On a new outfor my first night...
I feel like im going to puke.
I feel this way every time i spend i dime.
Does anyone els have money spending anxiety.
If so , how do you over come it.
Im literally freaking out right now..




On a new outfor my first night...
I feel like im going to puke.
I feel this way every time i spend i dime.
Does anyone els have money spending anxiety.
If so , how do you over come it.
Im literally freaking out right now..
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don't freak money spent just believe you will earn it back
It makes me uncomfortable to spend money.
I just have to tell myself that it's already spent, nothing I can do about it now, may as well enjoy whatever I bought.
It's really stressful immediately regretting every dime you spend.
I'm just very careful to only buy things I can convince myself I need.




I did need this , for the club.. But still. AHH , haha.
I keep staring at my credit card , thinking.. "why"
Americanmade18 on most sites.





Omg, I felt that way when I bought my first outfit! Stripper stuff can get expensive... but it's good to buy quality shoes/bikinis/lingerie that will last. You'll more than make up for it.
Now that I've been dancing for a while, I *wish* I had spending anxiety. Money burns holes in my pocket.
I'll admit I've never spent that much on a single outfit and I make good money as well as get regular compliments on my outfits. Several of my outfits that would have been pricey came from coworkers getting rid of stuff they weren't wearing or because they were quiting.
Some of my new outfits and shoes were bought new on amazon and ebay. I would keyword "dance shoes" or "stripper shoes" or "stripper outfit" ... you get the idea. They tend to be much cheaper then the marked up stuff in boutiques. I LOVE the foreplay 4 way cocktail dress I found in a boutique that I bought for $70 as a souvie in vegas; and then I found one in another color on ebay for $25 new!
I get buyer remorse and sticker shock too so I try to stay frugal with the above methods. Plus, I only buy things that absolutely compliment me (must love it) or it'll be $ wasted b/c I'll wear it a couple times and then it ends up in the bottom of the closet. Be honest with yourself on that one.
Just my thoughts and experiences.





That's easy, I don't spend my money, there's plenty of dumbasses that think I'm in love with them and they buy me clothes. The last time I bought a new outfit was in Albuquerque.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest




think of it as an investment... you spent 130 on the outfit but i'm sure it looks fabulous on you and you will get tons of dances wearing it... and make much more money back![]()





I wish I had your problem! I have money saving anxiety.
I will say I am more cautious over spending money on dance outfits now than in the past. I tell myself no reason to go overboard anymore and I only spend lots of cash on custom outfits, not things that can be had at any store.
Women of color:
Shake your ass and preserve your heritage.
Bang those fucking drums.
Do it for the present and future generations.
Have fun and stick it to the man at the same time. (bad-dominicana)




i do. hell, i feel sick if spend $30 for shoes. so as you can imagine, i wind up not spending much. it's made worse because i don't have money to spend, so every dime hurts.
i have yet to find anything that helps![]()
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