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    I started working about 2 weeks ago at a club in my area. Im fairly attractive, slim and slightly alternative looking. I always find it easy to talk to people so I dont know if thats the problem.
    I normally get tipped atleast $15-20 on stage even though I still cant do many tricks and my floor routiene

    But I still cant seem to sell dances! I dont know what im doing wrong, Im starting to think that Its because Im flat chested (which I am) or ugly, or not a nice body
    Ugh its really getting me down '

    What am I doing wrong!

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    Have you been unable to sell even ONE lap dance in these entire two weeks? If that's the case, then perhaps this isn't the right industry for you.

    If you're selling dances but just not as many as the other girls or as you'd like, then read up on Hustle Hut. Generally, you have to sit and chat with customers for a while to build a rapport with them before selling them dances. I give them 2-3 songs before popping the question, and I try and lead the conversation toward that so I don't just 'wanna dance' them in the middle of a random subject. Since you're new, it's okay to just 'wanna dance' them when there's a lull in the conversation just while you hone your hustling skills though.

    Be friendly with customers but remind them that you're sexy and they want dances from you. Keep conversation light. Smile, make eye contact, make light physical contact (touch their arm/shoulder), use your body language (sit facing them, touch knees), etc.

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: What Am I doing wrong?

    I can usually pull off "wanna dance" hustle. I just straight up assume to sale from the minute I walk into the door until the end of the night when I'm counting $$$

    I have seen some UGLY ass girls make more than the hottest girls in the club. It's all about the hustle. Read up in HH and maybe get Strip and Grow Rich. Even though I don't really HUSTLE anymore I still identify colours and use that to keep them back there.

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    Default Re: What Am I doing wrong?

    Seriously, go to the very first page of Hustle Hut and start reading!!! Take notes, tape them to your locker... This is what SW is made for. Just go back to page 1 and read until your eyes bleed!

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    Nothing is wrong with you honey, selling dances is not easy when you start in this industry even for the big breasted drop dead gorgeous girls and let's not forget that you are beginnig at a time where the economy, therefore the stripping industry are not exactly at there best to say the least ! Hang in there, keep on approaching customers, you'll find strategies to sell, don't take rejection personally ( see it as a business and nothing else otherwise you will get serious self confidence damages and you are better off not dancing ) and if you think improving your looks, might improve your income then do it, don't hesitate. Like I said it's a business and it works like any other business: you have to analyze you environnment, your competition, set you goals and find the smartest, most efficient ways to reach them ( and you should be able to do it without damaging or hurting yourself and or others)

    Good luck !

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    I'm also pretty new and while I know I still have a lot to learn about selling dances, I do manage to sell at least five a night. My thing has definitely been to chat the customer up first and then make him at least want to believe I'M the one who wants to dance with Him. I'll tell him I would LOVE to see what it's like to dance for him and if he's the one to ask I can usually double the dance if I act like I've just been asked to prom ("Oh my god, awww, I'd love that so much!" etc.).

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    Default Re: What Am I doing wrong?

    I was slightly over dramatic, I do manage to sell some dances but doesnt seem to be as much as the other girls
    It doesnt help that the dances in my club are $80 for 10 minutes. Im sick of men trying to bargain with me and get outraged at the price
    I've been obbsessivly reading HH and am making slightly more money every time I work, so i guess I'll just focus on that and getting my hussle up
    thanks ladies

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    Default Re: What Am I doing wrong?

    $80 for ten minutes!!! I would have a very hard time selling that too!

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    Expensive dances are very tough to sell (ours are €70 for 2 songs) but I find high prices can attract people with more money, and the VIP can be easier to sell too.

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    Default Re: What Am I doing wrong?

    It doesnt help that the dances in my club are $80 for 10 minutes.
    So dances are roughly $40 a piece? Just say that. Two dance minimum.

    Don't ever sell yourself short and lower the price below the $80.




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    Default Re: What Am I doing wrong?

    $80 for ten minutes!!! I would have a very hard time selling that too!
    I worked at a club where ten minutes was $100. A good selling point was that it was it worked out to be just as good of a deal as the 2-4-1's for $60 they only ran every so often, since those 2-4-1 dances lasted for about 6 minutes.

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