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    Quote Originally Posted by phoenixxxrising View Post
    What you should probably focus your time on is looking for one sugar daddy who has deep pockets, a generous heart & erectile disfunction. That scenario is exceedingly easier to find than a selection of men in one city or region that are will to pay without play.

    I'm not going to say social escorting doesn't exist, because you will not believe all of the things that exist under the sun. However, I will say that you should probably reconsider your expectations. Say you were to meet a man willing to pay JUST for your time and no sex. How much do you think he would be willing to pay. Also, do YOU have the skills (socially and aesthetically) to make him feel the time was worth the price. Most businessmen become successful because they have a business mind. When they spend money on something they see it as an investment. With investing you want the greatest return for the smallest fee. Usually in escorting this would mean the best sex (or fetish act) with the best looking woman, according to their desires, for the most reasonable price that they are willing to pay.

    In social escorting, which is what you want to do, there is a much harder game to play. If you are not pleasing him sexually then you must be THE BEST at something else in order to make the investment worth it. Do you have the best face and body on the left side of the mississippi river? Or do you have some magical way of keeping men hypnotised by your conversation & left burning for more? What do you have that is special and makes you worth the money with NO sex?

    Then this goes back to how much are you expecting to be paid? Many escorts are paid anywhere from $300/hr to thousands per hour. Do you expect to be paid as much as or more than that? If not then it probably won't be enough money to make a living off of.

    Think of it this way, a man can have many friends, male & female, for free. He can pay a "regular" escort for companionship and get the benefit of sex. So, if a man wanted a social companion for the evening it would probably be easier & a safer investment to enlist the company of one of his friends, free of charge; or hire an escort and basically have the OPTION of whether or not he had sex.

    I know this is not the answer you were looking for but I just thought I'd throw it in for you to think about and to possibly help you understand why it will be so hard to find. I'm not saying you can't find it, but if you want to make GOOD money then don't get your hopes up. Look at the state of our economy. People want to be happy and TYPICALLY a social encounter that they have to pay for ain't gonna cut it so... your goal is few & far between but hey you might get lucky just prepare yourself.

    By the way I'm not an escort either, just wanted to chime in so if you don't like my post ignore it. :-)
    Phoenixxx, great input and your avatar / skin tone is on-point
    One thing that also inspired this thread, is the fact that I have had one particular friend ( i.e. a Sugar Daddy) whose been generously gifting me for the last six years. And in spite of all the monetary gifts, fine dining, shopping and vacations between us, he has not once mentioned, initiated nor made sex a factor in our relationship...Even though we did meet while I was stripping. At this point, I'm guessing that he just genuinely enjoys me? Case being, this personal situation peaked my curiousity about other's success and the possibilities of success in this area...I would have gone into more detail about this in the beginning, but wanted unbiased feedback, hence the dictionary reference, which may have been off-putting to some.

    Anyhow, thanks for your response. It leads me to further analyze the fine line between being a social escort and a "Sugar Baby." Both, potentially lucrative depending on your angle...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Midnight Oil View Post
    Thanks for the input, Goreantx.

    Right now, camming is my sole source of earned income and partially what inspired me to create this thread in the beginning. I would have gone into more detail about that earlier, but after receiving so much fast "shade" surrounding this topic, it was kinda challenging to do so. Anyhow. You're probably onto something here I was thinking that[webcamming] might be an effective turnover for a successful, non-sexual escorting operation, too. If not to replace a full-time income, at least generate a nice supplementary one.

    Personally, considering all of the "companionship requests" I've received since camming [especially from Overseas businessmen wanting company while on Stateside travel] it made me hopeful about the demand and validity of this type of service. And considering the fact that the majority of these requests are made by camming clients who are usually very generous with our time spent together online, where typically they want nothing more than conversation (and at maximum surface nudity, where they usually ask me to put my clothes back on shortly after) kinda confirms this possibility.

    And in speaking with a couple other Ladies here, behind the scenes, it seems that with solid planning, effective target marketing and clearly defined personal boundaries, that this may be achievable...Guess these are all things I'd need to work on in order to make this sorta thing pop off in moving forward.
    Sigh. Camming is NOT escorting. The two are totally DIFFERENT.

    "Solid planning " ? "Effective target marketing" ? "Clearly defined personal boundaries" ? "This may be achievable " ? I'm very sorry but this is the stuff that fantasies are made of. As I have posted numerous times there IS a very thin strata of ultra high end escorts who sell sophisticated female companionship as much as they do their sexual favors.

    Do you have a graduate degree from a top school ? Most of them do.

    Do you have extensive experience on Wall St. or in the hospitality or other industry that caters to wealthy men ? Almost ALL of them do.

    Do you speak a foreign language ? Most of them do. Fluently.

    Can you handle sitting next to captains of industry and members of high society and holding an intelligent conversation ? They can.

    Forget Charlie Sheen. Most of these gals wouldn't go near him. Think more like Donald Trump type and Wall St guys.

    Do you know the difference between a Manet and a Monet , a merlot vs. a malbec, which fork to use first at a formal dinner ? They do.

    Do you read the N.Y. Times, WSJ, Forbes instead of USA Today and Cosmo. They do. They also watch CNBC and the History Channel a lot more than Oprah or The View.

    Most of these gals do NOT advertise. They do NOT post Eros Ads or announcements on TER. They don't have to.

    So at the risk of being offensive ( please pardon me in advance ) "Solid Planning" for WHAT ? Just what exactly do you think you can realistically accomplish ? Get a Sugar Daddy ? There are plenty of threads here on that. That is not this. "Effective target marketing" ? Marketing what to whom ? How ? "Clearly defined personal boundaries " is a recipe for almost guaranteed FAILURE in the escort biz. Just ask the "safety " and "non-gfe" ladies how tough it is these days.
    "This may be achievable" on T.V. or in the movies. NOT in the real world.

    I am very sorry to be a wet blanket but if you like camming and it's successful for you then stick to it. If you want to be an escort then be prepared to have sex with strangers for money. Period. There is no way to have your cake and eat it in the escort biz.
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    Wow! I appreciate the fact that you put so much effort into your post, Eric. However, I feel that you may have over-dissected and perhaps misconstrued my responses in this thread. Anyhow, you've left me curious...

    Are YOU a [Social] Escort or are you simply speaking on their behalf? How can you assume something isn't possible ( i.e a certain level of financial success) if YOU haven't experience it for yourself? Does your above Teddy Roosevelt quote hold any relevance in this discussion? If so (please pardon me in advance if I come off as offensive) it seems to me, that you're speaking a contradiction. And finally, success is subjective to each individual- it is NOT universal. When opening this thread, that was my very goal: to find out individual experiences concerning a certain level of [financial] success. But obviously, it has turned into much more than that. And as juicy as it has become, I think I may just let you have it, lol.
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    While I was dancing in Vegas I made a lot of money going gambling with guys. Once $8,500! and it was understood that there was no sex or funny business. I will say this, it was at the height of my looks and yes I do have a college degree lol. My friend a very very beautiful girl went gambling with a movie producer and they agreed in advance they would split whatever they made 50/50 she went home to her hubby and kids with $70,000..(absolutely no sex, no physical stuff) If you live in Vegas and are willing to dance or go out to nightclubs yes you could totally make money off of social escorting!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Midnight Oil View Post
    Wow! I appreciate the fact that you put so much effort into your post, Eric. However, I feel that you may have over-dissected and perhaps misconstrued my responses in this thread. Anyhow, you've left me curious...

    Are YOU a [Social] Escort or are you simply speaking on their behalf? How can you assume something isn't possible ( i.e a certain level of financial success) if YOU haven't experience it for yourself? Does your above Teddy Roosevelt quote hold any relevance in this discussion? If so (please pardon me in advance if I come off as offensive) it seems to me, that you're speaking a contradiction. And finally, success is subjective to each individual- it is NOT universal. When opening this thread, that was my very goal: to find out individual experiences concerning a certain level of [financial] success. But obviously, it has turned into much more than that. And as juicy as it has become, I think I may just let you have it, lol.
    No. I flunked the physical.

    The fact is that I know a few very high end escorts. VERY well. I've had extensive business dealings with the type of guys that they cater to. Conceptually, almost anything is POSSIBLE. Including being an escort without providing sex, I suppose. But the likelihood of being able to MAKE A LIVING providing that kind of a service is so remote as to approach the realm of pie in the sky fantasy.

    Let's agree that there is a group of wealthy guys out there who just want arm candy and good conversation ( including somebody to gamble with ). How many of THEM do you seriously think there are compared to the overwhelming majority who want you to drop the laundry and get busy ? If it's 2 or 3 % it is a lot. How many gals do you think there are competing for that relatively tiny niche of the escort customer base ? Does it make sense that the gals able to access that relatively tiny market have the connections, skills and attributes that enable them to sell intelligent companionship over sex ? If you seriously think that you have those skills, traits and attributes and that you have a serious idea of how to successfully market yourself to that tiny market : Go For It ! Best of luck to you and please report back and let us all know how it is working out for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Camateur View Post
    While I was dancing in Vegas I made a lot of money going gambling with guys. Once $8,500! and it was understood that there was no sex or funny business. I will say this, it was at the height of my looks and yes I do have a college degree lol. My friend a very very beautiful girl went gambling with a movie producer and they agreed in advance they would split whatever they made 50/50 she went home to her hubby and kids with $70,000..(absolutely no sex, no physical stuff) If you live in Vegas and are willing to dance or go out to nightclubs yes you could totally make money off of social escorting!
    In high end NYC clubs guys pay gals to sit and talk with them. Some have been taken on shopping sprees and a few on all expenses paid vacations. They are ALL variants on Sugar-Daddy / Sugar -Baby relationships afaic. More casual and less formalized than others but essentially the same thing.

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    Ok read this whole thread.

    First I was curious since I think I may have asked this question myself.
    Second I was surprised at how so many chewed this poster's head off. I would say camming is one way. Many the highest spenders didn't ask me to take anything off but chatted with me for several hours fully clothed in privates. They were also very attractive men. The funny thing was that they listened to me talk , even when I asked them questions about their serious position in the world, they really just wanted to enjoy being away from "work" responsibilities. So I do think it's possible. I just think when it comes to camming you have to be careful , because you really don't know who this person is. I've known strippers to meet many of these men at the club and they would take them out and give them money just to chat and it was non sexual. Even their vip times were just talking.

    I have also been attacked by men that wanted sex for money . They would get nasty and angry calling me stupid or dumb. I obviously hurt their feelings that whatever they offered would never been enough to lay down with them. But usually these men were offering $100 to $300 for a night to be with them and let's just say they were hideous to look at and old as dirt. Ohh and their personality was garbage.

    So they got turned down without even batting an eyelash.

    I have never escorted even though I was very curious to do "clean" escorting but after looking at the top escort companies I realized that these things didn't exist if you are advertising as an escort.

    The further away you seem to get away from that title the better your chances seem to be for finding a companionship situation.

    Posting ads will probably be just as bad because you'll most likely attract men that are just looking for sex. I say keep camming or stripping and see which men approach you for a date. Be specific that you're not an escort and if that's too vague say you will not be having sex with them. At this point there is no confusion. If he wants to be in your company then he will not mind paying for your time.

    Escorting used to really be just spending time, but as time has passed that term has changed. So from what I've heard the new term for "clean" escorting is Companionship.

    If you look around on the threads you'll see even some men fit this exactly. They spend money on her time out of the club but they don't sleep with her. It's mostly dinner and conversations.

    I'm glad you posted this , I just feel bad you got attacked. Your desire to be a companion is not a dream or fantasy. Men that are looking for this do exist. And from what I read of your situation you sound like you've already stumbled across one. IF its happened once then it can happen again. Best Wishes

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Ok read this whole thread.

    First I was curious since I think I may have asked this question myself.
    Second I was surprised at how so many chewed this poster's head off. I would say camming is one way. Many the highest spenders didn't ask me to take anything off but chatted with me for several hours fully clothed in privates. They were also very attractive men. The funny thing was that they listened to me talk , even when I asked them questions about their serious position in the world, they really just wanted to enjoy being away from "work" responsibilities. So I do think it's possible. I just think when it comes to camming you have to be careful , because you really don't know who this person is. I've known strippers to meet many of these men at the club and they would take them out and give them money just to chat and it was non sexual. Even their vip times were just talking.

    I have also been attacked by men that wanted sex for money . They would get nasty and angry calling me stupid or dumb. I obviously hurt their feelings that whatever they offered would never been enough to lay down with them. But usually these men were offering $100 to $300 for a night to be with them and let's just say they were hideous to look at and old as dirt. Ohh and their personality was garbage.

    So they got turned down without even batting an eyelash.

    I have never escorted even though I was very curious to do "clean" escorting but after looking at the top escort companies I realized that these things didn't exist if you are advertising as an escort.

    The further away you seem to get away from that title the better your chances seem to be for finding a companionship situation.

    Posting ads will probably be just as bad because you'll most likely attract men that are just looking for sex. I say keep camming or stripping and see which men approach you for a date. Be specific that you're not an escort and if that's too vague say you will not be having sex with them. At this point there is no confusion. If he wants to be in your company then he will not mind paying for your time.

    Escorting used to really be just spending time, but as time has passed that term has changed. So from what I've heard the new term for "clean" escorting is Companionship.

    If you look around on the threads you'll see even some men fit this exactly. They spend money on her time out of the club but they don't sleep with her. It's mostly dinner and conversations.

    I'm glad you posted this , I just feel bad you got attacked. Your desire to be a companion is not a dream or fantasy. Men that are looking for this do exist. And from what I read of your situation you sound like you've already stumbled across one. IF its happened once then it can happen again. Best Wishes
    I for one did NOT attack her. And I admittedly have a bias against the ridiculous idea that you can be an ESCORT without having sex. Possible but unlikely. And imho it can be dangerous because judging by how often this question gets raised, there are too many gals out there who seriously think it is possible. Afaic, if just one gal gets set straight and is apprised of what escorting really is out in the REAL world, then my posts were worthwhile.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eric Stoner View Post
    I for one did NOT attack her. And I admittedly have a bias against the ridiculous idea that you can be an ESCORT without having sex. Possible but unlikely. And its dangerous becuase judging by how often this question gets raised, there are too many gals out there who seriously think it is possible. Afaic, if just one gal gets set straight and is apprised of what escorting really is out in the REAL world, then my posts were worthwhile.
    Ohh you think I didn't already realize this? Yes I understand how biased you are. and you are not alone in calling people "ridiculous". Also on the same token some men may feel it's ridiculous to view women as just a hole to fill. There are also men that feel it's ridiculous to PAY FOR SEX. Are you that ugly? hmm but who am I to say that they are ridiculous for their views? If it happens then it's obviously something that's REAL. So to each his/her own.

    This is why I told her to get away from the term "ESCORT" since that term has now become a nice word for PROSTITUTE.

    COMPANIONSHIP MAY BE THE NEW WAVE NOW. Yes in the REAL world some men do not need to have sex to enjoy a woman's company. I understand your views but again these men are out there. The proof is in her current situation obviously. She will just have to look for men that will respect these boundaries and compensate her for her time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Ohh you think I didn't already realize this? Yes I understand how biased you are. and you are not alone in calling people "ridiculous". Also on the same token some men may feel it's ridiculous to view women as just a hole to fill. There are also men that feel it's ridiculous to PAY FOR SEX. Are you that ugly? hmm but who am I to say that they are ridiculous for their views? If it happens then it's obviously something that's REAL. So to each his/her own.

    This is why I told her to get away from the term "ESCORT" since that term has now become a nice word for PROSTITUTE.

    COMPANIONSHIP MAY BE THE NEW WAVE NOW. Yes in the REAL world some men do not need to have sex to enjoy a woman's company. I understand your views but again these men are out there. The proof is in her current situation obviously. She will just have to look for men that will respect these boundaries and compensate her for her time.
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    Every-time you say "companionship" I chuckle just a little. If anyone started a "just companionship" website it would be looked at as escort. Companionship only (the way you see it) is not the new wave and it will never be. Prostitution is the oldest profession. It's a multi-billion dollar industry because... sex sells. Manipulating men/using them for their money is so old news. I did that when I was 17 and nice chump change. Men are getting smarter and even starting to trick girls into thinking they'll be their SDs and getting free sex *giggles*.

    Escorts use the term companionship all the time. It's because that's what we are. We are companions. We don't sell sex but our time .. right? So what makes you think a man would not see companionship and think escort? It's like saying GFE and in the same sentence saying you won't be having sex. LOL!

    I will never tell a lady what to do with herself. In fact, I think the OP should go for it and tell us about her findings. I know that there are men that will pay just for eyecandy and nothing else because I used to see those men. I never looked at it as a profession because it never was. I was great at using men and wallet raping them. With escorting, both parties knows what they are getting. The girl is walking away with a good amount of cash and the man leaves satisfied and no one feels used. I like that so much better.

    I would suggest the OP look at it the way I did. As a hobby and not as another profession or else she would go broke relying on it for steady income. Good luck.

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    No one has attacked anyone.

    I for one find it quite irritating and insulting that someone would come post on board full of sex workers and inquire about doing our jobs without sex.

    Newflash - We are sexworkers.

    We have (gasp)

    SEX!!!

    And then to further attempt to talk down to us because we are working our chosen profession is nothing but all out RUDE.

    And attempting to attack Eric Stoner because he is man is weak. He knows more about escorting than many of the women here who are posting and openly admit they know nothing at all about but yet continue to make contributions to the discussions.

    Why do those women get to post if they know nothing at all either?

    This is a board for sex workers. I find the question naive, irritating and insulting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post

    I for one find it quite irritating and insulting that someone would come post on board full of sex workers and inquire about doing our jobs without sex.
    OMG I love it!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    no one has attacked anyone.

    I for one find it quite irritating and insulting that someone would come post on board full of sex workers and inquire about doing our jobs without sex.

    Newflash - we are sexworkers.

    We have (gasp)

    sex!!!

    and then to further attempt to talk down to us because we are working our chosen profession is nothing but all out rude.

    ok i'm not talking down to anyone. I said to each his/her own. Everyone is going to do what they want to make money.

    and attempting to attack eric stoner because he is man is weak. He knows more about escorting than many of the women here who are posting and openly admit they know nothing at all about but yet continue to make contributions to the discussions.

    i didn't attack eric stoner. He said it was "ridiculous" because he obviously would never pay to be in a woman's company but perhaps would pay for sex or atlleast find that to be a fair exchange. He himself stated that his view is biased about spending money and not getting laid. Him being a man is not not an excuse but many men hold this same view. We have men talking about going to an sc to get laid in the strip club and others that will take a stripper out for dinner and conversation and leave it at that. There will always be people on opposite sides of what they are looking for when dealing with a woman in the sex industry.

    why do those women get to post if they know nothing at all either?

    ok see this is like her saying " why do escorts that have sex for money get to post , since those weren't the posters she was originally looking for in the first place"

    you obviously have great insight being a pay for sex escort and that's wonderful, but you came at her with such anger and talked down to her which was why i posted here. I obviously am not an escort but i have had situations where i have my time paid for, gifts trips and i didn't have sex with these men.

    this is a board for sex workers. I find the question naive, irritating and insulting.

    Yes this board is for sex workers and be it a cam model, a stripper , escort etc we are all here to share information , give advice if we have any and learn some things too. This is why i enjoy this forum so much. But i don't understand why this would be insulting or irritating to you? If another woman gets paid for her time and does pretty darn good not having sex why would you feel this lessons what you do in anyway? She's not in competition with what you offer at all so i don't know why she's angered you some how or even why my comments on this topic have upset you. After seeing the "warning for pee show performs" at the top of the site and seeing that hideous man filming these escorts. The very thought of having sex with a man like that is repulsive. He couldn't pay me enough. Now because my stomach is weaker then say another woman's doesn't make me look down on anyone. If you have the mindset to share your body with these men then you have a much stronger stomach then i could have any day. This being said some men may find a woman to be a catch if she hasn't been an escort or isn't looking at the exchange of money for sex .

    Is it rare and harder to find this sort of situation? Yes it is but it does exist.

    Even in camming, some girls need to do vomit scat dp etc. Where you can go to another girl's room and she's fully clothed and making crazy money. Why would the 1st girl get mad at the 2nd? Many could sit back and say wow she's not doing anything and making crazy money , but i have to do all of this to match that wtf? But it's not fair to bash the girl for what she gets. All you can do is tell them well hey it's not unheard of but it's alittle harder to do and may require more time.

    Also if my term of "companionship" was laughable again perhaps i'm using the wrong term yet again. So maybe sugar baby is the right one. Who knows.
    all in all do what works for you.

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    This is crazy---- You're saying such things don't exist , but several members just last week were saying they were accepting offers for dates, for high prices, and stating it was JUST for company .... Well at these prices, the OP could do all the things s/he stated !

    I'm confused how the same people who were explaining this dating idea, are now saying it's non existent , it was also made clear in the whatsyourprice thread , that it DEFINITELY wasn't for sex , and should the guy expect sex ... Tough luck , because that wasn't the agreement ...

    Now I don't have a clue , because I don't escort, but I do see a BIG contradiction !

    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=152700 I mean what about this ?!

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    Cherry - I was not referring to you when I spoke of having someone talk down to me. I also wasn't referring to you in regard to Eric.

    I am not saying other women should not post here, but merely stating that if they can post here, so can Eric.

    What kind of response to you think I will recieve if I go to an animal rights site and ask them their opinion on clubbing baby seals?

    How about I go to vegan site and post pics of me eating my tasty burger?

    How about I go to a Christian site and tell them I am Satanic?

    The question she asked is almost troll-ish in nature. Almost...

    She has actually received quite a polite response given the nature of her question and the forum in which she chose to post it. We have all tried to give her fair answers, despite the irritating nature of the question and her failure to see the rude nature of her question. Her condescending disposition only adds insult to injury and despite her attitude, still no one has attacked her.

    I am surprised with prior blowouts that have happened in Other Work section, she hasn't been chewed a new one.

    She asked a question, we answered. She didn't like our answers but she persists despite the fact she is really asking the wrong group of people.

    Brb...I am gonna go over to an alcholics anonymous site and ask them if they have considered taking up drinking again.

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    Ukmissy, it's not that it doesn't exist.

    It's that you cannot make a living at it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ukmissy View Post
    This is crazy---- You're saying such things don't exist , but several members just last week were saying they were accepting offers for dates, for high prices, and stating it was JUST for company .... Well at these prices, the OP could do all the things s/he stated !

    I'm confused how the same people who were explaining this dating idea, are now saying it's non existent , it was also made clear in the whatsyourprice thread , that it DEFINITELY wasn't for sex , and should the guy expect sex ... Tough luck , because that wasn't the agreement ...

    Now I don't have a clue , because I don't escort, but I do see a BIG contradiction !

    I mean what about this ?!
    We never said it did not happen. We said one should not rely on it for income. You know how my first date canceled and gave me bullshit excuse. We're pretty much trying to say that the OP should do something else for steady income because social escorting will not be it.

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    But at the kind of per hour prices being discussed in that thread - surely with the right advertising a very comfortable living could be made? 300-500$ an hour etc ?!

    I mean - I was shocked when I read the thread last week , because up until then I hadn't thought it was possible .....

    And then I stumble on this thread where everyones talking like it's a fantasy idea.

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    *Sigh*

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    I am not speaking from experience .... Only what I read from you girls in the other thread ;-)

    If what you wrote in the other thread was accurate - then OP could try joining said date* site and see what offers she gets .

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    ...if they're paying... they want sex. and why would they hire you again if they knew they weren't going to get laid. if you wanna make money escorting, you gotta fuck.

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    In which case I misunderstood the thread I quoted where girls claimed they would not be having sex for the 300$ + .....oops!

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    I might read the whole thread later..

    There is such a thing as being a companion or a non-sexual companion to make it longer but its a dieing art, takes alot of screening, and a strong will. You have to make many skills and know different arts.
    If you wish to try it first rule don't call it escorting.. To men it means sex and they will try very hard to push for it.
    Second, always be in shape.
    Third, You have to be able to carry a conversation and sometimes in different languages.
    Fourth, know when to turn around and walk away.

    I will tell you this is not a good way to make a steady income cause standards have lowered and sex seems to be on almost every menu. You might be able to get a good amount from it by being on different friend only sites and such but it takes years to make a simple name for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    No one has attacked anyone.

    I for one find it quite irritating and insulting that someone would come post on board full of sex workers and inquire about doing our jobs without sex.

    Newflash - We are sexworkers.

    We have (gasp)

    SEX!!!

    And then to further attempt to talk down to us because we are working our chosen profession is nothing but all out RUDE.

    And attempting to attack Eric Stoner because he is man is weak. He knows more about escorting than many of the women here who are posting and openly admit they know nothing at all about but yet continue to make contributions to the discussions.

    Why do those women get to post if they know nothing at all either?

    This is a board for sex workers. I find the question naive, irritating and insulting.
    1. If my thread was such a nuisance to you, Lilmiss, why on EARTH did you select to participate?? Unless SW is paying you to respond to threads, you're a [supposed] adult woman capable of choosing otherwise.

    2. Obviously, my question wasn't directed towards you in the first place. Your selective reading and ego seem to be the bane of your stress. Chill-out mama...This website isn't all about you. I say that, not to offend but to advocate against any future, self induce dramatics on YOUR behalf.

    And with that, I take a final bow from this. Good day to you.

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    I think it's like non nude camming - it's possible to make money from , but a hell of a lot easier if you take your kit off ----

    I don't find it an offensive question what so ever --- it's still part of the sex industry , irrelevant of the fact it doesn't involve sex ... nor does non nude camming :-) nor do many aspects of the industry. It's definitely not a question I would deem as trolling or ridiculous - Even if the answer to most people was obvious! It's a shame the thread turned into this .

    I think most people wouldn't make a living off these activities the Op questioned , I definitely don't think that means 'no one ' ... And I guess the majority who can't , would be jealous of the minority who could :-) Maybe why people are getting so heated at what seems an innocent question!

    I'm bowing out , I only fetched in the other thread because it seemed highly relevant , if not also directly helpful to the OP should she decide to peruse this idea .

    All the best OP - I hope you make some cash at whatever you decide to try your hand at .

    Missy

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