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    Im kind of at a cross road. I want to be deemed a "hdh" however i dont have a degree or know a foreign language which seems to be a prerequisite. I also dont know if i have the social know how just yet.
    i would like to polish however its also hard to justify spending time in school when you can make so much money focusing on working as a midescort.
    ive also read the thread here about how the high end escorting life isnt all its cracked up to be (having to wait a long time for an appointment to show up).

    Its also hard for me to settle down. I mean i enjoy traveling as much as the next person... however i am so afraid of being found out in my city i travel to anther state to work. I have friends in the adult industry from dancing and it would surprise me if they found me on eros in my city if i tried to advertise here. i wouldnt mind dancing once i get out so id like to keep that option open in my city.

    Its also seems like better money in other states because the girls here charge so low its saddening. If i ever want to go to school, take a class or whatever it makes things harder having to travel. I know i could move and all, im just tired of having to move and my family is here.

    and on the other hand maybe frick i should just work and make money and not worry about school for now. The main reason why i would go is well.. to be able to charge more.

    maybe i should just really work on creating non identifying photos and try a few weeks here. My smile is very identifiable and so is some of the clothing i wore in my pictures (not the same, just the same style). i cant really get any new pics right now so itll have to work.

    Im not complaining, just ranting.

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    no offense but you're not HDH. It takes a lot to be a HDH. You're not there yet and that's ok.

    1.)Being a HDH is not what it's all cracked up to be. Midrange escorts make more money than high end escorts. I think this has been covered here before.

    2.) There is always money in other states. I'm a "Touring Girlfriend" because I can drive 6 hours and clear 5-6k in a week. That money is non-existent where I live right now so I have to tour. Why is that? When you're new to a city.. you're new meat.. everyone wants you. You're the "new girl".

    I didn't get the last part but if you feel like you need new pics then you need new pics. Pics are your biggest marketing tool.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    no offense but you're not HDH. It takes a lot to be a HDH. You're not there yet and that's ok.

    1.)Being a HDH is not what it's all cracked up to be. Midrange escorts make more money than high end escorts. I think this has been covered here before.

    2.) There is always money in other states. I'm a "Touring Girlfriend" because I can drive 6 hours and clear 5-6k in a week. That money is non-existent where I live right now so I have to tour. Why is that? When you're new to a city.. you're new meat.. everyone wants you. You're the "new girl".

    I didn't get the last part but if you feel like you need new pics then you need new pics. Pics are your biggest marketing tool.
    Touring is a huge part, I agree. Maybe set up a calender and start penciling in appointments, I can give u a heads up on some very profitable little towns.(I have noticed from experience that the money is in smaller, more quaint places than big cities, plus the guys are usually very loyal customers)

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    Ciara of Buffalo has a bit in one of her Ph.D of Hooking entries about only going to second-tier cities. Fr'instance, instead of touring in New York City, you spend a week in Albany. There's less competition, lower-profile etc.

    A list of her Ph.D posts is here: http://www.escortblogs.net/sinfullyc...20080804223137

    The whole thing is pretty interesting reading if you're looking to step up your game.

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    Very familiar with Ciara of Buffalo's PHD but I've always thought it was common sense and it's not really a newbie how-to. She's pretty must writing in a jokingly way but gotta love Ciara.

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    True. But she does have some good touring tips if you're new to it. I've met a few girls who were great escorts, but once they were out of their comfort zones, did some really stupid stuff. (Not saying the OP would, but a refresher course never killed anyone. ;-} )

    Actually, I'm getting off topic. (I haven't had lunch yet and it's making me spacey.) OP - what do you want to do after escorting? You said you would only be going back to school so you can charge the custies more. What would you be studying and how would that translate to the rest of your life?

    If you get something like a business degree and treat yourself as the business (which you are), it would be money and time well spent and would be setting you up for the day you're not escorting. If you get your degree in art history (I'm pulling this out of the air) then you're looking at going for at least a Master's before that education starts to pay for itself. I guess what I'm saying, is that knowledge is always worth having, but some forms of knowledge are more valuable than others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorgrrl View Post
    True. But she does have some good touring tips if you're new to it. I've met a few girls who were great escorts, but once they were out of their comfort zones, did some really stupid stuff. (Not saying the OP would, but a refresher course never killed anyone. ;-} )
    Agreed! Like meeting multiple guys at the hotel bar .

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxevexxx View Post
    Touring is a huge part, I agree. Maybe set up a calender and start penciling in appointments, I can give u a heads up on some very profitable little towns.(I have noticed from experience that the money is in smaller, more quaint places than big cities, plus the guys are usually very loyal customers)
    Interesting. I know it's different for each girl. I have a friend that makes bank at big cities and another friend that doesn't. She can go to little cities like Augusta, GA and clean up. Washington, DC is 6 hours away from me. My last trip there I cleared $5k not even staying a week there. My girlfriend went and couldn't get a booking. Mind you she's HOT! Very individualized.

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    Or my other favorite: "Only here til Monday at the Airport Hilton!"

    Um, yeah.

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    I saw one today and was like WTF no!!!!

    It was on a national escort board. The guy sent the girl an email saying he'd like to see her and she sent this message back to him:

    hi hun I am available today, tonight, and through the weekend my services include GFE, PSE, BBBJ, DATY, GREEK, DFK, and you can go as many times as you wish during our date! I have a nice cozy hotel suite right now but I can also come to you if you wish! I am having a $150 in-call special this week and a $175 out call special for 1 hour. for 30 mins its $100 in-call and $125 out-call... if you have any fetishes or requests we can discuss about them before our date. if you would like to setup a date you can at my site booking a date on-line pre-authorizes $1 but cash payments are fine for our date. a card is required to secure a date, confirm age and non-law enforcement association. after you book a date you will receive my number. I do not take any chances these days! my services are non-rushed, relaxed, and I will go out of my way to make you feel as comfortable as possible! you can go as many times as you like during our visit!
    I have also attached some more pics!
    Ashley <3


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    There are so many hell nos in her reply it's not even funny!
    He posted wanting to know if it was a scam or not... uh yes!
    ... why the heck is she listing services? Geez!

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    Touring Girlfriend, she didn't say she was an "HDH", she simply said she wanted to be.

    And yea it's not all it's cracked up to be. Mid dollar will make more in the end.

    I feel your pain kisakim. I went through that when I went to school and was mortified of being found out. If it makes you feel better, I went to school and worked in the same city and was never found out. I continued on into my real "career". It's never been an issue.

    Don't put school off. I don't know what your are going to school for, but whatever it is, don't put it off.

    My advice, for what it's worth, stay mid range, use discreet photos and travel every now and then around your school schedule. When you are done with school, do whatever the fuck you want. You will feel good knowing you have the option to travel and make big bucks or get out of the industry all together and do what you want. There is no better feeling in this world than having options.

    If you blow off school to be an HDH, you will be pissed at the options you will have lost later.

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