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    So I danced for this guy the other day who was FREAKING HOT but super awkward... and turns out he's a virgin... 22 years old. Not sure how I feel about this

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    Jesus... isn't it like a civic duty to devirginize someone if they get to that age? I know I did my time, served my civic duty by having sex with some fat chicks when I was younger. You ladies need to chip in and help that poor kid out. Somebody get that boy a pussy! Stat!
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    I've never had sex with a virgin... I feel cheated out of my youth... HAH I should have jumped on it.

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    Default Re: 22 year old virgin

    I know several 22 year old virgins. I don't think it's that old to still be 'pure'.

    Is it really that big a deal?



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    I can't speak for everyone, but I personally felt like such an awkward outcast before I lost mine. The longer you wait (at least for guys, as far as I can tell) the more it becomes an all consuming 'holy grail'. I'm sure it's something that he thinks about constantly. If he takes too much longer, I imagine it could start having some long term psychological impact. Guys measure their worth in large part by their virility.

    If he's as hot as Kleptomaniac says, it's a win-win. Just don't give him your number or let him know where you live... you may not be able to get rid of him.
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    Nice John- but I agree... Lol

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    4ever - I suppose it really isn't that old to still be a virgin, I've just never personally met anyone who was still a virgin at this age without having a solid reason, such as religion, to stay a virgin. He seemed nice, friendly, and overall a great guy. And it was especially odd because he was so attractive.

    John - LOL. I would never actually do him. But yes, he seemed to feel awkward about still being a virgin.

    I'm wondering if there is something about this guy that is repelling girls that I didn't notice in the few minutes I spent with him, because he didn't seem to be a virgin by choice. Or maybe he's gay and doesn't know it yet.

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    I imagine his own insecurity about being a virgin is what is repelling the ladies. The older he gets, the more it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. He just needs someone to break the chain, make him feel like a man and get his confidence level up. It sounds like he's got everything else in place.
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    heh I hope I helped, I said I would fuck him if I got the chance Poor little man lol

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    Some guy just dont "try" to get pussy, like the average you see at a bar trying to get laid with every walking thing. He either could be a virgin by choice, waiting on the right girl, doesnt know how to approach the subject or get started sexually with a girl.

    I dont think its a big problem at all. My ex-bf lost it at around 19, and got a good amount of sex partners after that, but still is sexually picky. The guy Im interested in now, lost it around age 20 because he never really had interest in sex as other guys 24/7 so by choice he rejected his chances.

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    Default Re: 22 year old virgin

    Some people don't drive until they're 18. Some people have never been to a club. Some people have never skydived. To some people sex is just another thing, not something to consume one's life.

    Maybe this particular guy was insecure, maybe he wasn't. Maybe his telling you that caught you off guard, so you began to notice things about him that you interpret as insecurity. It's easy to assume things when we make unfair universal expectations.

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    You're there to get paid, who cares if he's a virgin, or for that matter how you feel about him being a virgin? On top of that, why is it a problem if he's a virgin? Did this somehow effect your dance?

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    heh I hope I helped, I said I would fuck him if I got the chance Poor little man lol
    Poor little man? Seriously?? Virgin isn't a bad thing. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with him, or that he's in need of help. Jesus.
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    ^ Agreed. You can't miss what you've never had. And speaking from experience, although I lost my virginity at 16, sex really kinda sucked until I was in my 20's. None of us quite knew what we were doing. Well, let me rephrase. I KNEW I had no clue. The guys thought they were epic studs, and thought they knew everything there was to know about sex.

    So, this is probably a blessing in disguise for him.

    Why should you feel any particular way about this customer being a virgin? Maybe he's super religious. Maybe he's super picky. Maybe he's asexual. Maybe he's never had the optimal opportunity to have sex. I guarantee he's not the only virgin you've danced for.

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    Can I get another blue to back me up here about how pressing an issue virginity is on a young man's mind? Seriously, at that age it's a very consuming issue for a guy. Men hit their sexual peak starting around that age, wheras women's peak age is a bit older. I'm not saying that the guy is some kind of outcast or lepper or anything. All I'm saying is that it is likely a big issue for him, and the sooner he gets past it, the sooner he can start maturing and moving on to more important things.
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    FWIW, I was 23. It never happened with my high school sweetheart, and after that breakup I was pretty devastated. Then I ended up in the Navy and opportunities out on that ship in the middle of the ocean - or even when tied up in port next to 50 other ships - were somewhat limited.

    But even with all that waiting the first time was pretty anticlimactic, lol!

    The second girl however.... but that story won't be told....

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Six View Post
    Maybe this particular guy was insecure, maybe he wasn't. Maybe his telling you that caught you off guard, so you began to notice things about him that you interpret as insecurity. It's easy to assume things when we make unfair universal expectations.
    He was most definitely insecure. He was acting so weird I had to ask him what was wrong during the dance, and that's how the subject of his virginity came up in the first place.

    I don't think it's a problem or anything, I just thought it was quite unusual. Based on what most of you are saying, however, I'm wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kleptomaniac View Post
    4ever - I suppose it really isn't that old to still be a virgin, I've just never personally met anyone who was still a virgin at this age without having a solid reason, such as religion, to stay a virgin. He seemed nice, friendly, and overall a great guy. And it was especially odd because he was so attractive.

    John - LOL. I would never actually do him. But yes, he seemed to feel awkward about still being a virgin.

    I'm wondering if there is something about this guy that is repelling girls that I didn't notice in the few minutes I spent with him, because he didn't seem to be a virgin by choice. Or maybe he's gay and doesn't know it yet.

    why did he even tell you that?? can we say TMI lol
    seriously what kinda guy... oh wait.... omg lol the guy im talking to right now is a 22 y/o virgin and hes really hot but kind of awkward, please Lord dont let it be the same guy lol what did he look like?? omg...

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    What's the big deal? I've known people much older than that who were late virgins, like a guy friend who lost it at 33 to his wife (he's religious). personally, I'd rather date a virgin than a man who's been with many women. At least with the virgin you don't have to worry about disease oe him having a bunch of kids out there.

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    Maybe he was a late bloomer, and/or went through a bad junior high/high school experience (the formative years in developing sexuality and sexual confidence in guys especially). That's what happened to me, and I was 19 before I lost mine.

    And yeah waiting that long sucked.

    The longer you have to wait--while all around you all the other young guys are getting laid all the time--the more it messes with your head. That's because of the overwhelming pressure on guys to play the fucking stud all the time. Television and movies hammer this home in a thousand different ways. Stupid women fall for that shit every time, especially--but most younger women also seem to be quite susceptible to the same way of thinking. They sure were in Maine.

    It's like they can smell it when you aren't getting laid, and they will run away as fast as they can. Usually to fuck some dipshit who is fucking everyone else in sight.

    In general--for a guy--the worse your puberty is, the harder it is to develop the sexual confidence that attracts most women. God knows I had it about as bad as you could get, a late-bloomer who had just moved to Maine from Detroit, the weird kid who talked funny and sucked at sports. Junior High and High School were a fucking nightmare.

    It didn't help that I was very precocious in Detroit, started having girlfriends at 10-11 years or even earlier (but not having sex). So I was very confident and kept trying again and again, only to get stomped like a fucking bug every time. Teenage girls can be vicious as wild dogs if you leave yourself open to it.

    The only thing that kept me from sinking down into a state of semi-permanent insecurity was the fact that I had that early confidence. Eventually I got tired of being scathingly rejected by girls that weren't fit to tie my shoes, and just stopped trying altogether.

    It took me a year out of that shithole state before I started feeling confident again. As a legacy of those nightmare years, I still have a tendency to let the women make the move, which works very well in some environments but not in others (like Daytona for instance ).

    Who knows what's up with this guy? If I had to guess I would say something similar as what happened to me, but even worse. Or maybe his parents fucked with his head. Or maybe he was raised in a strict anti-sex pro-Jesus type environment?
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    Well, I won't reveal what age I lost mine, but I will say when you hold out too long rumors start to fly that something's wrong with you. Hell, my family even thought I was gay because I wasn't getting any. It was hell for me.

    I even started looking at virginity like a disease and something that I had to get rid of and fast. It's a shame that there's so much pressure to "do it" and it comes from all sides. It's also a shame that people think something is fricking wrong with you if you're not getting any action.

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    My boyfriend (going on 5 years) was a virgin until he met me at 21. And he's smoking hot, with ridiculous abs, huge arms, the whole deal.

    He was gangly and awkward in high school, with even more nerdy friends, so he never dated too much.

    Then he discovered weight-lifting in college, got huge, and gained confidence, but didn't meet a girl he liked.

    Then he met me, and I ruined his virginity

    I'd certainly prefer a guy who was a virgin at 22 than a guy who had fucked every girl in high school.

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