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    I created a slutty alter ego, but instead of introducing her as such I said she was my twin. (everyone loves a good twin fantasy, right?)

    My ex-camming-partner, who was my best friend for a long time, revealed this little secret to the guy who owns my websites. He was pissed and started telling everyone he knew my "big secret" and would reveal it if I weren't truthful. I'm not one to back down, so I let him reveal it. I told a few close fans so they wouldn't feel betrayed like him. I lost a couple "friends" in the process but whatever, it's a job, it's nothing personal.

    The guy who owns my websites revealed this "big secret" this morning, after sending me threatening and insulting emails over the past couple days. Nobody really cared.

    Luckily for me, my ex-camming-partner had the same password for everything ever, so I checked her Twitter messages and found out all of the terrible things she said to people about me, even after she supposedly "quit camming and moved on with her life". I confronted her about it. She said it was revenge for "using her" and never really being her friend. We were BEST FRIENDS for over a year, we've known each other since high school, so yeah, I considered her a friend and definitely did not use her.

    The guy who owns my websites had been threatening me for days that he would shut down my websites, so I announced to my followers on twitter that my sites would be down soon. Then he decides to play the victim and say that I'm a lying bitch and he never intended on shutting down my sites, but NOW he will! So my websites are gone.

    He was one of my biggest tippers who became insanely obsessive and delusional and pretty much just crazy. Who knows what else he is telling my other fans.
    My "friend" is also trying to play the victim and talk to me like we're friends now "so how are things with you and the bf? [guy who owns websites] says you and bf are having issues."
    My websites, which I really did work super hard on, are now gone in cyber space. One of them for which I came up with the cutest most clever name ever.
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    Oh, and then AFTER shutting down my sites he says on Twitter "If anyone has any problems with my actions, please tell me".

    Um, hell yes I have problems with your actions.

    Although I don't think he deserves a response. You know??


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    Oh, so for those of you who have done a link exchange with me, please remove my link, because yours no longer exists thanks to this loser.
    When my new site is done we'll work out another exchange.


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    It sounds like you let one of your fans set up your websites?

    Don't do that hon. I'm sure you're learning from this and that's good but don't give someone else control of your business. That gives them control over you and plenty of guys out there will abuse it.

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    He bought them for me and kind of presented them as a gift. It was a cool idea at first. As I learned more and more about the sites and how to run them he was becoming obsolete and didn't like it.
    Which led to this mess.


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    Yeah, the whole situation sucks but you'll bounce back. It's cool that you learned how to work the sites, now you won't need anybody to rebuild it. I knew nothing about building a website a couple years ago but now it's easy, you can totally do it on your own.

    I've seen a couple of girls post on here about getting screwed over by the guy who runs their websites and then they just go get another guy to do the same thing for them. It's kind of frustrating to watch. I'm glad you're not going down that road.

    Oh, and I think the twin sister thing was adorable. Very cute idea.

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    I'm sorry, that sounds like a lot to deal with. I don't have anything constructive to add except empathy.
    Toronto-based, very rough draft, constantly asking for input!

    Our bodies, our rules.
    Stand together or fall apart.

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    Miss Ego, No offense but is this really a shock to you?

    Number one rule: Never let anyone own you and that's pretty much what you did.

    When someone owns your stuff they can use YOUR content and you really can't do anything about it.

    The only thing these "fans" are supposed to do as far as promotional material goes is build FAN sites, create banners, promote you in chatrooms.. etc. They're not supposed to own the website you use for business. I am wondering what made you allow him to do that. He could have given you the money for it... ya know?

    On the other hand, take it as a lesson learned. Build another site and move on. Have NOTHING to do with those people again. Your "friend" was never your friend (I hope you understand that now). Good luck. You're a smart girl. You'll bounce back.

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    He sounds like a complete dickhead! I'm sorry this happened to you.

    I bet your new site will be awesome

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    Yea. A lesson learned. I think this is a good thing for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    Miss Ego, No offense but is this really a shock to you?

    Number one rule: Never let anyone own you and that's pretty much what you did.

    When someone owns your stuff they can use YOUR content and you really can't do anything about it.

    The only thing these "fans" are supposed to do as far as promotional material goes is build FAN sites, create banners, promote you in chatrooms.. etc. They're not supposed to own the website you use for business. I am wondering what made you allow him to do that. He could have given you the money for it... ya know?

    On the other hand, take it as a lesson learned. Build another site and move on. Have NOTHING to do with those people again. Your "friend" was never your friend (I hope you understand that now). Good luck. You're a smart girl. You'll bounce back.
    He got my sites when I was a dumb newbie He asked if I had plans to get a website and I said yeah, and told him, STUPIDLY, so he bought them. I'd been trying to phase him out slowly and regain control of my things but then this happened.

    Sadly enough, lesson learned, but I wanted to share the experience in case other girls make the same dumb mistake.


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    Have you checked to see if your sites are still on the Google cache? If so, you *might* be able to download some of your material to use on your new sites.

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    Quote Originally Posted by khakigirl View Post
    Have you checked to see if your sites are still on the Google cache? If so, you *might* be able to download some of your material to use on your new sites.
    That is a great idea.

    Also try the waybackmachine here: http://www.archive.org/web/web.php

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    I had been using wordpress for the sites so I just did a quick Export a little while ago, before he shut the sites down.

    Everyone's saying they understand why he's mad. Um, I'm a camgirl. Depending on what site I'm on, I'm 18, 19, or 21. Why does a sexy slutty twin offend him so much?


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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    Why does a sexy slutty twin offend him so much?
    Yeah ... I don't get that part. Just another douchebag.

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    Maybe because the slutty twin is opposite of what drew him to you and how he sees you, so he feels like you betrayed him for having this alter ego... Of course his feelings are neither here nor there, its your business to run how you want it to.

    I had an issue like that when I moved from "cruel" Domme to sexy camgirl...a guy who backed me for so many years lost it and went on "strike" I guess you can say.. After a few years I guess he either broke down or got curious, and downloaded every single video and pic set I had for sale...lo and behold he liked them. Go figure...

    Anyway, this guy is just taking things way too personal...and basically hes using his power of being in ownership of your domains and sites to feel like he can dictate how you run your business. Thats a no go.

    Even with vanilla stuff, I see it happen all the time, where a webmaster buys the domain for thieir client, they have a falling out for one reason or another, so they take the site and domain hostage. It sucks...and definitely, a big thing I stress to everyone who comes to me is that they need to order their own domain name, whether they go through me or someone else. Im totally trustworthy, but I also have no reason to own someone elses domain, that is the crux of any business' online presence.

    A hard lesson learned...but many both in the industry and your run of the mill mom and pop shop have had to learn it too. On the bright side...now that this has happened, you will never let it happen again. Onwards...youll come back better than ever

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    I created a slutty alter ego, but instead of introducing her as such I said she was my twin. (everyone loves a good twin fantasy, right?)

    My ex-camming-partner, who was my best friend for a long time, revealed this little secret to the guy who owns my websites. He was pissed and started telling everyone he knew my "big secret" and would reveal it if I weren't truthful. I'm not one to back down, so I let him reveal it. I told a few close fans so they wouldn't feel betrayed like him. I lost a couple "friends" in the process but whatever, it's a job, it's nothing personal.

    The guy who owns my websites revealed this "big secret" this morning, after sending me threatening and insulting emails over the past couple days. Nobody really cared.

    Luckily for me, my ex-camming-partner had the same password for everything ever, so I checked her Twitter messages and found out all of the terrible things she said to people about me, even after she supposedly "quit camming and moved on with her life". I confronted her about it. She said it was revenge for "using her" and never really being her friend. We were BEST FRIENDS for over a year, we've known each other since high school, so yeah, I considered her a friend and definitely did not use her.

    The guy who owns my websites had been threatening me for days that he would shut down my websites, so I announced to my followers on twitter that my sites would be down soon. Then he decides to play the victim and say that I'm a lying bitch and he never intended on shutting down my sites, but NOW he will! So my websites are gone.

    He was one of my biggest tippers who became insanely obsessive and delusional and pretty much just crazy. Who knows what else he is telling my other fans.
    My "friend" is also trying to play the victim and talk to me like we're friends now "so how are things with you and the bf? [guy who owns websites] says you and bf are having issues."
    My websites, which I really did work super hard on, are now gone in cyber space. One of them for which I came up with the cutest most clever name ever.

    If anyone is interested in trolling or reporting for spam or anything similar...
    her name is J.unit.aR.o.xx
    his name is Can.a.d.a.R.o.xx
    Although obviously without the periods.
    That's fucked up. It just says to me that it is best to just go at this business alone. I don't think there are "best friends" in this business, just people you make money with.

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    His Virgin / Whore bubble burst and he probably felt he owned you... which he unfortunately somewhat did as he owned your core internet presence & consequently your brand.

    Sadly some customers (especially the lonely borderline-addicted ones) have no understanding of the distinction between the fantasy brand and an entrepreneur in the sex industry. Its a real problem from some and it creates this warped sense of *dick entitlement*. There is no solution except to keep them at arms length.

    Boundaries baby, boundaries.

    No shade intended here - but wasn't it a few months ago you had a blow up with over an MFC friend you got into business with right? And you similarly gave us her info to troll/check out? Which appeared to mushroom the issue and you weren't paid?

    I mean... so many lessons here

    Not just drama prevention 101, client boundaries, and business sense - but you appear to need to disengage a bit from your brand if this is going to continue to be cyclical. When you have some personal distance from your image then you don't get pulled into drama. Especially the kinds that can be either easily repaired or outright ignored.

    Don't ever let them see you sweat

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    @blksharpie

    yes!!!! NEVER EVER trust ANYONE web related who offers to buy anything for you; hosting, domain, etc. things of that sort are always cheaper and easier to do yourself! godaddy has gre support, as do other domain registrars and hosting companies. it is extremely unethical for even a web designer to sell you these things, get them yourself, they are relatively inexpensive!!!!

    So if you want to be with me
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    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Sympathy Miss Ego, and hugs. Man you must need them

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    I"m sorry that you had to deal with that nonsense.


    Men like this are also the reason that I laugh to myself when a guy says "You need to quit being a cam girl and let me take care of you." HA! If "take care of me" means I have to stay at home and ask for your permission for money, etc. and you fuckin' control all aspects of my life, NO THANK YOU!

    Let me stop rambling.....

    I am sorry that you have to deal with this bullshit though, hun. *HUGS*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amy Lee View Post
    That's fucked up. It just says to me that it is best to just go at this business alone. I don't think there are "best friends" in this business, just people you make money with.
    THAT'S for sure.
    Just found out she used to have contests among her regular guys to see who could cause me the most grief.


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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    THAT'S for sure.
    Just found out she used to have contests among her regular guys to see who could cause me the most grief.
    What?? That doesnt even make sense. Thats pretty warped. I know for sure though there are guys that must have ate it up..I know one guy who lives for creating drama between different girls. Hed find it amusing to sit back and watch a good cat fight. I was too boring for him in that...I would just block the offenders IP from viewing my site, block them from my email and then bow out. Stuff like that isnt good for business.

    I really cant stand how some people really dont seem to *get it* that this isnt a virtual world with virtual people as if just because we're online we dont actually exist... things that are said and done can really have an effect on people when you mess with them, even if not on an emotional front, on a business front, thats messing with someones money and livelihood, and thats not right at all.

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