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    With all this kicking and screaming about nonstripper vaginas ITC, I think there should be a thread where dancers can share their experiences rather than their perceptions on female customers. Just the facts ma'am.

    So all I want is the facts.


    Last night an intoxicated female customer came in with a group of male patrons. She found the door to the women's room was locked, proceeded to disrobe and squat in the men's urinal. When the bouncer asked her to leave she then became belligerent and called the dancers "pigs".
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    I don't have many negative experiences with women. I've danced for a few but none were gay, just there for their husbands. One couple came in often and tipped all the dancers. I remember a few who hated being there and were embarassed. The dancers were nice to them. I remember a few lesbians but they were fine too and preferrred gay/bi dancers so I didn't deal with them much.

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    I can see why so many hate female customers but I've never dealt with any of that. Maybe I was lucky or maybe it was the time. However, the lesbian/bi customers who asked for a lesbian or bi dancer may have been like that who knows. I think this is why I don't understand why so many hate female customers but I would too if I dealt with it. As it is there are certain ethnicities I never date because of my experience with them dancing so I can relate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I can see why so many hate female customers but I've never dealt with any of that. Maybe I was lucky or maybe it was the time. However, the lesbian/bi customers who asked for a lesbian or bi dancer may have been like that who knows. I think this is why I don't understand why so many hate female customers but I would too if I dealt with it. As it is there are certain ethnicities I never date because of my experience with them dancing so I can relate.

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    I've had a lot of positive and negative experiences with female customers in the five and a half years I've been doing this altho I just got back into the business after a few year break after I had my daughter I actually just got hired at this new club today yay! Sorry just excited! I have had a lot of female customers both in clubs and at pp's that loved what I did and how I incorporated them into the show and many of them were husband and wife pp's and they went very well. My biggest problems with female customers was ALWAYS working at the club. I've ended up in many fistfights not that I started ANY of them but don't hit me and expect me not to defend myself either lol thats my philosophy anyway not saying it is for everyone. But the females at the clubs I've had problems with don't get me wrong I used to have quite a few female regulars at the club that were awesome to me friendly fun and generous but it seems a lot of my trouble comes from females out with their husbands/partners who when the man/men are showing interest in me/and this goes for some of the other dancers I've worked with have gone into fits of rage and it's in my own personal experience been just that almost an insecurity thing but it's something you see in this line of work you just have to blow these negative customers off and I used to say I'm sorry you feel this way but you and your partner came into my place of employment looking for the service I/We provide here and if it offends you this much you might want to reconsider this we do not try to cause any issues at this establishment here and all we like to do is have a good respectful time and most of the females again in my own personal experience have been so mad they leave but I have to give a few women credit I have had an estimated 15 or so women over that time frame return to the club and apologize and I've been fine with that I appreciated it and have told them that and even had a few return on better terms.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Ever get propositioned by a 4'8" Mexican who looked like an underage garden gnome?
    I got propositioned by several short Mexican men who didn't speak English and who thought I didn't know what they were saying. Only problem is I do understand Spanish so I knew exactly what they were saying. One guy was actually waiting outside masturbating in his car waiting for me (he got arrested).

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    I used to have a couple that would come in and get a dance or two with me sometimes, talking to the girl, she was so cool, I assumed she was or used to be a dancer herself. I asked and she said no, she just liked dancers. She was nice!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I got propositioned by several short Mexican men who didn't speak English and who thought I didn't know what they were saying. Only problem is I do understand Spanish so I knew exactly what they were saying. One guy was actually waiting outside masturbating in his car waiting for me (he got arrested).
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    I had a drunk female custie that was, at first, giving her bf a lapdance on the floor. Ugh. There were NO other customers, so I decided to chat with her. She's a hairdresser. She tipped me three dollars, and insisted on stuffing it in my bra. She says she makes 300$ a hour a client. I decided to tell her that I average 500$ (not true) on my 4 hour shift (it's .
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    Good luck Tempest, this is a good idea for a thread but you know people are going to start arguing with eachother and giving opinions and "perceptions"

    I hope I'm wrong! Lets see if we can hadle a thread where the OP's main point is addressed and doesn't turn in to another argument or "debate" as some like to call it.

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    Well if certain dullards that don't belong here stay the hell out, I think it can go well.
    PS sclvr5005, I'm still a bitch and a hot one at that!
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    I had a female customer come up to me while I was doing my "Jane & Jay" routine on stage (becuz my DJ likes playing up my sexuality when there are female customers in the club) Anyhow she was a beautiful blonde with money in hand to tip me so since she kept tipping me the whole song & I was feeling playful she got a kiss out of me. Only cuz I thought she was hott, but anyhow I must of pissed off her bf which is the 1st time I ever saw a guy have that kind of jealous titty attack over it. I think he was a jerk that dragged his gf in hoping to make her jealous by having strippers showing him attention in front of her, but she instead could of cared less & flipped it on him by tipping me. Anyhow I tired to get him to claim down cuz it was just a kiss on stage for show more then anything (well kinda), but after that I sat with my male custies who liked watching me kiss her & went off about how insecure a man he must be 2 take a girl to a sc & be upset about a kiss with a hot dancer. I agreed & continued selling dances & business after that thinking what a shame as I was enjoying myself with her making money that ezly could of lead to an extremely hott time in the room that ended with a guy being a lil bitch about it. Still I kinda got a kick out of the irony of it.
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    I have a badass couple who I dance for every other weekend. The wife always tips me a few 5s on stage and I usually dance 5 dances for the husband. I chat with her a bit, really sweet and, totally not into chicks.

    I've had a couple pay me double a champagne room for an hour to teach her how to lap dance.. it was actually really fun seeing as she was in her 50's but NEEDED to learn how to booty bounce.

    Those are probably my only real positive experiences with women... then of course you give LDs to rowdy obnoxious chicks who try to take your tits as souvenirs and think it's okay because they have a vagina... and don't understand why I won't let them onstage with their top off during my set.. I'll post more as they happen,... better to include more specific stories.
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    Seems like half the women I dance for are scared of me and get all weird when I get close to them to actually give them a dance. The other half are horny freaks who want to take me home and have a threesome with their husband. Plus they're always cheap.

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    Oh and the other annoying thing about the horny freaks is that they think it's ok to touch you. I've literally had women GRAB my pussy before.

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    We get a lot of couples at my club and every night, without fail, there is at least one drunk girl dancing next to the main stage like she's in a nightclub. A lot of female customers like to give their guy a lapdance right next to the stage but since the actual dancers aren't allowed to give lapdances in this area, it ends up diverting attention away from the stage.

    A few days ago some chick hopped onstage and started using the pole while I was mid-set. I just went with it, but that was pretty obnoxious.

    There are always a good number of female customers
    that try to make out with me... like, aggressively.

    Here's a crazy anecdote: One night a while back I was trying to fend off an extremely handsy customer at the tip rail while his wife sat at the bar watching like a hawk. She was looking pretty rabid and just about ready to pounce on me but since handsy man was giving me a decent amount of money, I stuck it out and continued dancing and chatting with him. Every few minutes I'd reiterate that he's not allowed to grope me and that trying to take a swipe at my cookie in plain view of his wife is extremely disrespectful. Then all of a sudden I hear "FREDDY...GET OVER HERE RIGHT NOW." He refuses to respond so she starts wailing his name louder and louder. At this point I'm urging him to step awayyyy from the tiprail buddy, before someone gets hurt. Eventually he got up and went over to her but not a second later she was yelling some threatening shit at me and he had to hold her back from lunging at me. Then the bouncers finally intervened. So... l nearly got my ass beat because her husband was trying to touch my cookie. Yup. Seems rational to me.

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    on Friday a girl sitting at the stage was straight up shit talking me while I was on it. She was ugly, fat and looked like her spray tan was applied using a shot gun. I went over to her, got on my knees and slammed my feet down infront of her. She spilled her drink all over herself and got this look on her face like. Holy shit. Pick your chin up off floor, bitch.

    then a drunk girl got on stage and I almost pushed her off. It's MY stage, bitch. And a bunch of girls that show up every night always end up moving table to table visiting high school friends like it's a club or normal bar. WTF?

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    I had the best night this sat where my club was slow. I was expecting to go home like the rest of the girls upset depressed about how fing dead it was (even though I generally always make something more then most even when it's dead), but whatever I starting making it a girls drinking night thinking it was just going to be us & some cheap fucks there all night which was going to be a waste. Anyhow somehow I always get saved before I leave especially once I have given up & don't care to even deal with the custies as I have a few good regulars who come in for me late.

    However I didn't get saved by my usual regulars this time (nope not at all). I made money of 2 really super hot girls. I didn't even understand becuz it felt like my bday all over again when my personal lovers came in to play with me & have their boyfriends just give me money cuz it was my bday, but it wasn't my hott lovers from the Bliss Party who were only there to help me celebrate my bday. Which that was super hott & last week where I was very happy to see my gfs come in to make my night sexy fun.

    No this was completely random luck I have never seen or experienced in my years of dancing at my club becuz I never had a night made completely by dancing for super hott girls back to back like that I didn't already know on a night male customers were sucking the life out of the whole club. I mean I have had nights were dancing for women made me more money off of dancing for men or doing a gg show with my dancer friends paid off or I had 1 really great friend customers, but 2 women that turned me on cuz they were that hott & I got paid for having fun with them & no1 else was spending anything for shyt that night. Shyt I was really lucky they came in & I had a great time.

    1 was there with her boyfriend for her 24th bday (a week after my 34th) & she was shy, pretty, dressed sexy-not slutty as no skin was showing on her even though she wore this skin tight clubby dress. She wasn't rude or nasty or showing off at all. Just there with her boyfriend becuz she is bicurious & they were celebrating her 24th. They got two dances from other girls before I came around and she got the courage to get him to have me dance for the two of them. I danced for both of them & drank with them for a couple of hrs. They were great & a young fun couple. He was very aware I was a lesbian, but he thought I was so hott it didn't matter that I only really was attracted to her. Which I totally was it was such a turn on dancing for her even though I totally behaved myself I totally wanted to take them into the vip & just have my way with her for my own pleasure, but they ran out unfortunately so I let them know when I'll be working again & they totally plan on coming back next time to directly go to the vip w/ me thinking I'll just be teasing them dancing for her(which I might just do when if sexing her outside the club after that inviting her to Bliss with me does sound like a really hot possibly--if I don't say fuck it & just have my way with her at the club in the vip cuz I can) But whatever after they left I was happy I made some & enjoyed myself a lot more then usual.

    That's when another 2 couples came in.

    They were supposedly str8 & young club kids that pretty much were dismissed by us all for ignoring the girls & being a group of couples there together. I didn't even pay any mind or go to them to even collect tips cuz they were such a time waster in my book that I didn't want to deal with them from what I saw with other girls (as they did tip but where not by the stage & I don't even bother walking there for just a few dollar bills ). However after I got off stage & they got up out of their seat to rush to get me to dance for 1 of the girls. I said yes of course, but she didn't set off my radar at all & I was unsure of why I was dancing for her becuz I asked her if she even liked girls to which she said no str8 up. OK I figure that her bf & that group just wanted to watch that str8 girl get a dance & she was game. Fine it kinda bugged me , but a dance for show with a str8 girl wasn't going to hurt & I know how to show off in a way that won't be very sexually aggressive or scary for a str8 girl.

    I personally thought it sucked becuz she was so pretty that it bothered me that I was more attracted to her then she claimed to me to women at all. Anyhow I had to wait for the next song & so I asked why they picked me (becuz maybe they were picking on my obvious lesbian sexuality here to get a laugh) but no she personally picked me becuz she thought that I move especially well & that she is a dance student that was impressed. That's when I totally started flirting with her becuz I love dancers (as in professional ballroom/salsa ect) & that turned me on about her. So there was this str8 pretty um student dancer that I was dancing for. I was so flattered, but I wanted really to date her more then do her becuz she just became so much more attractive to me the more we talked about things. I think I skipped a song becuz we started talking about cartoons & video games becuz we both were geeky like that. Anyhow she kept smiling , had cute freckles, & beautiful green eyes dark brown hair. She wear wearing this sparkling black /sliver tank top & black leggings which looked great on her. I complimented her abit & said it was a shame she wasn't into girls. I asked if that was her bf she was there with & she said kinda yes kinda no so I asked if she wasn't str8 & he wasn't her bf if she would go out to dinner with me (I freaking was just digging on her bigtime I didn't care if I was gonna make money or not at that point I wasn't hustling her at all cuz she is the type of girl I like except the str8 part even though I always go for str8 girl 4 some reason) Anyhow she said if it wasn't for him so I let her know she could find me at work if they don't work out for whatever reason. I know I was overstepping big time there, but whatever I wasn't feeling custie/ stripper with her till ofcourse the next song came & I was back into ok stop hitting on the str8 girl & give her her dance. I made is extra sexy for her becuz I knew she liked how I moved so I was showing off till I started seductive grinding on her the way I normally do girls who like girls cuz I was testing if it was just for show or turning her on which it so do (& I'm getting my toaster oven in the mail for it) becz I totally had her moaning for me by the end of it. She tipped me an extra 20 ontop of 40 for my time & I returned her to her group becuz I had stolen her long enough. I think her bf was pissed jealous by then & I sort of avoided them for alittle bit becuz I knew they weren't expecting me to flirt with her the way I did. I could tell I made them --her group really uncomfortable though they said they saw the dance was hott from where they watched. Anyhow I did get a couple of 1 dance lds from guys who watched me give her a dance then, but the rest of the night was shyt interms of money. Still as they left they all pretty much rushed out the door except her who made sure to call me over becuz she had 1 last tip for me. She put it in her shirt at the front door & of course I had to kiss her goodbye at that point. My coworkers were cheering me on at that point & the bouncer was telling me how he never was as jealous of me as he was that night.

    I was just on a roll with making money off the hottest girls--ontop of that I was feeling really good for other reasons by then & my dancer/lover friend was flirting with me the whole night were I should of done her to take out my frustrations in the backroom, but I sort of ran out of time for that with every1 else watching us bored all time wouldn't of worked out for us to really go at it, but see being a lesbian dancer & having female customers like I did Sat night wow is like a dream job for me. I was in hott girl heaven that night.

    Even if I wasn't a lesbian attracted to both--they were both respectful, well tipping, spending, pleasant, polite, young, attractive, not slutty female customers who weren't rude, handsy ,there talking shit, drunk, or even showing off for attention. They were by far better behaved then most male customers & if they were my regulars I would be happy dancing for them even as a str8 dancer (becuz all my other coworkers who didn't make money on that slow night would of loved dancing for them & took it as a compliment from what they said to me about having watched) No it wasn't the room this time which I'm thinking next time the couple come back for sure I got a room with them, but for a super dead night I still did all right ten dances, drinks commissions, tips , more dances guy from watching ect..ect all basically from dancing for those 2 female customers. There were a few guys in there by the end of the nite but all my tips off of them just didn't add up to much cuz they were cheap dudes just there nursing beers just pissing off all the other dancers who really had shitty nights that night. Some girls made a few dances, but it was a shit night with too many girls there for the slowness that this past sat had.
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    I had two girls come in on Friday. I hit on them too much--- I think I made them uncomfortable. I was being an over the top idiot though "Mmmm, I love me some pussy! Which of you ladies will be coming back with me tonight?". Denied. They did get dances from other girls, though, so they were't total cheap-asses.

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    Women love me. I think it's because they can since that before I was a stripper I was wicked butch or something jk.
    Anyhow, I've only had one notable unpleasant experience with a woman. A guy with a sugar baby (obviously so) came into my club and he sat at the stage. I danced for him and he was tipping me in my garter when his girl comes up and snatches it and walks over to the other girl on stage and puts it in her gstring and pats it, smiling at the other girl as if to say "There, that's much better!" I told the man his money he better watch his wallet with that one around.

    I've also sold an hour in our VIP room to a woman. I thought she was going to melt, and she kept asking me if she could go down on me but i didnt mind haha.

    Oddly enough my first foot fetish customer was also a woman! She was very shy about it, but very sweet. She comes several times a week with her husband, which I don't mind at all.

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    a girl took a pic in the club today. Her ex was on stage for a birthday party and she straight up waited for the stripper to be straddling his head and then took a pic. Then acted insulted when I went over to the waitress in the area (short on doormen tonight somehow...) and shot me dirty looks for the rest of the night.

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    it depends on the women. some women come in and sit there looking angry while others know what to do and are happy to get lap dances or let their guy friend/bf/husband buy them dances. i notice i mostly do well off of the dorky girls or the hot girls. i never do well off the fat gangsta girls, and they come into the club soooo much. theyre obnoxious.

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    I had a girl pour a drink on my head bcause I was doing a table dance for her male friend. Not boyfriend. Not husband. Just one of many guys in that specific group, and this one happened to have paid for me to dance for him. WTF?!

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    Last night an intoxicated female customer came in with a group of male patrons. She found the door to the women's room was locked, proceeded to disrobe and squat in the men's urinal. When the bouncer asked her to leave she then became belligerent and called the dancers "pigs".

    Well thats a hoot, sounds like she's a classy broad
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    most of my interactions with female customers have been good, some awesome. however, the bad ones have been really awful. i've also had way better experiences, from what i can tell, than most of the girls i've worked with. female custies have never slapped my ass so hard it left a mark. i've mostly had nervous and excited girls who wanted some fairly tame fun on their birthday/vacation/bachelorette party. they're the ones who come up and ask for a dance, and are all sweet about it. the sadistic bitches are usually pretty easy to spot and avoid.

    i've had a few times, though, when my (already pretty awful) stage performance has been further impaired by a gorgeous girl sitting at the tip rail with her boyfriend. it makes me so fucking nervous and makes me feel like a cow. like she's only there to make fun of the ugly circus sideshow freak that is me. rationally, i know that isn't the case, but seeing them there scares me every time. and i don't mean the pretty/cute girls, i mean the ones who look like or are models.
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