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    Ahh , Its so scary , i was suppose to start today but my shoes didnt get here.
    Its probably just some sort of mental excuse but wow, im terrified.
    Im going to go next weekend , when i have my own clothes and stuff, and am really excited , but nervous.

    Im going to drop my husband off with a friend at another club down the street while i work.
    Im so scared the girls wont like me , i wont make money , and ill get scared for life by something awful.
    Not to mention scared ill get harmed.

    Venting...
    Idk what to do.. 1 second im so excited i cant sleep , the next im so scared i think ill puke.
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    Oops hehe this was meant for the General section =[
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    Default Re: Am i ready?

    If that's you in your avatar, you've been ready for a lot longer than you ever knew, and the only thing you have to be scared of is not getting all the money you make into the bank fast enough and someone maybe stealing some of it.

    OTOH, it can be intimidating at first. What no one ever discusses (especially outside the industry) is that you are in fact putting on a show, getting up on a stage and dancing for an audience, performing for a bunch of strangers. This is something most people simply cannot do, not at all easily anyway.

    Having had some theater experience, I recognize the same kinds of feelings you get from stage work, up there in the booth (the smart dancers understand we are a team putting on a show together). It gets the adrenaline going, that's for sure.

    But again, you need to just relax as much as possible. Once you get up there a few times it'll seem like no big deal at all. If you've ever had any ballet, modern dance, or gymnastics experience you are going to rock the house, they always do. Some girls take to it immediately even if they were nervous at first.

    I do know a very few girls who have danced a while who still get a little nervous up there, but it's pretty rare unless maybe they are starting at a new club.

    I used to get so fucking nervous before and during auditions! Despite several years experience working Spring Break crowds of 300-1500 crazy drunk people.



    Oh be sure to practice walking around in those shoes! Two very important reasons--one I have yet to see a new pair of stripper shoes that didn't chafe the feet and often raise blisters. And two those shoes are tough to walk in, let alone dance in, if you aren't used to them.

    My advice would be to put on the shoes and put on a show for your husband to get used to it. I''m sure he won't mind lol!
    You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
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    Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
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    It doesn't matter what the girls think of you - they aren't the ones who are paying you. Keep to yourself, be nice but don't go out of your way to do so, and just keep hustling. Nerves are totally normal, but you'll catch on quick!

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    If that's you in your avatar...you are DEFINITELY ready physically. Damn, you look good.

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    How did it go?

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