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    Default First time escorting (sorta kinda)- is this illegal?

    Okay so I'm going to have my first session in 2 weeks an I wanted to know if it was illegal to be a mistress to someone- but I never get naked or do anything sexual with them (oral, anal, etc) just spitting on them, hair pulling, whipping, name calling etc? I'm in VA if that helps any... :p

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    Default Re: First time escorting (sorta kinda)- is this illegal?

    Please I urge you to pick up Amanda's book 1 and 2. It'll be better if you read the book. You're asking this question two weeks before your appointment? That is not a good sign honey. One more thing: Please get an attorney ASAP!

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    I have never read Amanda's books. I might buy them one day for the fun of it.

    Anyway, my legal advice for what it's worth...please don't call me if you end up in jail BTW lol!

    You are not likely to get a prostitution charge, obviously.

    I don't know about your state because I am in Texas, but here you cannot do cock and ball torture to a man. He has to do it to himself because otherwise you have touched his privates and are now a prostitute. You cannot touch his privates with another object either, not a dildo, a stick or any contraption to touch his privates.

    Basically you have to force him to abuse himself.

    That being said, the type of sick stuff most of these men will want and ask for will pretty much let you know he is not a cop.

    Not too many cops are gonna ask for weird shit and then go into a court of law and say "Your honor, after the golden shower I was eating dog food out of a bowl and licking her toes when she inserted a dildo in my ass. I believe that dildo insertion crossed the line of prostitution."

    The other thing you have to worry about is the level of abuse. You may not get a prostitution charge, but if you hurt someone, even if they asked for it, you might be dealing with assault charges.

    Assault is a felony. Prostitution is a misdemeanor.

    Personally, I'd rather deal with a prostitution charge.

    So to recap, if you wanna really watch your p's and q's, then have them abuse themselves (like tell him how much it pleases you to see him stick that dildo in his own ass).

    Never let anyone go beyond what seems safe. I have had guys want me to stomp on their heads with heels and I said no. Even if he is ok with it, if he gets injured, the state can press charges. He doesn't have to press charges, the state can.

    And with all that being said, most cops don't even bother with dommes because they know most dommes don't have sex.

    All of this varies in your state/neck of the woods.

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    Default Re: First time escorting (sorta kinda)- is this illegal?

    And yea, like TG said, get an attorney.

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    OMG Sunshine, I was reading that in some states it's a felony. I did not know that. That is horrible. I always check state laws now before I tour. I know screen, screen screen but hell better be safe than sorry!

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    Texas is soooo prostitute friendly.

    Class C misdemeanor, $100 fine...no biggie

    Actually the FBSM girls have bigger worries because practicing massage without a license is a $250 fine.

    Either way, you will make your money back in less than a day. So who cares?

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    ^ Thanks, Lil Miss. I'm in Texas and that was a big load off my mind.

    How much money does it cost to get a prostitution charge taken off our records? A boss of mine in CA told her it took something like 5K (it's been awhile though so don't quote me) to get it expunged.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    ^ Thanks, Lil Miss. I'm in Texas and that was a big load off my mind.

    How much money does it cost to get a prostitution charge taken off our records? A boss of mine in CA told her it took something like 5K (it's been awhile though so don't quote me) to get it expunged.
    I have no clue about Texas but I get requested there A LOT (Houston and Austin).
    I meant to write you earlier but I totally forgot. You asked about agencies.

    This one is very reputable:
    so is the bella donna but the owner will tell you he has to fuck you
    to see if you are fit for the job. Fuck that noise!
    This is a new agency:
    Saw their ad on eros and they look very professional. As far as legalities, Please Please Please get an attorney!!! I have bailed enough people out this year alone. Oh and please join SWOP! If you ever get in trouble they will help you! OP, I think you need to cancel that appointment.

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    Um I dunno about expunged. Mine got erased because the police played dirty and they wanted to drop it before it even went to court to save their own reputation.

    They didn't count on me fighting them with a laywer. The lawyer cost a lot though. A few thousand.

    But I dunno how much expuging it costs.

    If you are not from Texas and you get caught here, you may want to look into your options to see whether the charge would really affect your future and maybe just skip the lawyer and just pay the fine. If it won't affect your future elsewhere, then who cares about $100?

    I know a few girls who just paid it and moved away. This is why Asian parlors are rampant here. They just pay their fines and go back home to Thailand.

    Anyway, maybe googling expungment?

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    Expungement:
    Expungement in Texas:
    (Lawyer that deals with expungement.


    I would be scared as hell of an arrest. This is making me think. It would be horrifying to get arrested while on tour. My goodness.

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    Here's what turned up for Texas-- the other states were harder to peg down though Rhode Island has a nice new law that says one year after finishing one's sentence (or going to court and being convicted if there is not sentence) one may challenge and ask for it to be expunged:

    http://www.expertlaw.com/forums/show...t=73754&page=1

    http://www.expertlaw.com/forums/show...t=67238&page=1

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    I think you can only get it expunged if you weren't convicted. I could be wrong. I know that's the law in Greenville, SC.

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    Default Re: First time escorting (sorta kinda)- is this illegal?

    Hey TG--
    in terms of getting a lawyer, does that mean I need to get one and put him or her on retainer? Because at the moment, not enough cash for that.

    Also, in terms of texas and expungement, the two links I found said that it could be expunged IF it was pleaded down to a misdemeanor C. But, if it remained a misdemeanor B, then the only other option was to have the record closed. So yeah-- very confusing state to state!

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    BTW- Austin doesn't even have a vice squad. You would literally have to ask money from a uniformed officer to get charged here.

    Parts of Houston do not have vice either.

    But San Antonio definitely has vice and they are assholes. They are the ones who took me in. Fuckers.

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    No you don't necessarily need him on retainer. Would be nice though and something to look into if you keep doing this.

    Just make sure you know who you are going to call.

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    Jesus Christ WHY DIDN'T SOMEONE PM ME ABOUT THIS!!!??? how about before you go about doing real life domination sessions you learn something about domination so that no one gets injured??? please please Please go do some research, learn some techniques. even if you aren't going to be a dominatrx but just an escort that does a little slap and tickle if you are going to be a professional do your research first.
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    Lol Arialandre! Agreed!

    I have never done real "domme" work. Just the occasional slap and tickle.

    I just know from years of being a studio model that they repeated to us over and over again not to touch the domme clients for legal reasons.

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    Lol that is a safe route for newbies that are just escorts to go. Just. Don't. Touch.
    But I mean if you're going to offer fetish/bdsm stuff they may well request something that includes touch. So at least learn how to wield a flogger or paddle. Learn the fleshy areas and avoid areas. Build up slowly to increase circulation and minimize bruising (or god forbid splitting, yes of the skin, especially if they dont use lotion regularily) and then eventually you can go to town.

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    Oh well spanking went without saying. We did spank. Just no skin breaking or on balls or anything like that.

    But hands off otherwise.

    I typically wasted time with humiliation and sissy play. Good way to go to avoid too much contact.

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    Shhh sissies gotta love em.

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    Sooo while we got your attention Aria...where would you suggest researching besides studying with someone?

    I wanted to go pro domme, but don't feel confident. I placed an ad and had too many flakes so I gave up.

    But I always loved being a domme - my evil streak adores it

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    I would suggest investing in some actual books. The internet is great but go to amazon.com and invest in books like bdsm 101, autobiographies of pro dommes, check out the forums on fetlife.come, there is a ton of info on different fetishes there. Google things like puppy play, and verbal humiliation. That usually gives you a great list of ready to use sentences. Kind of a cheat sheet to calling people names that pertain to different fetishes. Race, small penis, etc.
    Quite often things like different flogging techniques comes with hands on practice. There is more to swinging whips/glibness than just hitting hard or hitting harder.

    Hope that helps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    I have never read Amanda's books. I might buy them one day for the fun of it.

    Anyway, my legal advice for what it's worth...please don't call me if you end up in jail BTW lol!

    You are not likely to get a prostitution charge, obviously.

    I don't know about your state because I am in Texas, but here you cannot do cock and ball torture to a man. He has to do it to himself because otherwise you have touched his privates and are now a prostitute. You cannot touch his privates with another object either, not a dildo, a stick or any contraption to touch his privates.

    Basically you have to force him to abuse himself.

    That being said, the type of sick stuff most of these men will want and ask for will pretty much let you know he is not a cop.

    Not too many cops are gonna ask for weird shit and then go into a court of law and say "Your honor, after the golden shower I was eating dog food out of a bowl and licking her toes when she inserted a dildo in my ass. I believe that dildo insertion crossed the line of prostitution."

    The other thing you have to worry about is the level of abuse. You may not get a prostitution charge, but if you hurt someone, even if they asked for it, you might be dealing with assault charges.

    Assault is a felony. Prostitution is a misdemeanor.

    Personally, I'd rather deal with a prostitution charge.

    So to recap, if you wanna really watch your p's and q's, then have them abuse themselves (like tell him how much it pleases you to see him stick that dildo in his own ass).

    Never let anyone go beyond what seems safe. I have had guys want me to stomp on their heads with heels and I said no. Even if he is ok with it, if he gets injured, the state can press charges. He doesn't have to press charges, the state can.

    And with all that being said, most cops don't even bother with dommes because they know most dommes don't have sex.

    All of this varies in your state/neck of the woods.
    I don't know much at all about escorting, but reading this was most educational. Thanks for posting this. Never knew there we so many subtleties to the law...
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    Default Re: First time escorting (sorta kinda)- is this illegal?

    ... >_> I was just asking if it was illegal (as in prostitution) if I were to do hair pulling slapping etc. I know it could be seen as assault, I just wanted to know if i'd get a prostitution charge... lol.

    I've done research about HOW to be a domme, but I was curious if it was LEGAL in my state.

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    Well, I read somewhere that the LE can still arrest you and call it prostitution but it's on you to plead not guilty and know they have nothing on you so you may not get charged anything.

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