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    Default Ever actually enjoy giving a dance to a customer?

    Obviously the main point of the dance is for the gal to make money and not to have fun/get turned on/etc. But do you girls ever actually get into the dance or is it strictly just routine and bam bam bam one after the other? If there have been incidents where you did enjoy giving the dance, what made it enjoyable?
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    Default Re: Ever actually enjoy giving a dance to a customer?

    At the club? Nah. Routine.

    At home? Yes.

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    I usually need to feel a connection with the client to feel more comfortable with eye contact and pretending Im having a good time. Usually when there is a connection, the client is already attracted to me, which makes me job easier and it just goes with the flow of the dances. I do think of my next moves but its way more relaxed.

    When there is no or little connection, my mind goes into "1,2,3,4,5" mode, and I think what Im doing step by step, with fake giggles, and fake talk and pretending to be enjoying my time and rarely actually talk, have eye contact while dancing etc, since its more akward for me and these guys just want to get down straight for the action which isnt the way I handle my dances.

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    Default Re: Ever actually enjoy giving a dance to a customer?

    Yes. I loved dancing for my boyfriend when he visited me one night. Lots of fun!

    For any other customer? Eh. Not really. I mean, I want them to have a good time, and when it's a nice guy who's spending easy and not being an ass I do have an alright time....but it's still 'work' y'know? So not 100% enjoyable.



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    Yes, whenever the guy is polite, respectful and enjoyable. I like the fact that some guys who are nice/respectable/interesting enough to gain my time for free(IRL) come into my job and connect with me then pay me to entertain them. I love dancing for the guys whose hands/movements I don't have to police. It's easier to dance for a guy and give a good dance to someone you don't believe, according to their history, is gonna try anything. I have one customer who is an electrician/landlord and he is a joy. His conversation is always good and entertaining and he always keeps his hands to himself. However, he is full of innuendo and properly timed banter when dancing to the amusement of both of us.
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    Yah I enjoy when the guys respectful, doesn't push my boundries, and pays me well. Happiest. Dancer. Ever.
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    I actually really enjoy my job 95% of the time. I like being sexy and when guys think I'm sexy. I think I give very sensual lapdances (as long as the guy is being respectful by not being overly grabby/licking/biting/kissing) and will actually close my eyes and get into them. I'm probably one of the rare dancers that gets an ego boost if a guy is obviously enjoying my dances. Just don't come on me!!

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    Normally, I enjoy my job a lot, including the lap dances. However, if a guy becomes rude, disrespectful, is unhygenic, or is wearing something that is painful (coarse jeans, large belt buckles, etc), doesnt pay, and so on, I don't really like it as much and it becomes much more of a routine or even a chore.
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    Do you mean to tell me that when a dancer used to tell me how much more she enjoyed dancing for me than anyone else, she might not have been being sincere?
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    I don't think it's beyond the realm of possibility that a dancer can actually enjoy her job. The problem with asking a question like this is that the next question is going to be something stupid like "do you ever get turned on grinding your ass into the lap of a total stranger".

    I go to the club to have a good time. I think I do a pretty good job of finding dancers who enjoy the job for what it is. I don't fool myself into thinking that any of them would be doing it for free.
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    Actually last week there were two extremely hot girls at the club that I got to dance for & I was soo turned on making them moan from grinding on them. It definitely was one of those times I love being a stripper. However generally I would have to say I don't get the least bit excited giving a dance as much as I do enjoy teasing & turning another person on it's not doing anything for me aside from making me money which in a way turns me on, but not the way I am with some1 I'm personally sexually attracted to.
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    I did last week. I enjoyed it so much that I....

    People are people. Even if I'm a hardened stripper, I'm still a person. And I'm still attracted to people. And they're still attracted to me. And with LA's super high contact dances.... BOOM. I enjoyed those two VIPs more than he did, probably.

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    Yes, and for a variety of reasons. Knowing how hot I am to a guy is a turn on. Piles and piles of cash are a turn on. I am a naturally very sexual person, if there is any chemistry at all, and he doesn't ruin it by acting like an idiot, then yes, it can be a very sexy experience for me too!

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    I think the true fact of the matter for the girls I am friendly with is they are delighted to dance for customers they can tolerate. Entering with plenty of money and minimum of drama certainly makes a customer less intolerable.
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    I enjoy the game of selling a customer. Can I stir up an engaging conversation? Will I pursued him into the vip room? Are my upselling techniques going to turn into hours in vip? I am more motivated to get to know my client on a personal level when the money is flowing in. The more money and time he spends the more entertaining and fun I am.

    Bottom line. I enjoy the game.

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    Btw I wasn't saying that a dancer would dance for free. Was just wondering if a dancer ever thinks "Hey I'm getting paid and actually having a good time doing this, win!"
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    If the guy is respectable, not handsy, and we are joking around (not in a sexual sense) then yeah its fun. its not fun for the super handsy rude custies-then im giving looks to other dancers or regulars so they know how awful they are

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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    Do you mean to tell me that when a dancer used to tell me how much more she enjoyed dancing for me than anyone else, she might not have been being sincere?
    Yeah and when people say "Have a nice day" there is the slight possibility that they might not actually care if you have a nice day or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slin View Post
    Btw I wasn't saying that a dancer would dance for free.
    I didn't mean to imply that you did Slin. That was just my way of saying that I know quite a few dancers who enjoy their work but that it is, in fact, still work.

    I am actually pleasantly surprised at the number of honest and positive responses from the ladies here.
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    Default Re: Ever actually enjoy giving a dance to a customer?

    if i'm making boatloads of money, then yes, i enjoy giving dances to a customer

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    ...I know quite a few dancers who enjoy their work but that it is, in fact, still work.
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    I suspect that we'd all like to think that we have, in some small way, made a special dancer's night just a bit more tolerable due to time spent with us.


    The first time I remember a dancer walking away from me after our time together, she had a huge smile on her face. I was quite smug, figuring that she must have had a grand old time with me. It wasn't until I got out into the parking lot that it dawned on me that she might have been smiling like that because she was happy as hell to get away from me. Talk about a humbling experience!

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    If they're hot, white, tatted and under 35
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    Quote Originally Posted by lopaw View Post

    It wasn't until I got out into the parking lot that it dawned on me that she might have been smiling like that because she was happy as hell to get away from me. Talk about a humbling experience!
    Over the years I have learned that the best way to approach just about any situation in life, including lap dances with hot strippers, is with a little bit of humility...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Over the years I have learned that the best way to approach just about any situation in life, including lap dances with hot strippers, is with a little bit of humility...

    lol - so true!

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