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    Default Re: Not comfortable not being the top girl anymore... how do i deal?

    No Hon my last comment was for jay12

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    No Hon my last comment was for jay12

    ooooh ok.

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    Default Re: Not comfortable not being the top girl anymore... how do i deal?

    Yeah there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a Barbie girl

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    Default Re: Not comfortable not being the top girl anymore... how do i deal?

    Is your friend tipping money to the managers to get top ranking? Because honestly, it's an ugly part of the industry (tipping to get top ranking in a club or company when you wouldn't be top girl without tipping) but a likely candidate for why you're not first anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    Is your friend tipping money to the managers to get top ranking? Because honestly, it's an ugly part of the industry (tipping to get top ranking in a club or company when you wouldn't be top girl without tipping) but a likely candidate for why you're not first anymore.

    no, i doubt it, they have so much money that even an extra $100 tipping them wouldn't phase them and they wouldn't care. with private parties they charge a house fee first ($300-550 depending on how far we have to drive) then the girls work on tips. the house fee goes to the house (my managers), the house pays the driver between $50-150 depending on how far the drive is, and dancers work for tips. we tip out the drivers 10% of what we make at the show for working as our security.

    so the managers make a lot of money from booking lots of shows... we just tip out the drivers and barely ever see the managers unless one of them is driving... and i always tip them out more like 20% if i'm with them.

    the best girl puts on the best shows, has the best work ethic, has the best body, the best attitude, and the best looks.

    in the past (before i started working with the company) girls have hooked up with the managers to get more shows. i don't know if thats the case with her but i certainly wouldn't put it past her. i'm not saying that to be spiteful, but unfortunately that can also be part of our business... girls sleeping with important people to get the best shows/shifts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    So basically you're a "top girl" when there's no pretty Barbie girls at work or any other competition? ! Lol
    Is almost the opposite; when the fugly girls are working, I don't make a whole lot.
    That's one of the reasons why some days I bank like a mofo, and why somedays I'm on red numbers (the other big reason is whether an aircraft carrier is on port or at the sea).

    Where there are other clean pretty girls, I do better.

    My theories:

    When there are fugly girls
    : customers think they're more approachable and are fooled with the "well, at least she has a nice personality" thing and give them more money. I can hustle my ass off, but I'm still no match for their lack of physique or dance skills (and I'm not even that good dancing, but I'm aware I can dance better than some girls I work with).

    "Extras" girl: self explanatory, despite that I know two "extras" girl who are super pretty and can dance really good. Don't know why the hell he has to do "extras" on top of all that; all the other "extras" girls are all fugly or old (but not Jennifer Aniston kind of old, but Rosie O'Donnell kinda old).

    When there are more pretty girls on shift
    : personality and conversation is the only thing I can use in my favor, since they also tend to be clean.


    The fugly girls tend to work on weekdays, but the pretty ones tend to work Saturday nights.

    In other words, what some other dancers have said about fugly girls and "extras" girls ruining their money, is very true in my case.





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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    i haven't worked in a club but from reading on here i think it would be more competition. when i'm at a show, i only compete with 1 girl (its usually a 2 girl show). when you are at a club, you compete with however many dancers are at the club. but maybe it won't be so different cuz all 16-20 girls in my agency are all competing for the top spot and for the most shows....

    who knows. i feel like i just need to try something different and what i've mentioned above is only like 10% of the bs i'm dealing with right now. luckily i make a lot of money but it doesnt matter how much money i have if i'm not happy....
    I don't know you, so take it in stride: you sound like a princess. Make your money and stop worrying about other people.

    take care of your other 90%.

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    sorichsopretty - you are clearly Sylvia. How stupid do you think we are?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    sorichsopretty - you are clearly Sylvia. How stupid do you think we are?

    yeah i feel the same way. some people are just that bored with their lives sad but not my problem.

    btw i made BANK this weekend so that was defnitely a morale booster

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    btw i made BANK this weekend so that was defnitely a morale booster
    nice!!

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    brb to search Sylvia's posts.

    I've been dancing for 6 years.

    I'm giving some valuable input: focus on yourself and get back on top of your game.

    It is not about this other girl. OP said she hassome other stuff going on that she didn't want to elaborate on, and hey, she doesn't need to.

    She is not happy for other reasons. When she deals with the other stuff in her life her self esteem will be better and I think she will be the top girl. I said she "sounds like a princess" because she is complaining about this other girl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    yeah i feel the same way. some people are just that bored with their lives sad but not my problem.

    btw i made BANK this weekend so that was defnitely a morale booster
    nice! i'm not a hater. really. The user name is b/c that's the attitude I need to get into work and hustle. I want the reminder when I log in.

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    sorichsopretty, didnt mean to offend you, i thought you were sylvia that has been posting in this thread. we think that she is a manager because many of her posts are very anti dancer.

    my apologies.

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    Was sylvia on the boards when Katrine got banned, or back when yek was here and Lys was lilithMorrigan?
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    wow! that was so long ago! glad to have an old member back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SoRichSoPretty View Post
    brb to search Sylvia's posts.

    I've been dancing for 6 years.

    Was sylvia on the boards when Katrine got banned, or back when yek was here and Lys was lilithMorrigan?

    I'm giving some valuable input: focus on yourself and get back on top of your game.

    It is not about this other girl. OP said she hassome other stuff going on that she didn't want to elaborate on, and hey, she doesn't need to.

    She is not happy for other reasons. When she deals with the other stuff in her life her self esteem will be better and I think she will be the top girl. I said she "sounds like a princess" because she is complaining about this other girl.
    yeah i understand where u are coming from... this girl i have had issues with for YEARS before she started working for my company, i go to school with her, i tried to be the bigger person and we were friendly for a while and she was talking about how she couldn't pay her bills so i felt bad and knew it was a bad idea but i was like well let me do a good thing and i got her a job with my company. now all she does is shit talk me. i never want to help anyone again uuuugh

    i just need to do my own thing and be my best and go from there...

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    Oooorrrr sylvia is one of thos loney fat men sitting at the computer eating waffles and jacking off then after feels depressed and angry and takes it out on stripper web because he has no money for strippers god I need to sleep after work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by p-bunny View Post
    have a Showgirls moment and push the bitch down the stairs. now who's the star of the show? hehehehe

    haha show that bitch who's bossss.

    at a party one time (outside of work, at school) she was talking shit and i actually DID dump a drink down her dress. that shut her up real fast.

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