Ok read this whole thread.
First I was curious since I think I may have asked this question myself.
Second I was surprised at how so many chewed this poster's head off. I would say camming is one way. Many the highest spenders didn't ask me to take anything off but chatted with me for several hours fully clothed in privates. They were also very attractive men. The funny thing was that they listened to me talk , even when I asked them questions about their serious position in the world, they really just wanted to enjoy being away from "work" responsibilities. So I do think it's possible. I just think when it comes to camming you have to be careful , because you really don't know who this person is. I've known strippers to meet many of these men at the club and they would take them out and give them money just to chat and it was non sexual. Even their vip times were just talking.
I have also been attacked by men that wanted sex for money . They would get nasty and angry calling me stupid or dumb. I obviously hurt their feelings that whatever they offered would never been enough to lay down with them. But usually these men were offering $100 to $300 for a night to be with them and let's just say they were hideous to look at and old as dirt. Ohh and their personality was garbage.
So they got turned down without even batting an eyelash.
I have never escorted even though I was very curious to do "clean" escorting but after looking at the top escort companies I realized that these things didn't exist if you are advertising as an escort.
The further away you seem to get away from that title the better your chances seem to be for finding a companionship situation.
Posting ads will probably be just as bad because you'll most likely attract men that are just looking for sex. I say keep camming or stripping and see which men approach you for a date. Be specific that you're not an escort and if that's too vague say you will not be having sex with them. At this point there is no confusion. If he wants to be in your company then he will not mind paying for your time.
Escorting used to really be just spending time, but as time has passed that term has changed. So from what I've heard the new term for "clean" escorting is Companionship.
If you look around on the threads you'll see even some men fit this exactly. They spend money on her time out of the club but they don't sleep with her. It's mostly dinner and conversations.
I'm glad you posted this , I just feel bad you got attacked. Your desire to be a companion is not a dream or fantasy. Men that are looking for this do exist. And from what I read of your situation you sound like you've already stumbled across one. IF its happened once then it can happen again. Best Wishes

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