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    Hi! I really have no one to talk to so I thought I would type my story here in hopes of getting some advice, sympathy or just a shoulder to lean on and cry a little.

    My plight started in 2008 when the economy went sour. Before that I was in my 3rd year of teaching 4th grade at a wonderful school. At the end of the year I was handed a pink slip and just like that I was out of a job. My husband was a contractor and his business all but dried up. We became stuck with a mortgage we could not afford, car payments we could not pay and debt we could not handle. We had a little savings but nothing of any substance.

    Luckily my husband found a decent job working as a contractor for the government and I started substitute teaching. We were not living a grand life but we were getting by. In November of 2010 Hunter, my husband, was sent to Kuwait as part of his job. This assignment is for 8 months. The first month was the longest month of my life and I grew extremely lonely and found comfort in my next door neighbor Dave. He is also my husbands best friend.

    Dave is a wonderful man. He has been very helpful with various things around the house and he is an easy person to talk to. Not to mention he is very good looking! He is married to a very angry woman. Angry because of her inability to have children. I'm sure the fact that she works as a hospice nurse also contributes to her unhappiness issues. They have spent a great deal of money trying to have a child and are having a lot of money trouble.

    One thing led to another and Dave and I started having an affair. I'm not proud of it. Here my husband is in a foreign land putting his life on the line and I am sleeping with his best friend, but I could not help myself. I fell in love with Dave and because of that love I made it my job to help him with his money trouble, so I started exotic dancing. On top of the dancing, I perform extras for some of my regulars and I give most of the money I earn to Dave. I do keep a little for myself.

    Saturday, Dave's wife found some messages from me on his phone and figured out we were having an affair. She physically attacked him with a golf club and then tried to attack me. She did a bunch of damage to my car and broke my mail box. Thankfully the police was called and she was arrested, but now she is saying she will tell Hunter about our affair and that I am a stripper.

    My life is in ruins. Not only am I going to lose my husband, but I have not heard from Dave since Monday. I can't stop crying and I am drinking heavily. I have no one I can talk to about this because my family would disown me. They are Christians and would never understand. I have really messed my entire life up and have no idea what I should do.

    Bonnie Gene (to explain my name: Bonnie is my mothers first name and Gene is my fathers first name)
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    You made a mistake. All you can do is pick up the pieces and try to move on. At least you don't have any children of your own or this could get messy. Hate to say it, but I would be right up there with that angry woman and her golf club.

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    Um. .. is this post a joke?

    I'm sorry, not trying to be insensitive. For some reason this post just seems a bit unbelievable.

    If it's true I'm sorry

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    Yeah I second that. Sounds like a troll mocking with all the cliches rolled into one story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Danni View Post
    Yeah I second that. Sounds like a troll mocking with all the cliches rolled into one story.
    -_-
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    Elusive21,

    No, this is not a joke. You have no idea how much I wish it was. I'm sorry it seems like a joke to you. I really just felt the need to put my thoughts out there on an open forum. I know it sounds strange but just seeing it out there makes me feel better.

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    If its not a joke. You need to stop and and think everything happens for a reason. If your husband loves you yes he will be upset wont even look at you upset but will stay and try to get through this with you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    Um. .. is this post a joke?

    I'm sorry, not trying to be insensitive. For some reason this post just seems a bit unbelievable.

    If it's true I'm sorry
    Sure seems like it is. I have a really hard time someone would become a prostitute to pay for the-guy-their-cheating-on-their-husband-with's debt. I mean... she's VOLUNTEERED to suck dick for money (she was never asked to make) for her neighbor she CLEARLY has no future with..?
    The post seems too well written for someone to volunteer to have a pimp.
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    Smells fishy..and for a first post? I'm not buying...

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    Literotica.com -Loving Wives.
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    If not , My heart goes out to you. And i apologize.
    (Yes i read porn...SO?) lol
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    i bet it's one of those tigerdropping guys. i read where one guy said he was still registered but was waiting to make a post so it wouldn't be suspicious.
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    Doesnt make any sense for your struggling that you start to doing over the legal things at your job and giving most of your money to the neighbor.

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    I'd say it's time to get a divorce; try as he may, your hubby will never be able to forget what you did.

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    The OP seems pretty legit to me.

    Things like these happen a lot when there's military people involved.

    I had lots of friends (and FwB) getting fucked up by girls like the OP.

    If I ever get to meet the OP, I will beat her to death; thanks to bitches like you, my junior service members are always broke.





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    ^You have the option to ignore me, right? Ignore me!
    Well, say whatever you want but I'm tired of having to deal with guys from my department that get involved with bitches like the OP; lots of counseling and shit that affects productivity. Plus, when this happen, it means less money for me and for the other girls at the clubs I dance.

    This area, Hampton Roads in Virginia, depends almost entirely of the military.

    Crying for help or crying in order to get her ass beat up?





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