Or is it just me?
I've only been dancing for a couple months, and I can't say I've had a long term regular customer yet, but I've had several that only want to see me, buy me gifts, etc.
They make me terribly uncomfortable! And for some reason, they seem to think that now that we're "friends", they don't have to spend any real money on me or get dances, they just want to sit with me at the bar and tell me about their lives.
I have a hard time shutting them down because they're all genuinely nice guys and I enjoy their company for the most part, but most of them are costing me money every time they walk in the door. There is one exception, but I think he really wants to become my sugar daddy and is just trying to tempt me into it.
I also have a hard time dancing on stage or giving lap dances to anyone I feel like I know well. It's like I have sexy mode and friend mode, and never the twain shall meet...
Anyone else like this? How did you get over it? I know I need to be more strict with my time, but my heart still sinks whenever a regular of mine comes in. I'm so much happier dancing for strangers...Argh!




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. Fuck that.



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