it really hurt me and i cant seem to shake it.
first comment was about my boobs...that they were uneven and well--they are slightly ok but whatever u dont have to mention it... second was about my stomach and that i need to lose weight in my stomach, then my stretchmarks on my belly from having a kid...then having wierd nipples, then about my skin--used to break out alot...etc...hes a very honest guy and has also said good things about my appearance as well--just brutally honest i guess. he also said he would stop dating me if i got fat-that im a good weight right now but if i get huge "dont be suprised if i stop sleeping with you lol" i dont think his motive behind these comments were intended to hurt me so deeply. but they have. i told him to never speak that way ever again and he said he didnt realize he hurt me so badly so he stopped and has said only positive things about my appearance...
i feel so ugly and cannot forgive him. he apologized and stop yet im still angry and bring it up sometimes when we fight--am i being rediculous? are some people just more blunt than others and really dont mean any harm? i know im extremely sensitive--my feelings always get hurt easily. ugh



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Spend time thinking about yourself and doing things for yourself, like make a list of things you like about your personality, or what features of your body you like and why you think you're sexy - who cares what he thinks??! If you can build up your self-esteem, you can make every day a little easier.
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