i was having sex and i was on top and the guy had me stop cuz he was in pain and said he thnks i broke "it"...so i was ready to stop but he was able to keep going so it must not have been "broken".
the next day we had sex a few times...so again...not broken..but he did say "ouch!" in the middle of the sex the next day and actually told me to be gentle (i was on top again)...
i havent seen him in 2months (he doesnt live exactly near me) and im about to see him again in a week or 2 and we will def have sex again...
im like wondering if he will be fearing it or if the sex with me isn't good cuz i hurt him...and im slightly afraid to get on top..in the past when we had sex sometimes his face looked like he was in pain but i just assumed that was just the sex faces he makes...shit mayb it is...idk...but he always comes back for more..but im wondering if ive been hurting him all along...i dont know if this sounds crazy and i figure he would tell if i was cuz he's not shy
so i want to know ladies has this ever happened too you? i did some research and i know a penis can actually break but i think this is more of a penile fracture or strain and im not sure how serious...i do plan to communciate with him this time but was kind of embrassed last time so i didnt say much..
ive asked my girlies if this has ever happened to them and i asked some guys but it doesnt sound common...am i alone??? am i the only penis breaker lol
is it werid he asked me to be gentle?? my guy buddies say u dont hear that from a guy often...maybe cuz the penis was still sore from the night before...
also the night i "injured" it i was drunk and i dont think i was going straight up & down while on top...more so a back & forth movement..i think i was trying to rub my clit on him(back & forth) while on top..kind of similar move that i do during lap dances (well im not "trying" to rub my clit on guys during dances and there is clothes on so thats different than actual sex but jus trying to best describe what i was doing when it happened)...i guess could be a way to describe it...i dont know maybe ur not suppose to do that? is that bending it the wrong way? i think me being all drunk could have had sumthing to do it w/it lol
any advice for the next time & if im on top?? should i be worried about him like should he have gone to a doctor?? i know he has alot of female friends...im sure he told them about this...i can only imagine what they had 2 say (about me/the situation)....well i dont want to be afraid to have sex or climb on top and worry about being gentle but i want sex w/me to be enjoyable not scary
well any insight since i cant seem to get any on this situation...thanx![]()





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