Hi newbie here and with a stripper girlfriend. If I have posted this on the wrong forum, please move it to the right forum. If I have broken any forum rules and want to ban me, do so. But for the love of God, let this thread run its course. I really need help.
My girlfriend (whom I love very much) is a stripper. I don't mind at all and I will be visiting her at work soon. I know she does it for the money because after work I am the one she comes back too. So that is not the problem at all. The problem is that she gets drunk, a lot. Like every day she works and she works a lot. Just these past week she only took off one day from working and she still got fucked up. Don't get me wrong, she is not the throwing up passing out kind of drunk but she slurs her speech. I have tried to talk to her about this in the past (but I always bring it up when she is drunk. Lately, I have been smart about it and wait until the next day when she is sober. Yet she still gets mad or completely ignores it) and it does not ends well. She is really mean when she is drunk, calling me names, telling me to fuck off, it's her life and she does what she wants. Even though in the past she has promised me that she won't get drunk at work and if she does she won't get drunk to the point of falling down (She has fallen down twice in the past). Wrong. She has broken these promises. She has told me that she knows getting drunk at work is wrong yet she still does it. Drunkenly she has recognized she is an alcoholic (mind you, she is a very functional one) but what I am worried about is her health and how, maybe not now, she will grab a beer as soon as she wakes up. I pray not! It will kill me if she does. And I will help her if she needs it but she does not really recognize she has a problem, she will just laught it off, ignore it or get mad at me. All I do is try to make her understand that what she is doing is hurting me and ,in the long run, it will hurt her. I know there's not a damn thing I can do for her (as much as I wish it was different) and I can't help her unless she wants to be helped. I guess I just need some words of encouragement. This is the only place I can talk about it. My family has met her and they absolutely love her, they don't know what she does for a living or her "problems". Leaving her is not an option unless she wants to end our relationship. That's all for now.
Thank you for reading and have a good night.
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