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    I've been camming for almost 3 years, and ever since the newness wore off, I can not bring myself to be super nice in free chat. Once a guy is in private, and I know he isn't just a freeloader, I'm super nice to him, and I sometimes genuinely enjoy talking to the guys, but in free chat, I just think that all the guys want something for free, until they go private, and after 10 minutes of talking, I can't help but suggest some fun in private, which I think hurts my business. I watch other cam girls who appear to love talking to these guys in free chat, and never ask for privates, and I strive to be like them lol. Does anyone have any tips for pretending to actually be interested in these guys?

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    Default Re: Help me turn my attitude around!

    no.

    you sound burned out. actually, you don't even seem like you like your job AT ALL.

    I say quit and move on. We cant force you to like it. If you force yourself to do something you don't like you will be burnt out quicker than you know it...like now.

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    Default Re: Help me turn my attitude around!

    Kyleigh, You need a break for at least for a week. My cam burnout got so bad that I couldn't get in front of the cam to make money to pay my lease. It got that bad. I didn't know it could happen to me but it did. After escorting for a while and getting to a place where I was comfortable I decided to cam again and I realized I was happy again. So there is nothing we can tell you per say.. you just need to take a break, DO SOMETHING ELSE for awhile, figure out what it is you want from camming again and try again. That's what I did and it worked.

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    I have not been camming for a full week. and now im pumped up about working, I have full plans and all...LOL

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    You just have to remember it's a job. Sometimes I have to pretend my boss is going to walk in any moment and fire me if I'm not being perky and customer oriented. Otherwise I just kind of glare at the camera lol
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    Default Re: Help me turn my attitude around!

    Quote Originally Posted by goreantx View Post
    You just have to remember it's a job. Sometimes I have to pretend my boss is going to walk in any moment and fire me if I'm not being perky and customer oriented. Otherwise I just kind of glare at the camera lol
    omg! i totally do something like this lol.. I will pretend I'm acting out a scene in a movie where im like the perfectly happy and flirty cam girl

    but for the OP...you just need to realize that the guys in your free chat do not know that you will "perk up" when they go pvt, so if you are kinda blah in free chat they will expect a blah show--and who wants that?
    "Achieving success is a challenge but so is struggling so you may as well choose success."

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    Quote Originally Posted by h0ttie View Post
    but for the OP...you just need to realize that the guys in your free chat do not know that you will "perk up" when they go pvt, so if you are kinda blah in free chat they will expect a blah show--and who wants that?
    This! Thanks so much for this tip! I do enjoy my job, but since so many guys in free chat are full of shit, I hate that part of it. I guess I just hate free chat, but my favorite sites require free chat.

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