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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    Good to ho...LoL! I dont know if that was a typo cause the g and h are right next to each other, but I love it

    For some its not a looks thing, but a preference thing. Just like some prefer not to see a guy who is morbidly obese, or someone who is under a certain age, or disabled (on my mind since I just had a date with a guy who is disabled, which went awesome btw!) or any other number of things.

    It may be a history thing...after having many bad experiences with one type of guy, they just choose to lower their odds of those bad experiences and not see that particular type of guy anymore...yes they may well and likely are missing out on some great guys, but at the same time, they may feel the risk based on past experience isnt worth it. Or they just cant get into a mode and even act like they want to be around the guy or bring themselves to be comfortable with him.

    All are I think valid reasons to not see a guy based on certain criteria...the whole point here is to provide pleasure, and if one goes into meeting a guy knowing they arent going to be at their best with him, then hes going to sense that vibe and its not going to be a great date. Better that he see someone who wholeheartedly is willing and able and wants to see him, than someone who just wants to get it over with.

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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    the only reason why i wouldn't wanna see them is the likelihood of them having enormous (too enormous) packages is a lot higher than with any other race and that's my biggest fear lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    the only reason why i wouldn't wanna see them is the likelihood of them having enormous (too enormous) packages is a lot higher than with any other race and that's my biggest fear lol
    Ive said it before, and Ill always say it...its such a myth

    The smallest sized guys Ive ever been with were black.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Ive said it before, and Ill always say it...its such a myth

    The smallest sized guys Ive ever been with were black.
    me too... BUT also the biggest sized guys.. actually the biggest one was a cuban guy.

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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    i read a thread on another site that was about this issue but i don't want to link it, because it's so negative.

    but really, i just came in to lmao at someone suggesting bgclive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    me too... BUT also the biggest sized guys.. actually the biggest one was a cuban guy.
    Im with you on this...my FWB is Cuban...Thankfully, he knows how to handle his size.

    I still remember the first time he pulled it out, I literally said "You want to put that *WHERE?!"
    That was 6 years ago...we're still cracking each other up and having fun

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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    Every black men ive ever slept with was big. The AA im seeing in my personal life is GIGANTIC. I almost feel like i should pay him! Ooooowww!

    Anyways, ive never met a small dick AA.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DanceMami View Post
    I didnt take the time to read the whole thread, but after reading a few...i was ledt speechless!
    How does an escort turn down money based on looks? Hell, i saw a (very nice,sweet,caring,professional) man more than once who was over wait, had a hard time catching his breath, had an ittybitty tiny penis, and took FOREVER to get off. BUT i made my money. I would have LOVED to see a black man instead. But bottom line is i made my money.
    If u gor bills to pay.... Do what ya gotta do.
    I have never had a problem with any of my black clients. They actually didnt gross me out and they paid with no problems.
    I only date black men and i will admit....there are some bad apples. But if u screen well, u should be good to ho.
    LMFAO!

    Is this some sort of joke? Are you serious? How does an escort turn down a client based on looks? It's very fucking simple. Believe it or not it is very easy to do when you are NOT desperate for cash and can afford to. I have certain rules : I will NOT see an morbidly obese client / a disabled guy or an african american guy.It is not because they are big down their either. It is a personal preference like another poster pointed out. You are used to fucking big dicks and prefer big dick guys - a lot of ladies do not want that. They want to stay as tight as they can so when they leave the business they will still have a cervix. Trust me if you think that all the ladies in this business are willing to do anything and everything for money they you're in for a rude awakening. We're not all that desperate. A lot of us have greate reputations in our area and make good money without doing everything under the sun. Ugh Seriously nuff said.

    I feel sorry for anyone who takes the "Just do it! That is MONEY" advice.

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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.
    No it is not. That is how things are in the wonderful world of escorting. Each woman IS her own business and makes the rules as she sees fit. There is no union and there such is no racist police to tell you what's racist and what's not. I like that as independent we can pretty much do whatever we want. We're above the law --- until we get busted that is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.
    I didn't read the entire thread, because I thought the same. However, I did contribute, which would have fallen in the "stereotyping" catagory.

    You brought to my attention what I did, I'm not like that (try not to be anyway) and I deleted my post. Thank you for making me a better person today

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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    I have an article about this on my blog/classifieds site, because this is an interesting topic. I was reading some more on this and there were some brothas who were really upset that some escorts didnt see black men. Like they wanted to start a civil rights movement for something that is border line illegal. They need to just suck it up and go get married or something because its not that serious bro. heres the link to my article

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    It would be interesting if prostitution was legal..... Would this constitute a violation of someones civil rights? is it in Nevada?
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    Well lets hope some dudes dont get the bright idea to try and protest in Nevada.

    Quote Originally Posted by mikef View Post
    It would be interesting if prostitution was legal..... Would this constitute a violation of someones civil rights? is it in Nevada?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DanceMami View Post
    I didnt take the time to read the whole thread, but after reading a few...i was ledt speechless!
    How does an escort turn down money based on looks? Hell, i saw a (very nice,sweet,caring,professional) man more than once who was over wait, had a hard time catching his breath, had an ittybitty tiny penis, and took FOREVER to get off. BUT i made my money. I would have LOVED to see a black man instead. But bottom line is i made my money.
    If u gor bills to pay.... Do what ya gotta do.
    I have never had a problem with any of my black clients. They actually didnt gross me out and they paid with no problems.
    I only date black men and i will admit....there are some bad apples. But if u screen well, u should be good to ho.
    I totally feel you on this babe! I only date black men to and you're right. Some bad apples but every race has them. I'd never turn down anybody escorting unless my life was threatend or something very strange about the situation OR if they just were unable to perform well enough for me to get the job done.

    I put in one of my ads that I will see any race and I've never had a decrease in clients. In fact one time I had an old guy actually pay me to have sex with a black guy in front of him! Just some weird fetish he had of wanting to see a white woman fucked by a black man.

    I'm sure some guys are turned off that the escort they are seeing has been with a black man but I gotta ask, are you surprised?? I mean we are in the year 2012 now and it's so common compared to 20-30 years ago. Pretty soon we'll all be one race. Unless your a rich guy going for the top of the line escorts you probably shouldn't be THAT picky!

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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    What difference does it make? Pick your clientele according to your criteria, whatever they might be.

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    My issue with the whole "white clients wont see ladies who see xyz clients" thing is this: an escort shouldn't be discussing her clients with other clients. EVER!

    As for the black clients themselves they just need to get over it. There are so many escorts out there who will see anyone regardless of race.

    The escorts who are scared of the pimps and "gangstas"- client screening goes a long way. If a man is rude on the phone he is going to be worse in person. If he sounds like a Lil Wayne wannabe over the phone - don't see him! The lack of common sense in this industry is astounding.

    I've NEVER had an issue with my black clients...or for that matter my Indian clients (who also get a bad rap) because I screen, screen, screen! Then again, I charge enough to weed out the losers of any race.


    Wait, I just realized this thread is over a year old. Why was this dug up?
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    Default Re: Escorting: to see or not to see African American males

    When it comes down to it. Do whats best for you. And only you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    And come to think of it, when I danced I used to know girls who wouldn't even DANCE for black men.

    wtf?
    that's me. It's not that I won't dance for them it's that I won't talk to them. If a black guy waived money n said let's do a dance of course I would. But in my mind not only can I not stand talking to most of them in the club they never have money and if they do they are chap with it. Never worth it. On the other hand when lil Wayne came to my club I was his main girl and we had fun/ I made money

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    This thread is.... Rascist & stereotypical.
    How about you go look up the rates of stds/HIV in blacks and then let's see how much you want to FUCK THEM for money. Being a cam girl is nice because you have a computer for a barrier. In the real world we aren't as protected. The small amount of money they bring is not worth the higher risk. you guys can debate all you want but rate of risk comes down to numbers and they aren't in aa/blacks favor.

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    hxxp://movies.netflix.com/ WiMovie/House_of_Numbers/ 70125403?trkid=2361637

    False positives are more the case when it comes to those numbers. damn near any symptom can trigger a false positive. There are plenty of cases when the person walks into a doctors office one month/year they are H.I.V. positive then the next time they walk in doctors office they are H.I.V. negative, or they go to different doctors, and get totally different results.

    point being its a numbers game.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dddallas View Post
    How about you go look up the rates of stds/HIV in blacks and then let's see how much you want to FUCK THEM for money. Being a cam girl is nice because you have a computer for a barrier. In the real world we aren't as protected. The small amount of money they bring is not worth the higher risk. you guys can debate all you want but rate of risk comes down to numbers and they aren't in aa/blacks favor.
    Last edited by Nsa1nightstands; 02-10-2012 at 05:07 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tabithacooks View Post
    My issue with the whole "white clients wont see ladies who see xyz clients" thing is this: an escort shouldn't be discussing her clients with other clients. EVER!

    As for the black clients themselves they just need to get over it. There are so many escorts out there who will see anyone regardless of race.

    The escorts who are scared of the pimps and "gangstas"- client screening goes a long way. If a man is rude on the phone he is going to be worse in person. If he sounds like a Lil Wayne wannabe over the phone - don't see him! The lack of common sense in this industry is astounding.

    I've NEVER had an issue with my black clients...or for that matter my Indian clients (who also get a bad rap) because I screen, screen, screen! Then again, I charge enough to weed out the losers of any race.


    Wait, I just realized this thread is over a year old. Why was this dug up?
    Because the NSA1n stds want's to promote their site. With links to and from SW. He/she is obviously trying to get his/her name out there. No different really from people putting sites in their signature. It's free advertising.

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    I think I contribute to the topic at hand. On this thread and every other thread I have posted on, Im not spamming to the point its annoying. I get hits on my site about this topic at least 5 times a day! so people do want to know about this.

    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Because the NSA1n stds want's to promote their site. With links to and from SW. He/she is obviously trying to get his/her name out there. No different really from people putting sites in their signature. It's free advertising.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nsa1nightstands View Post
    I think I contribute to the topic at hand. On this thread and every other thread I have posted on, Im not spamming to the point its annoying. I get hits on my site about this topic at least 5 times a day! so people do want to know about this.
    I wasn't worried or even complaining about you overly spamming. I was just answering the question. I'm also well aware that guys will go to your site to ask. I expected to see the protest or civil rights movement as you said it but when I got over there all I saw was 1 single comment. If your site gets hit for this topic 5 times a day then that's saying that's it's really not that much of a loss to the providers that refuse services to AA men. Their body their choice.

    Again I have no issues with you posting wherever you decide to.

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    NSA..to think that you are arguing rights to a escorts is LOL...I have posted how I feel about said topic but because YOU are making a deal of it makes me want to watch.

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