made a surprise visit or if the dog started barfing, I wouldn't hit reject, I'd slam the laptop shut. Those are the only things I can think of. What else is there?


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    Him: we could meet... im 5ft 9 sexy italian with a 8 inch love stick...imagine playing with me... how would you do it
    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I've refused a show only once. I hadn't yet figured out how to ban on AW, and the wedding dress/gag lover came in and wanted me to put on the wedding dress..... again. I didn't really enjoy our first session, though it was long$$.... and I just wasn't up for it.

    Sometimes I refuse submissive shows when I'm not in that mood. Oops.

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    yep i refuse i see guys who i know are just trouble from past experience

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I refused a true pvt last week. I was right in the middle of my "closing spiel" on mfc where I yammer on about "follow me on twitter" and all my links and everything right before I leave, and this guy sends me a true pvt invite. It was from a guy who's been really annoying lately begging me to go nude and watch his cam, and I'd ended two private shows with him already that week because he was being annoying. So, he sends me the true private request and I actually said "Um, I'm talking right now, thanks" and declined. About an hour later I was like wtf is wrong with me!!


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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I refuse shows sometimes. Like if I've just had a really long private with a high-maintenance regular, and someone else tries to get at me right afterwards. I stop for a second, but then I hit that button. Must. Avoid. Burnout.

    She wonders how much he'd pay to see her innards, what it is guys think girls are hiding so that they always want to see them in every place.
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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I used to refuse privates alllll the time when I first started camming- I would just get super paranoid/stage fright! I probably lost out on all types of money. But I don't refuse them now unless I absolutely HAVE to.. like if I set myself on fire.

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    Quote Originally Posted by bbwchanel View Post
    but i don't refuse them now unless i absolutely have to.. Like if i set myself on fire.
    roflol


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    Quote Originally Posted by Renton View Post
    Him: we could meet... im 5ft 9 sexy italian with a 8 inch love stick...imagine playing with me... how would you do it
    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I don't do it alot but the only reasons I do, do it are because I've been doing pvts back to back and I just need a break or I just don't like the guy. The only reason I usually don't like a guy is because he's to demanding or he's an asshole and thinks he owns me because he thinks I need his money.

    I refused a pvt today because 1 sec after we went pvt he was like get in pussy, get in pussy, get in pussy. I can take demanding ppl sometimes but dammm when dude doesn't even take the time to talk to you in free chat and goes pvt and is demanding 1 sec into the show I just can't take it. When someone is demanding I usually ignore it and be like hey, hru.. but ugh this dude just needed to be rejected.

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    Some good reasons to refuse a show:

    -The guy only has like 80 tokens total (that's not even enough tokens for 2 minutes of private chat), if it's MFC

    -It's some guy who's asking for a bunch of stuff that you won't do (fisting, anal, pee/poop, gagging, vomiting, sticking food up your ass, etc.).

    -The guy enters chat - ignores your hello - and starts demanding shit, being rude and short with you, and using caveman talk ("Show ass"..."toys?").

    -It's a guy who's very picky about specific clothing items and their color, the way you wear your hair, etc., yet only stays in paid chat for under a minute. SMH.
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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I refuse shows all the time...I only take pvts when I'm in the mood for it. And I refuse pvts if I'm in the middle of a countdown or something else...

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    Im quite liberal and can be over greedy with the $$$, but a guy came in the other night asking me to tell him he has a big black cock and wanting me to the use the "N" word. He came back last night and I ended it halfway through and declined his next attempt to go PVT.
    I felt really uncomfortable using words like that.

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    Quote Originally Posted by ashiepants View Post
    And I refuse pvts if I'm in the middle of a countdown or something else...
    Good point. If I actually have something going on in my room, like a countdown or a game, I decline Privates.


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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    Since I dont masturbate or play with toys I haven't been doing pvts. I thought..whats the point? Ive found a lot of guys dont even care so Im going to start doing them. I wont do them in the smack ass middle of a countdown, but I took one yesterday at the beginning of one. I'd only made 100 tokens towards the countdown anyways and I figured no one would mind and no one did.

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I did once. A guy was coming in and out of my chat all day and finally when I said I was going to leave he wanted a pvt. Sorry but unless I know it's good money, when I'm done, I'm done.

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    using caveman talk ("Show ass"..."toys?").
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    hahahahaha caveman talk, i hate those guys..."sound?" "strip" "anal"

    But I would never refuse a show, even if before they said i want you to stick both your fists up your ass along with your keyboard i would accept it just to make at least a few dollars explaining that I can't do that and hope they would want to see something else
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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    I refuse a lot because I work a rather specific niche and am simply not interested in other stuff. Frankly, I think it makes me MORE money because 1) I'm "unattainable" and 2) those who are into what I do appreciate that I don't compromise (ie, that I'm in control).


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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    Quote Originally Posted by marsey View Post
    Im quite liberal and can be over greedy with the $$$, but a guy came in the other night asking me to tell him he has a big black cock and wanting me to the use the "N" word. He came back last night and I ended it halfway through and declined his next attempt to go PVT.
    I felt really uncomfortable using words like that.
    Me too. I was always like, "omg, I can't deal with even hearing it!" until I did some POV humiliation stuff and the guy BEGGED me to say reprehensible things about him. Sometimes it's the shame and the taboo that makes something hot. He knows you don't really think that and you know he doesn't really think that, it just makes him come hard to pretend. That's good enough for me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Renton View Post
    Him: we could meet... im 5ft 9 sexy italian with a 8 inch love stick...imagine playing with me... how would you do it
    Me: I would cut off your dick and feed it to the pigs

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    Default Re: Why would you refuse a show?

    It's conflicting to turn down shows but to not observe our boundaries is a surefire way to burnout FAST.

    After years of successfully enjoying a "no taboos" service I find it is absolutely essential to sometimes say "sorry sweety I don't play that way".

    Similarly, not everything guys say (if it's not a question for example) even requires an answer. Remembering that sure retains one's emotional energy BIG time!

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