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    it's a good article to think about.
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    Morals hit the floor as hard as panties when a wad of cash is involved. =P
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    i heavily did my research into camming and yea this is something that i thought long and hard about before actually going forward with it. it really depends on what the person wants for they're life and what they're goals are, there are alot of consequences when it comes to camming and the major question to ask yourself is, could you handle being exposed and exploited? if not, then definitely don't do it then. if you have too much at steak to lose then it's not worth it to you. as for me, i am sick of working for clubs, i cant go back to being a hairstylist cuz there is not enough money in it, i have absolutely nothing to lose at this point in my life and most of the people who knew me think i am a whore anyway, i don't give a fuck, i am going balls to the wall with this and save for retirement!

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    It really sucks, but if someone is offended by what your doing, it is legally obscene, and thus, legally illegal The only real defense a cam model has (because we KNOW they would be in trouble, not the cam sites, lol) is the part about "community" standards. For something like a strip club, sure, locals can get it shut down, but a cam site is local to people who navigate that area of cyberspace, so technically, the community will always approve

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    ok...i am an idiot, misunderstood the article, duh! i think most camgirls stay within the reasonable lines, most girls have they're standards, but there is no telling when there is money involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    Morals hit the floor as hard as panties when a wad of cash is involved. =P
    and that is why I <3 you so

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    ^^ Lol
    The sad part is , When the holy rollers troll this forum , And pick out things
    to quote, They will ignore the massive amount of posts stating that we have
    PHD's and MD's
    And find that 1 little quote , To milk.
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    Nope. I'm not going for anything "prestigious" and the quote goes "never regret anything you've done in life because at the time you did, it was exactly what you wanted". Doubts about the future of your rep? Get out. Simple as that.

    On a related note, this illusion everyone is chasing where they'll make the big bucks being salacious online and yet somehow maintain anonymity is played though. Gotta give to get and if it's worth the falsely perceived approval one thought society had for them before they became an adult entertainer...have at it and enjoy the green$$$.

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    ^Agreed!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    Morals hit the floor as hard as panties when a wad of cash is involved. =P
    100% Agreed!

    I like sex and sexuality, I am good at sales and customer service, this is really my perfect job. My customer's are given a damn good service (so to speak), and above and beyond all that I get paid 3 times what I was earning before working sometimes until 9pm in a very stressful, targeted, commission based job. Heck I earn more than some politicians if I really put my mind to it. I couldn't give a flying fuck what anyone else says about me. My boyfriend is not only ok with it, he takes pics and vids for me and listens to me rant, moan, go on and on about how much more i earn than him, and is always there to bounce ideas off. I am certain that my closest friends wuld have no problem whatsoever with what i do, and if they did, sure it'd hurt but i could easily shut them out of my life. My family would eventually get over it. Besides those people, who the heck else matters? I have no plans to work with kids or any other environment where this could come back and bite me on the bum. Who gives a shit what anyone else thinks?? Live your life by your OWN standards and anyone else can go jump.

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    Oddly, I'm on the fence about this one...

    Because in the first case, I am absolutely pro freedom, pro "you have one motherfucking life to live on this planet! don't just 'live it'....-]>LIVE IT!!!<[-" and so I always say do the interesting thing, be different and march to the drummer others can't hear.

    However, one of my first dancer friends from the Chicago area was wild and fun and free like me, and she ended up married and divorced, and when the time came for the divorce, her choices had VERY much figured in her custody of her children. Which turned out VERY poorly for her.

    So for me, I think you must be VERY sure you can truly live the life of a person who says "Fuck all that societal shit" or you should really think twice. Because I read so many women saying what I have heard over the years..."I don't see FROM HERE, how this will bite me on the ass because RIGHT NOW I have no plans to do X, Y or Z that would be affected by me being a hoochie dancer/webcam model supreme/escort of elegance/etc." But being the "old broad" here, I can tell you I know WAYYYY more women whose situations changed in such a way that they are sorry they did it, than women who stayed true to the idea of "Fuck it! I only live once!"...That being said, I am one of the ones who HAS stayed true to that...so it CAN be done...

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    After seeing the posts in this thread, I went back to make sure I read the same article! As a guy, I guess I just had a totally different take on the whole thing, but I did see the part about being sure the woman really wats to do cam (or any adult work) because it will be online forever. In that way, I see the connection to the other thread that was posted which gives a detailed example of how something you DID, if not accepeted by the closed-minded majority, will cause problems regardless of how respected you are now (the day before everyone finds out).

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    I know my first post was pretty dead. Right now I am in the proccess of transitioning out of the business hell I am still not sure how I will be doing that.

    but I can reflect on when I lost a job because a co-worker decided to out me at work. the work place was toxic to beging with. they were firing people for many unrealistic things. I was working for a telephone dating chat line (quest personals). They would talk about me constantly because I did internet porn it wasn't a big deal to me it got me the job and they hired me based on those transferable skills.

    As I move forward in my future and I wonder sometimes if it will come and bite me in the ass, it might but it's not something I am going to stress myself on. mostly likely if it does I will fight it or move on to something else.

    society needs to take their stick out their ass about sex work and women or men who do it. you constantly see women being outted or rescued for being in the sex trade but you never see anything about a man doing it unless he is being charged as a pedifile. I am not saying pedifiles are the same as sex workers, but you never see them being published for working as sex workers/service providers.

    You see the transgenders go on a movement to be treated as the sex they indentify with but they are never put in the spot light for selling thier bodies to get that sex operation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    you never see anything about a man doing it unless he is being charged as a pedifile. I am not saying pedifiles are the same as sex workers, but you never see them being published for working as sex workers/service providers.

    You see the transgenders go on a movement to be treated as the sex they indentify with but they are never put in the spot light for selling thier bodies to get that sex operation.
    I don't believe many people outside the industry even *know* there are men or TG's in it :p

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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    you constantly see women being outted or rescued for being in the sex trade but you never see anything about a man doing it unless he is being charged as a pedifile.
    Actually, it should be headline after headline about the men that are jerking-off to "adult content" while at work, or the boss that used company funds to pay an escort while on a company trip. Just the number of maired guys that have spent HOURS and HOURS with women on cam sites only to turn a blind eye and scoff at such women when their wife is talking trash about them.

    < "Hello Miss xxx, what is your work experience?"
    > I have worked for the past 3 years doing interactive webcasts and before that..
    < "wait, you did adult work?
    > well it was of an adult nature, but most of..
    < "I'm sorry, we can't hire you."

    < "Hello Mr yyy, what is your work experience?"
    > I've been in jail for the past 18 months because of sexual abuse alligations made by my ex-wife during a bitter divorce.
    < "Psh, women. Well, you've done your time so no reason to hold that against you. Would you like a blond secretary or a brunette?"

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    When I worked on niteflirt I guess the man didn't realize it but next mintue I know the wife was on the phone. yelling at me and going on and what not. I said you know your still paying to yell at me and how she should be talking to her husband.

    I have been on so many sides of this industry where I am not even sure anymore which part of it is worth it. and it gets thrown under the bus every chance someone wants to put blame on something first.
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