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    this short, smelly indian custy was massaging my arms....and left bright red marks- almost scars but not deep.


    5 managers tried to track him down, he left and is now banned from my club.


    my arms hurt

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    Did you tell him to stop?

    I would have clocked him.

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    at some point yes, but because the music is so god awfully loud he didn't hear me.

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    I've had this happen often with Indians. Because of it I hate Indians and would never date one, or have as little contact with any of them. Racist? Perhaps but many bad experiences turned me against them.

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    wait... he was massaging your arms and it left marks? like he was massaging them then started grabbing hard? or had somethign weird on his hands that made him burn?

    i have also had many bad experiences with indian men. they are usually last on the list of demographics i like to approach. when i do have to deal with them, i try to get as much money up front as possible and as soon as they show any evidence of being a perv i dance as far away from them as possible. ironically, my ex boyfriend from south india was one of the most respecful men i have ever met.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Gah, I stopped dancing for Indian men. I tell them no even when they ask. Sure I loose money, but Its not worth for me where its all nude high-contact clubs - screw that. By no, I dont smile or say "maybe later" its a damn no. Last time I tried to break my "rule" and danced for one due to the night being empty, he tried to take off his clothes, grabbed me harshly whenever I was an arm distance away, tried to smell my pussy, tried to finger my ass - no thank you. Sorry you went through that, I just aviod them.

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    Sorry to read about what happened to you. I also have to agree with the other ladies about some Indian men as I hate to over-generalize. I have just not had any good luck with them either. I find that they are very grabby, cheap, always solicit for sex, and think that they are above the club rules.

    I, also, no longer allow guys to give me a massage. For one, the more guys touch me, the more I break out literally (no thanks). Two, most guys have no idea how to massage and use this as a line to try and cop a feel. Lastly, many of them end up digging their nails in my back or applying too much pressure to my muscles causing me great pain.

    It's just not worth it to try and get a dance from certain people.

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    I don't dance for black guys (pimps), Indian / Middle Eastern guys (grabby and ask if I'm a prostitute) and also um. A lot of juicer type guys. I'm pretty choosy about who I dance for now. And I don't really care if that sounds racist. I really don't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luscious sadie View Post
    I don't dance for black guys (pimps), Indian / Middle Eastern guys (grabby and ask if I'm a prostitute) and also um. A lot of juicer type guys. I'm pretty choosy about who I dance for now. And I don't really care if that sounds racist. I really don't.
    I had several black regulars but all of them were professional and older. In general I stayed away from younger men of all races and yes men who looked like thugs of any race. I don't like Middle Eastern men either and had the same problems with them I had with Indians. What are juicer types? I've never heard of that.

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    sadly 99% of indian men were like this in my experiance.

    you know what you do?

    dirty hustle them.

    get em into champagne rooms, and walk out after they get grabby. easy money.

    dont let any man grab on you or hurt you. shout, hit claw punch or holler for a bouncer.

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    Thanks for all the advice ladies.

    In short, it was like he was twisting the skin on my arm. In san antonio, champagne rooms (at least at my club) are non existent.

    I'll make it a rule to never dance for any indian/middle eastern man ever. Not after this.

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    then get your money up front with dudes your worried about.

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