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    Ahhh , haha lmao
    Im SSOOO Bisexual , Like , if i wasn't married , I WOULD be with a girl.
    No doubt , Now that im going to work in a club , with TONS of perfect girls
    im TERRIFIED. Ive never kissed, touched , or anything with another girl (Been with my husband since i was 14) But im Sooo repented , lol. Do any other SC workers go through this?
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    Sexy, sexy women . . . Some of them can be so MEAN when they find out you're attracted to them! One of my coworkers was a naughty Kelly Ripa. Older woman (her son was actually a regular before she started) and boy howdy do I love me an older woman. She knew how to lay on the sex appeal, too. When she was on stage I'd usually comment to a customer, which would prompt them giving me a dollar to tip her. I always told her she didn't have to do all that, but I think she really got a kick out of watching me squirm.

    Have your fun looking and whatever is allowed in your club, but do NOT shit where you eat.

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    Eh, we fucked a few, still good friends with most of em.
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    Default Re: Bisexuality fears.

    Just embrace it, haha. It's pretty normal to feel that way around sexy naked dancing girls. You'll almost certainly do double dances and have girl on girl action at some point... I'm a total pervy, wannabe lesbo, and my boyfriend gets a kick out of it when I tell him about how amazing some girl's boobs are. Some guys don't think of female bisexuality as "cheating," they're just turned on by it... if your husband is like most guys, he's probably more worried about you dancing for men. Just try not to *actually* get it on with the other dancers, and you should be ok.

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    Quote Originally Posted by seashell View Post
    Just embrace it, haha. It's pretty normal to feel that way around sexy naked dancing girls. You'll almost certainly do double dances and have girl on girl action at some point... I'm a total pervy, wannabe lesbo, and my boyfriend gets a kick out of it when I tell him about how amazing some girl's boobs are. Some guys don't think of female bisexuality as "cheating," they're just turned on by it... if your husband is like most guys, he's probably more worried about you dancing for men. Just try not to *actually* get it on with the other dancers, and you should be ok.
    Maybe I'm alone but have never done girl on girl at a club and never would. I was always uncomfortable with anything sexual with a girl and the only double dances I did were at bikini or topless bars.

    Personally to me whether a dancer has sex with another woman or a man it's still cheating. Unless the boyfriend is comfortable with this I would avoid it.

    Op, I'm not bi so dancing with other girls had no influence on me at all. I suppose if I had been it might have but I would stay clear away. I have a strict nothing sexual with anyone I've ever worked with at any job. It can cause a lot of trouble.

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    It might actually help you tone down the urges eventually. I love girls, but honestly I hardly ever look at them anymore. Desensitisation to the max.

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    Oh I can definitely relate to you in a way girl! I myself am married I worked for five and a half almost six years consecutively on stage and doing pp's but when I met my current husband (I was previously married before) he was not into anything to do with stripping at all or other woman. I have always been bisexual and have always had girlfriends on and off over the years one for five and a half years we did the club work and pp's together and now I'm in the position where my husband just is not that way and I am getting back into stripping for the much needed money. My advice is you have to be comfortable at work but if you do this you have to be able especially if you are married and your husband might not be on the same page to seperate this job from home when you walk thru your door you have to be able to leave your job outside and become the wife you are when you walk thru the door. In my experience you make a lot of money when you put on girl girl shows and have a good time with the other girls. Talk to one of the other girls you are working with and chances are you will find they will help you and work with you if this is something you want to do and guide you into the girl girl shows. I hope this helps please hit me up if you want to talk more. It is very hard with a husband that's for sure but it can be done. I feel as tho I have two personas and that is the only way to keep my marriage healthy for me. Hope this helps

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    I'm queer, but I hate the kinda faux performative lesbianism that dudes seem to be so into. And I know the girls at my club well enough to where I feel kinda weird gettin touchy w/ em. Or dancing for em. Or having em dance for me. Someone above me said "dont shit where you eat", I follow that advice. I've seen hookups and relationships (and even friendships) that happen between co-workers/dancers go HORRIBLY wrong (I'm sure some people have great experiences with this and that's totally cool, too, not tryin to invalidate anyone else's experiences here). I don't even platonically hang out with dancers I work with outside the club.

    I mean I definitely drool over some of the nightshift girls, but that's cuz I work dayshift and since I don't know them they still have that air of sexy mystery about em. It's easy to romanticize people until you're around them day in and day out, listening to their crazy bullshit and weird personal drama, especially if they're very conventionally beautiful.

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    ^ Thanks for this. I'm queer, too, and I also despise this. I think lots of girls really feed into it, too, or at least pretend to. Which just perpetuates the weird, fake-lesbian thing, if you ask me. Gives a bad name to those of us who actually enjoy being with both men & women.

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    On stage=sexy

    On the DR=NOT SEXY





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