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    It has happened a few times where I would be sitting with a customer watching a girl on stage and comment at how I really like a certain thing shes doing, and I get a "meh" or that doesnt rly turn me on response. when the girl is doing the splits or a crazy pole move that I know to appreciate because I know what its like and can appreciate the work they have put in to it. but Im onto the suspicion that guys dont even look at that, they are on a muhc simply level. What would totally keep your attention on a dancer, dance wise assuming she is not ugly(sorry) and not necessarily giving you much eye contact, just the dance itself is enough to tantalize you? Would love to hear your experiences!

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    Default Re: Guys! What do you enjoy watching on stage?

    I go to the clubs with the intent of buying private dances. If I am watching a girl on stage and considering buying a dance from her I am looking for eye contact and a smile for the most part. Tricks and fancy pole work are not an indication of how she will behave in the private dance area. Her eyes, her smile and her more subtle body movements are. If she can sell intimacy from the stage when she comes over for my tip she's probably going to be able to do it one on one as well.
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    Over the years, I came to pay essentially zero attention to the stage. I'd be aware if a friend was on stage but would really only visit under a couple of circumstances, namely if they were being ignored by everyone in the club or being ogled by guys who clearly were not going to tip them (they would generally be in an area referred to as "the erection section" by the girls). The visits I made could hardly be considered stage dances anyhow as they generally sat down and shot the breeze with me about the lack of useful attention they were receiving.
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    Really, when it comes to stage to me it's "who" not "what." If she's attractive to me, and sensual, I don't care if she's standing on her hands or lighting her pubic hair on fire. In fact, would prefer not.

    A dancer I'd not yet focused on can catch my eye with sensuality, not acrobatics.

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    Default Re: Guys! What do you enjoy watching on stage?

    I usually don't sit near the stage, but if she has athletic grace, puts effort into her presentation and looks like she in enjoying herself I am much more likley to go to the stage and give a tip. If she gives good eye contact and is responsive when I am at the stage ill be a lot more likley to ask her to come by my table as a prelude to a private dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TequilatoKillYa View Post
    It has happened a few times where I would be sitting with a customer watching a girl on stage and comment at how I really like a certain thing shes doing, and I get a "meh" or that doesnt rly turn me on response. when the girl is doing the splits or a crazy pole move that I know to appreciate because I know what its like and can appreciate the work they have put in to it. but Im onto the suspicion that guys dont even look at that, they are on a muhc simply level. What would totally keep your attention on a dancer, dance wise assuming she is not ugly(sorry) and not necessarily giving you much eye contact, just the dance itself is enough to tantalize you? Would love to hear your experiences!
    1) you're personal attraction level to her at first sight. 2) The music and song she's dancing to. 3) How natural and comfortable she looks on stage.

    Twists and twirls and double back-flips all over the pole don't matter at all

    Basically do what you like and what makes you comfortable and you'll attract the type of guy who will genuinely want to give you his hard earned cash.

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    As an aside, I'd as soon set myself on fire as sit at the ring of seats surrounding the stage.

    I prefer a little separation, and (rationally or not) feel way too much like some kind of oggling buffoon there.

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    Default Re: Guys! What do you enjoy watching on stage?

    I guess I like pole tricks more than most guys: spinning with arms only, disrobing while on the pole.

    Oh, contact is welcomed as well. Lean into us, legs on our shoulders, etc.

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    I like when the girls just lie down on the stage spread-eagle and finger themselves for the entire song.

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    I kinda consider myself boring onstage because #1 we have no pole so therefore I know no pole tricks. #2 I can't do the splits or cartwheels or anything of the sort. So what do I do? I play with my hair, pile it on top of my head and use the other hand to caress my breasts and run it down my stomach all the way down and then back up.. may even make intense eye contact and subtly put that finger in my mouth. I turn around, bend over and give a great view of my ass, run my hand down my leg and back up, grazing the back of my vagina, I get down onstage doggy style and roll my butt in a circle a few times. But above all I SMILE. Of everything I do, I will get complimented on the fact that I'm smiling. And I always, always, always say thank you when tipped. I make sure I get really close to their ear and whisper it

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    Is true, thinking about it smiling is the single thing that makes a difference watching a girl onstage, whatever else she's up to.

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    I like pole dancing a lot. The more acrobatic the better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rlams2000 View Post
    I like pole dancing a lot. The more acrobatic the better.
    cheers to that. What I consider a good "main stage" act
    1.working the crowd. Cat calls maybe, eye contact, finger waving, or just displaying excitement in what she's doing for the crowd to feed off of. Can't imagine an unenthusiastic dancer bringing in too much (well least not from me)
    2. working the music (is she off beat or actually on rhythm. Maybe she throws in a certain pole movement to compliment the song or does a seductive movement to the beat or certain lyric)
    3. , managing the interaction with tippers adequately (does she diversify her approach to each tipper or does she doing the same dull routine with all of them. Variety could be gliding on all fours to a tipper, maybe a sexy strut, hell I rememebr this one gal working the hell out of Explosion by Van Halen and did a hand stand resulting with her legs on a dudes shoulder to grind him *made me envy em* as he tipped....whoa)
    4. Working the stage. You have a whole floor to work with & many possibilities. Twirling around the pole always gets me and there's a variety of ways to twirl around a pole.
    5. Use what your wearing. Clever tactics like swinging your bra around (or panties if full nude) always a nice touch. If you're feeling cheeky place it on the guy's head )
    6.Don't just take off your clothes, Taaaaaaake off your clothes.

    Obviously a lovely can't manage to fufill it all (wishful thinking right?) but if she does

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Tricks and fancy pole work are not an indication of how she will behave in the private dance area.
    Sometimes it is! There's a girl at one of my old clubs that all the guys on zbone say dances in the back just like on stage. "She's hanging from the booth flipping around crazy above my head... and I just sat there waiting for the dance to start... then it was over."
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    Default Re: Guys! What do you enjoy watching on stage?

    I used to get a lot of stage tips and the single most important thing is:

    LOOK LIKE YOU'RE HAVING A GOOD TIME AND PICK FUN MUSIC.

    I did an experiment when I was in New Orleans. For awhile, I danced to what I liked, which happens to be some pretty out there, eclectic shit most people have never heard of (Fact: Guys don't generally want to see a girl who dances to The Mars Volta's "Widow"). Then I switched clubs and one night I was feeling unusually bouncy, and danced to Lady Gaga's "Telephone". I was wearing a gown, dressed to the nines- but I had a LOT of fun with it, smiled, danced enthusiastically, played it up... and guess what? It worked. Not only did it work, it made me seem approachable.

    If dtxgirl is around here, she can tell you- the night before Halloween, I dressed like a schoolgirl, danced to Britney Spears and made over $100 an hour. Guys like girls who they think they can have a good time with because, let's face it- that's why they are there. Gorgeous, positive AND approachable is always a winning combination.

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    I like athletic dancers....but mostly because they tend to be really fit. I love eye contact, and someone who looks like she actually enjoys dancing.

    Girls who twirl around the pole while watching tv don't give me any indication that LD time will be any more fun than that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I used to get a lot of stage tips and the single most important thing is:

    LOOK LIKE YOU'RE HAVING A GOOD TIME AND PICK FUN MUSIC.
    I am totally in agreement with this. I want to see a girl having fun (or at least acting like it) with her sexuality and creativity on stage. I also like special effects like smoke, strobe lights, silhouette lighting, etc.

    Basic stripper pole moves are very sexy. Advanced acrobatics are impressive, but don't do much for me erotically.

    When I tip her on stage, I love for her to smile, flirt with me and touch me. (Love it when they put their legs around me or rest them on my shoulders.)
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    This is where my club is so hard stage wise... We don't have a pole, we can't put our boobs in faces, can't take money in our thongs, definitely can't put our legs on shoulders or pussies in faces... so we pretty much suck when it comes to stage!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    This is where my club is so hard stage wise... We don't have a pole, we can't put our boobs in faces, can't take money in our thongs, definitely can't put our legs on shoulders or pussies in faces... so we pretty much suck when it comes to stage!!
    Wear a sexy Packers outfit and tackle the guy?

    Or is the hawt Packers theme a standard in Wisconsin?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Montrealais View Post
    Wear a sexy Packers outfit and tackle the guy?

    Or is the hawt Packers theme a standard in Wisconsin?
    LOL, nope no tackling either! And because we are so lose to the IL border, most of our patrons are Bears fans.. fucking traitors...lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    This is where my club is so hard stage wise... We don't have a pole, we can't put our boobs in faces, can't take money in our thongs, definitely can't put our legs on shoulders or pussies in faces... so we pretty much suck when it comes to stage!!
    Nose rub or cheek rub. Say thank you, put your hands on each side of the guys face, and lightly rub noses with him, then smile. If you can't do that, then put one hand against the side of his face like you would a guy you care about, smile and look into his eyes. Works every time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    LOL, nope no tackling either! And because we are so lose to the IL border, most of our patrons are Bears fans.. fucking traitors...lol
    Its not that there are more Bear fans in your area......Its just that all the Packer fans are into animal porn, so they are somewhere other than your club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by warpath View Post
    I like when the girls just lie down on the stage spread-eagle and finger themselves for the entire song.

    Was i the only one who thought this was funny?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Nose rub or cheek rub. Say thank you, put your hands on each side of the guys face, and lightly rub noses with him, then smile. If you can't do that, then put one hand against the side of his face like you would a guy you care about, smile and look into his eyes. Works every time.
    Haha, I'm a total eskimo kisser!!! I do exactly what you said, while I'm onstage Unfortunately so many guys aren't used to a really toned down SC like mine :/ So stage is sometimes hard to get tipped at..

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Haha, I'm a total eskimo kisser!!! I do exactly what you said, while I'm onstage Unfortunately so many guys aren't used to a really toned down SC like mine :/ So stage is sometimes hard to get tipped at..
    So while you're nose-kissing, whisper to him that the club keeps the stage show tame... but you'd love to show him what you do in private!?

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